Leveraging a big cock pre internet?

[Pierced Bollocks]

Back then I didn't know how big I was. If someone said it was big I assumed they were just trying to flatter me.

Yeah me too. I thought- and still think- I was average. When I saw smaller cocks in the locker room I just thought that they were smaller not average. My girlfriend thought I was "Massive" but she wasn't very sexually experienced and my best mate- who was my occasional wank buddy- also thought I was a big guy (His was a longer kind of wand, mine a shorter but much wider stonker). The internet did exist but there was no real home access to it, it was shared terminals in college, so it was message boards, research stuff and cat memes (Funny how that's the one constant throughout the history of internet). Porn must have been there but we had content walls to hide all the fun from us.

When I see cock size surveys I always seem to be one increment above the norm but to me I'm average and if you are bigger than me then your a big cock dude.

 

[Pierced Bollocks]

Must also say, even in the everybody-on-line era of the noughties my hook ups were meeting people in bath houses and bars and bath houses and sex clubs and, hey; bath houses!

The internet for me was piss poor for finding hook ups. I gave up on Gaydar because I'd get hassled by bozos with no profile pics or content. I can only remember meeting one guy in real life from a site (Squirt), we arranged a sesh in the bath house in Dewsbury and had some banging sex. I did use a few sites to keep in touch with sex buddies who I'd met from "Crusing in real life" who I didn't want on my Facebook page. Honourable mention again for Squirt which let you leave feedback on the profile page of guy's you'd screwed. When anyone said that I was hot and good at sex I got a nice ego trip out of it!

 

[Tight_End_SC]

We had to actually meet face to face for the most part. When I was in my early 20s (early 1980s), I lived in Washington, DC. The city of course had several bars and dance clubs which was pretty much where we had an opportunity to meet.

We wore tight Levi jeans that certainly would either show off a nice butt or the ever-loving bulge. Short answer to OP's question from me is 'you saw the big dick bulge in real life'. Most major cities in the US had the gay magazine where local escorts would advertise if that was the option under consideration. They listed their dick size in the advertisement.

Pre internet life actually was not too bad. Imagine actually having to find a piece of paper to give a guy the number to your land line? haha. Memory lane for sure.

 

[discreetguy99]

^This--though I don't mind the styles young people wear. It has always changed over time. Remember emo & saggers?



Yes.



Yes they were. The sexual revolution of the 60s & 70s changed everything--not for all women but for many of my generation. It liberated many men as well--not something often reported. Gay liberation happened, too. There was no LGBTQIA+ back then, just gay and lesbian.

Boomer here. Between locker room, tight jeans & shorts, speedos and skinny dipping it took no time at all for everyone to learn I had a big cock. People talk. Word spread. From 18 I was banging girlfriends then most of my older sister's friends who wanted it then women from the pool where I lifeguarded summers. College was a fuckfest. I worked at a posh big city hotel part time first as a hop then at reception. Almost immediately women began inviting me to their rooms after hours. Tips turned into sex work. Most of the women were middle-aged 30s-60s and married. I was 19 first time I bulled for a couple there. Word spread. Money was good. Then as now hotels are the nexus of planet sex--especially secret sex lives.

I didn't fuck a guy until the end of senior year. He flirted with me at reception for a couple days then invited me to his room. Cute slim experienced fem twink bottom he taught me how to top a guy without hurting him. I was 22 he 20. Shortly after that the second guy I fucked had been a college classmate all four years who wore women's designer jeans and colorful tops, subtle make up and jewelry but not over the top. He was the first guy I fucked who identified as a woman. We had a thing the last few months of school. He had a wardrobe full of women's clothes he wore in private at home. Great guy. Sweet girl.

So yeah it was easy to "leverage" my big cock and continues to be 45+ years later. There has always been interest in it and though I have occasionally done on-line dating most of my hook ups come by word of mouth which I call referrals.

Awesome. Thanks for the stroll down (your) memory lane.

As I’ve been saying for years, regardless of size, a sure I’ll give it a try mentality goes a looooong way.

 

[discreetguy99]

The last post reminded me of something:

One of the saddest things I’ve ever heard was a conversation with a gay man who was in his 90s but had zero clue he was gay until he was in his 60s iirc. This was around 2001/2 so I imagine he’s gone by now.

He was born and raised in a tiny rural town in one of the Dakotas I believe, joined the military right after high school and married his high school sweetheart.

He was 6’2”, with a truly enormous unpumped cock, and was a goddammed stallion when he was younger.

By the time he realized he was gay he was basically impotent and never really got to put that baseball bat to use.

He also was married and monogamous for most of his life so he never slept with many women either.

Talk about a waste but he was pretty chipper about the whole thing.

The one rebellious thing he did was pretty early on in his military career he started nude modeling and had accumulated a large number of naked photos of himself. I think that helped.

God I haven’t thought about that in ages.

 

[Alex22876]

There seems to be a pretty consistent theme here. I didn’t know how hung I was, or in fact if I was really hung. I thought I was big, but didn’t have a real comparison. I had porn mags and dvds, but the video quality wasn’t amazing. I felt like I was the same size as all those guys though. You have to remember though , we think there is exaggeration not, but this is nothing. Now they round up or fluff the measurement a bit, back then they just stated that all these guys were 12”s. The foot long dong. Well I knew I wasn’t 12”s, so yes I second guess my size. It wasn’t if I was big, I was fairly confident about being above average. It was more about being huge or the elusive “her biggest.” I will say, I never saw anyone my size in the locker room when I moved to NYC, so it slowly started to click.

The other point about women being more open to their own sexuality and personally owning their own sexual enjoyment. I do think this is the case, particularly broadly within culture. Yes, there were always some women that lived the life, but they were often stigmatized or simply called a slut. Nowadays, women privately enjoy porn (and experiance visually big cock) and much more readily use toys. The toys thing allows them to experience different sizes and shapes in ways that aren’t possible with one night stands or even somewhat steady partners.

I always joke, if times were different and I was 25 now, I would be doing camming and onlyfans instead of bartending like I did then. A lot more fun and free time, and way more upside.

48 years old lived in NYC for 2000s
6’4” 190lbs

 

[discreetguy99]

There seems to be a pretty consistent theme here. I didn’t know how hung I was, or in fact if I was really hung. I thought I was big, but didn’t have a real comparison. I had porn mags and dvds, but the video quality wasn’t amazing. I felt like I was the same size as all those guys though. You have to remember though , we think there is exaggeration not, but this is nothing. Now they round up or fluff the measurement a bit, back then they just stated that all these guys were 12”s. The foot long dong. Well I knew I wasn’t 12”s, so yes I second guess my size. It wasn’t if I was big, I was fairly confident about being above average. It was more about being huge or the elusive “her biggest.” I will say, I never saw anyone my size in the locker room when I moved to NYC, so it slowly started to click.

The other point about women being more open to their own sexuality and personally owning their own sexual enjoyment. I do think this is the case, particularly broadly within culture. Yes, there were always some women that lived the life, but they were often stigmatized or simply called a slut. Nowadays, women privately enjoy porn (and experiance visually big cock) and much more readily use toys. The toys thing allows them to experience different sizes and shapes in ways that aren’t possible with one night stands or even somewhat steady partners.

I always joke, if times were different and I was 25 now, I would be doing camming and onlyfans instead of bartending like I did then. A lot more fun and free time, and way more upside.

48 years old lived in NYC for 2000s
6’4” 190lbs

Thank you for this. I have a married friend who’s been camming with women (not onlyfans) for going on 15 years. He makes a killing and gets to fuck beautiful women.

Although most if not all of them do cosplay when working so I don’t know if they’re actually beautiful. But who cares?

The women own the site and handle the logistics. He just shows up, has sex and gets paid.

 

[lapdog2001]

Thank you for this. I have a married friend who’s been camming with women (not onlyfans) for going on 15 years. He makes a killing and gets to fuck beautiful women.

Although most if not all of them do cosplay when working so I don’t know if they’re actually beautiful. But who cares?

The women own the site and handle the logistics. He just shows up, has sex and gets paid.

Where was that company when I was in my 20s, many years ago!

 

[Jacksbiguncutcock]

I'm over 65 years old. I found out early on that I have a big cock that people love and desireView attachment 160673791View attachment 160673801View attachment 160673821View attachment 160673831View attachment 160673851View attachment 160673871View attachment 160673891View attachment 160673901View attachment 160673941View attachment 160674011. No internet was necessary. I advertised it by wearing shorts and no underwear. Word of mouth got the word around.

Thanks for the likes and messages about my post. Don’t be shy in showing off your big cock. It will pay dividends!!!