Locker room issues

Hello people, I need to ask u some advice for a lil situation I'm into.

I have started going to gym after having worked out at home for a lot of time, and I'd like to start having shower in the locker room, it would save time and I think it could make me more comfortable. My problem, is that being a 21 year old gay, I'm afraid I could get hard by looking at other guys walking around naked/in their underwear. Aaaand Idk, I guess that what happens in lockers remains in lockers but I fear it could be embarassing. Should I just conceal it and maybe wait to get inside the shower stall to jerk off my load? What do you suggest me to do?
Speaking from experience: I don’t see many dicks in the changing room. Most guys don’t flaunt their cocks. Most get undressed really quick whip on the towel and shower. The same for getting dressed. By all means jerk off in the stall, I do. If you do see a nice cock getting undressed it will probably be very quick. Not long enough to get hard.
 
Speaking from experience: I don’t see many dicks in the changing room. Most guys don’t flaunt their cocks. Most get undressed really quick whip on the towel and shower. The same for getting dressed. By all means jerk off in the stall, I do. If you do see a nice cock getting undressed it will probably be very quick. Not long enough to get hard.
I rarely see anybody wrap a towel in an open-plan men's changing room.
I only wrap a towel round myself for the few seconds it takes to go from the shower cubicle to the changing cubicle when I am have to use the family changing village.
 
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Hello people, I need to ask u some advice for a lil situation I'm into.

I have started going to gym after having worked out at home for a lot of time, and I'd like to start having shower in the locker room, it would save time and I think it could make me more comfortable. My problem, is that being a 21 year old gay, I'm afraid I could get hard by looking at other guys walking around naked/in their underwear. Aaaand Idk, I guess that what happens in lockers remains in lockers but I fear it could be embarassing. Should I just conceal it and maybe wait to get inside the shower stall to jerk off my load? What do you suggest me to do?
glad too know im not alone, I have these thoughts aswell! hence why I rarely go to the gym or shower´s like these.
 
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One thing that I don't think I've seen yet in this thread is that it is not at all unusual to be alone in the locker room or just one other guy there. And, most gyms now have individual shower stalls.

All in all, the odds of seeing anyone naked for more than 10 seconds are next to nil.

About the only time and place that you'll see several naked guys in a locker room is right after a team sport game when everyone hits the showers at once.
 
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I have been goin to the gym with my boss who I now have a thing on, but when we're in the locker, we just get naked, and I don't get erections right away, unless I I get horny or suddenly have hot thoughts about him. I think you'll be fine.
 
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you’re 21, you honestly might get hard, but more often than none, the guys in the locker room aren’t there to look at everyone’s dicks. In my experience, guys, even other gays, often keep their head down and try not to cause attention to themselves because I think low key everyone is afraid of getting a boner and getting called out for it.

As a gay guy myself, I’m always afraid I’d get called out and that can lead to a dangerous thing, but I grew up in a time where being gay was something you would get beat up for. I mean I know it happens today still, but it wasn’t as accepted when I was 21 as it is now..

As for jerking off.. I’d wait till you were in the private shower.. I know when I go to men’s spas, being naked with other men can be a turn on, but you have to keep in mind the spa is for relaxation, and I have gone into the shower stall and stroked myself for a bit.. couldn’t cum, but the excitement is there.. just remember.. time and place. But always stay safe