Leo Giamani

The amount of chronically online, porn-obsessed losers in this thread who are willing to throw themselves in front of a bus for a problematic straight man continuing to be problematic is so hilarious. He’s not going to fuck you, dumbass.
 
The amount of chronically online, porn-obsessed losers in this thread who are willing to throw themselves in front of a bus for a problematic straight man continuing to be problematic is so hilarious. He’s not going to fuck you, dumbass.
Honey from what I've seen in my short time here, that population extends far beyond this thread :joy::joy::joy:
 
THIS guy didn't become famous in gay porn in the 8MM bad soundtrack schlep to the porn theater age, he was on the Internet. He may not have gone to MIT but he HAD to be smart enough to know his increasing fame (and I'm sure salary) might mean he'd be recognized everywhere. And gay Fanarazzi may spot him and snap him. OF COURSE no one should run up when a guy's on a date or with friends or family and say hey aren't you that gay porn star I love you, but the truth is he could've worked installing cable boxes or making latte's for min wage, but he made a choice to make way more $$ doing this at a time when the can't ever take it back permanency of it was WELL known, so now he just has to deal with it.
*and it's not like he retired a decade ago with a wife n kids, he tried to make a solo comeback like 2 years ago no? Sorry but outrage or umbrage doesn't hold water for me here.
 
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Don’t want to get too deep into it, but basically I worked somewhere he always came in and he was just a douchebag. One time outside of work, I genuinely and privately, told him I was a fan. And he literally REPORTED me for “harassing him” because I told him I liked his work.
Maybe you should look into your own actions before you cancel someone that you only met a few times. You brought up someone's sexual history at your own workplace and you decided to take it upon yourself to make the situation an issue because he didn't need to be sexually harassed by you. Just because he did some videos a decade ago does not mean he wants to be a public sexual figure that you can remind him of in a place he doesn't want to be recognized. I highly doubt you only said you were only a fan. You brought up things that were absolutely inappropriate in a public setting. If he frequented the place, he now doesn't want to return because of you.
 
Maybe you should look into your own actions before you cancel someone that you only met a few times. You brought up someone's sexual history at your own workplace and you decided to take it upon yourself to make the situation an issue because he didn't need to be sexually harassed by you. Just because he did some videos a decade ago does not mean he wants to be a public sexual figure that you can remind him of in a place he doesn't want to be recognized. I highly doubt you only said you were only a fan. You brought up things that were absolutely inappropriate in a public setting. If he frequented the place, he now doesn't want to return because of you.
Your imagination is in overdrive and your personal attack on this poster is unwarranted. Sit down.
 
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As someone who was wanking to that era of porn in college here are my thoughts. The early 2000s(2000-2009ish I would say) the internet was taking off but I don’t think many of the str8 bros that were gay4pay knew internet porn would be like it is today. Like from what I understand most of all the early Sean Cody models now try to hide what they did with the exception of a few. I think back then it was I’ll do this movie or scene but no one will find out. You have to remember the good ole internets even then was still secretive in some way not like it was today, so it still was possible to hide stuff. Remember VHS tapes were still being sold until like the mid 2000s lol. Internet porn was just starting to bubble. As a matter of fact I think torrents sites were still the best place to view or download porn then. Sean Cody, Tandy Blue, Corban Fisher this was there heyday but they were still niche. The internet and no one being safe began to hit its stride like late 2009. Now keep in mind I’m not saying the internet wasn’t huge because it was it was just things could still be hidden then especially in the gay porn world.

So basically I’m saying It is reasonable for someone to get into porn then and still think they would have a private life and people not noticing them. When the initial decision was made to do porn, not now of course.
 
Agreed, and a lot of guys did get away with it.I would say they still managed to maintain that anonymity, but the magic of AI reverse image search has now made that impossible. Now everyone can get found out if they have a social media profile and did porn (doesn't matter when).

Back then, they couldn't have known how we progressed today. But it's an example to always think through the consequences of your actions before you commit them because they can have a lasting impact in your life even decades after the fact.
 
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Of course you're only telling your side of the story. I feel like there's probably more to the story that you're leaving out to make yourself look like the victim in the situation. It sounds more likely that you did way more than compliment his work to illicit that type of response.

Just observing the behavior of people on this site alone, a lot of gay men are always crossing personal boundaries especially when it come to sex workers, and then when you get checked you want to cry ab
Maybe you should look into your own actions before you cancel someone that you only met a few times. You brought up someone's sexual history at your own workplace and you decided to take it upon yourself to make the situation an issue because he didn't need to be sexually harassed by you. Just because he did some videos a decade ago does not mean he wants to be a public sexual figure that you can remind him of in a place he doesn't want to be recognized. I highly doubt you only said you were only a fan. You brought up things that were absolutely inappropriate in a public setting. If he frequented the place, he now doesn't want to return because of you.
I wish I could give you the satisfaction of telling you there’s more to the story, but there really isn’t. If I was in the wrong, I wouldn’t be posting about it. That’d be embarrassing.
 
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