Why is there always debating on this forum? I didn’t want to write a long essay or anything but I’ll do this only once and big warning, I guarantee some people will be offended or disagree with it. Now I couldn’t care less whether he’s racist or not, we come here to literally just share pics and talk about guys we find attractive and if people aren’t attracted to them simply don’t even comment on a thread discussing the person in question. If you are going to also start bringing politics, etc into a thread then don’t bother even writing it because nobody cares in the slightest, doesn’t affect how others find him attractive on a sex based level which is really what people are here for. There are other threads to discuss other issues, when people create threads simply to share pics (like AZ Men Nude and all those types of sites) of celebrities, models, guys, etc they find attractive and want to see more of the last thing people need is some moral debate about their personality and beliefs which is downright irrelevant.
Also as someone who isn’t an SJW I’m really not about to go into discussion at how insensitive people are becoming regarding certain issues and completely always seeking things to be outraged about constantly like it’s something they seek fun and excitement over to care so much about someone who is entirely outside of their own life and their own personal matters. I could care less about the political affiliations and beliefs of those who don’t concern me and have no influence over anybody (seriously if we’re going to start thinking that MGK is completely racist over comments made years ago and behavioural patterns, etc and actually think it matters in the grand scheme of things considering where society is at today then you have nothing to add to the conversation other than speaking outrage every single sentence.) There is a very few types of people who’d look at MGK and be like “oh he’s a racist, maybe I should be racist too.” If he is a racist (not confirming if he is or not) then he’ll just stew and simmer in his own mess if he does something immoral one day. Otherwise as far as I’m concerned his looks are still sexy (I have a wide variety of things that I personally find attractive, I’m not closed-minded) and that’s really all this thread is concerned with.
Now if he committed a massacre of black people then that would cease my interest entirely, those types of actions kill even the physical attractiveness and completely destroy someone’s image and makes their existence forfeit. He hasn’t done that and as someone who is a legal immigrant, is Gay and has dealt with oppression here in my country (Australia) even I’m not sensitive over certain topics because I just don’t see “micro-aggressions” and “racists” and “homophobes, etc” everywhere I look or actively seek to find flaws in other human beings every five seconds and be outraged about it. Society is always going to be add odds with one another over a wide variety of issues, we’ve been living alongside one another for decades handling it, we live in a world of now 7 Billion human beings, you honestly think we’re never going to have to deal with a constant cycle of people with divided opinions? When the terrible things happen (i.e something like Christchurch) we unite and deal with it and learn from it and try to ensure it doesn’t happen again. When certain sects of people are actually racists or if there’s a sect of people who are xenophobic actually try to break a balance and start trying to gain absolute power to bend the world to only their view or their view only (and this works both ways, it works with SJW beliefs, feminist beliefs, heck even the beliefs of the LGBT community) then people break them down and put them back into place. We cannot expect everyone to always be black or white, we live in a constant moral grey area and you have to learn to accept that fact.
To live in an equal society also means to live in a society with a constant balance in power and a constant balance of living with many different types of people with different views, some considered to be good or just and others to be controversial or politically incorrect. As long as somebody doesn’t sit there and actually start abusing powers or the law to oppress others or kill others based on their own beliefs then if they have those beliefs they are entitled to it so long as it doesn’t cost someone else their life or their rights. We used to be really good at learning to live amongst all types of people and then we became overly sensitive and it seems to be dividing society more than actually bringing it together. So if I know a guy who may or may not be racist, how am I 100% sure I can tell, who says something that is politically incorrect and could be deemed racist, just by saying that or saying it to me, I don’t care. He’s making comments and saying stuff but he’s not saying stuff to someone of that race directly, I’m not going to hate someone just because of their views and hey, if he happens to be my friend, I’m not going to give up a friendship over some comments he made. Now if said guy happened to encounter a guy of whatever race and something happened between the two that broke his “tolerance level” and this guy said something nasty to this person that is racist in the moment, I would just calm them down and say you shouldn’t have said that but what’s done is done. Again, could’ve handled it better but I’m not judge, jury and executioner, I can disagree with their views but I’m not going to actively say they are 100% a horrible person when they could do a lot of other things in life that are honestly not horrible but it just so happens that these are the views he has but he tries keeping them to himself because he understands that society views those things as wrong. Now if this guy actively started going out of his way to bully only black people or asian people, etc and he non-stop engages in targeted harassment, he physically abuses them, wishes they’d all die and wants to participate in things that could hinder their rights and continues to actively go out to ruin them then...I would have a lot of problems with that guy, I would stop him myself.
Why am I telling you this? This guy is my boyfriend. I’ve been dating a guy for nearly three years who is conservative, who has some racist views and different ways of thinking however he doesn’t wish for their rights to be taken away or wish for their death or anything, he just tends to say things to me or friends or make a sly comment now and then that could raise some eyebrows. But who he is as a person, I couldn’t care less about his beliefs because I know he’s a good guy. He’s a family man, he treats his friends, his family and me with a lot of respect, will always fight for those he loves, he works hard, he would stop at the side of a road if somebody had crashed or if somebody had a problem with their car and needs assistance and help them (he’s a a huge car nut.) Heck he’s a bloody softie at heart, one time he turned the car around when we were going for a drive because he saw a dog off its leash running down the road and picked it up and we kept it at our house for a few days while we tried to find its owner. The things he does in his life show who he is as a person. I’m not going to sit there and say he is a horrible guy just for having personal opinions.
Again, we live in a moral grey and a lot of people are politically incorrect, heck even we as a community tend to have a variety of opinions and beliefs that wildly are at odds with each other and others. That’s the real beauty of a “diverse” society. So long as there is always a balance and one group doesn’t actively try to oppress another, people are entitled to their views. If people want to come here and make debates or constantly attack others that are completely outside the topic then go elsewhere, there are many places, Tumblr for instance, to be outraged about everything. I’m not closed-minded, that’s why I’m being honest here.
(That’s as serious as this forum is going to see me, going back to my old don’t give a damn self now!)