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Up until recently, I’ve been pretty vanilla in the bedroom but last year, I started hooking up with a guy who is really subby in a super masculine way. He wants me to hurt him. Whipping, spanking, ball gag, blindfold, handcuffs, and forcefully stretch his ass with pretty much anything including my D.
Up until now, I’ve always checked with my bottom guys if they are doing ok, as it is in my nature. He has now asked me to stop checking he is OK, and just force myself upon him.
- Any ideas about consent? He doesn’t want to have any method of stopping me. I feel it’s a grey area.
- Also - any resources you have on learning how to be more dominant, when I’m actually a nice guy who cares that the other guy is having a nice time too!
Up until now, I’ve always checked with my bottom guys if they are doing ok, as it is in my nature. He has now asked me to stop checking he is OK, and just force myself upon him.
- Any ideas about consent? He doesn’t want to have any method of stopping me. I feel it’s a grey area.
- Also - any resources you have on learning how to be more dominant, when I’m actually a nice guy who cares that the other guy is having a nice time too!
