Ladies, is it better for a guy to think he's too big or too small?

Personally I don't enjoy being with people who don't think. It worries me. She was NOT a keeper.

As for the original question--- Depends on the man.
 
Personally I don't enjoy being with people who don't think. It worries me. She was NOT a keeper.

It concerns me that a growing number of people think playing dumb makes them hotter.

As for the original question--- Depends on the man.

How so? What variances would impact your reaction?