I thought that any questions or comments that were related to the person were okay. Someone posted that he had a new boyfriend, I thought that asking who the new guy in his life was was perfectly fine, but apparently it wasn't. The mods were nice enough not to point me, I just found it strange that the comments saying he had a boyfriend were acceptable, but asking who the boyfriend was wasn't. Also, LPSG has become so widespread and well-known that it's not unthinkable for Mark - who spends a significant amount of time on the Net - to be aware of this site and to know that he has a thread of his own where his life is being discussed.