Married Guys - How Many of You Have Only Had Sex with Your Wife?
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My wife and I were both virgins when we got married! That was 15 years ago. I never kissed or almost touched any other woman than her, we enjoy a good sex life; we almost experienced and tried everything, BUT,
I really want, and I crave being with someone else!! It has nothing to do with my lovely wife, but I just have this strong desire of experiencing being with another woman. Anyone who have had many partners would agree "no 2 women are alike". Every woman (and every man) has her own style, personality, the way she reacts, the way she smiles, the way she touches, the way she shows her feelings, the way she enjoys sex...etc; so yes, I definitely want to experience love and sex with another woman; and I believe this urge or desire is somehow normal; especially after years with the same and only woman, no matter how much I enjoy sex with her; I need to be with another woman because it will definitely be "different", not better or worse, but just different! It's like having your best favorite meal ever....but repeated everyday! I hope that makes any sense!
I really want, and I crave being with someone else!! It has nothing to do with my lovely wife, but I just have this strong desire of experiencing being with another woman. Anyone who have had many partners would agree "no 2 women are alike". Every woman (and every man) has her own style, personality, the way she reacts, the way she smiles, the way she touches, the way she shows her feelings, the way she enjoys sex...etc; so yes, I definitely want to experience love and sex with another woman; and I believe this urge or desire is somehow normal; especially after years with the same and only woman, no matter how much I enjoy sex with her; I need to be with another woman because it will definitely be "different", not better or worse, but just different! It's like having your best favorite meal ever....but repeated everyday! I hope that makes any sense!
@SSS79 this is the thing I keep coming back to. Would another woman like how I eat pussy? Would she be more vocal? How would another woman nipples feel in my mouth?
I'll never know the answers to those questions but it doesn't stop me from wondering.
I am bi ............ my late wife was aware. We had strict boundaries being discretion and safety.
She is the only women I ever had sex with; she was the Gold Standard of a partner. We had a very good sex life incorporating a few gay sex toys.
As far as other guys, well being careful of the 18 y.o. rule, I will say that I had 5 male encounters before my wife; the "usual guy buddy" experiences. After we were married, only married men. I had a regular j.o. buddy since 1987; however, we both had other experiences and shared the same guy.
I have no plans to re-partner or plans to have straight sex. I haven't had an encounter with another person in over 5 years as my wife was terminally ill and it seemed so improper. I am still grieving.
I do masturbate, just about daily, and look at LPSG often.
She is the only women I ever had sex with; she was the Gold Standard of a partner. We had a very good sex life incorporating a few gay sex toys.
As far as other guys, well being careful of the 18 y.o. rule, I will say that I had 5 male encounters before my wife; the "usual guy buddy" experiences. After we were married, only married men. I had a regular j.o. buddy since 1987; however, we both had other experiences and shared the same guy.
I have no plans to re-partner or plans to have straight sex. I haven't had an encounter with another person in over 5 years as my wife was terminally ill and it seemed so improper. I am still grieving.
I do masturbate, just about daily, and look at LPSG often.
I had way more than my fair share but could have easily been married a year after hs but I had been with 5 before the near miss. After that fizzled I went on a tear from 19-23. I was always looking for a soulmate but I spent too much time looking in the wrong places. Got burned out on the bars and settled down a bit, then met my wife.
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Wife and I were high school sweethearts. We got married less than a year after we graduated and started a family. She is the only woman I've ever had sex with. She had sex with a previous boyfriend once or twice. We are happily married 37+years now and I don't really have any regrets. Sex with her is awesome.
I do have a few bi fantasies but I'm almost positive I will never act on them.
I do have a few bi fantasies but I'm almost positive I will never act on them.
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Brother, I understand completely. Honestly, I have had the opportunity to have sex with over 150 women in my life (I've been keeping a log)...but I could NOT bring myself to do it. I didn't want to hurt my wife. Do I regret it? in some cases, yes...absolutely. While my wife is black (African-American), and sweet and kind, as well as gorgeous, I have always had a "thing for Latinas....and most of the women (70%) I have been approached by, have been Puerto Rican, Colombian, or Dominican women that have made it know I could have it. Some were SO beautiful that I am amazed that they were interested in me at all...I admit, I was fairly handsome and built when I was younger, but age has caught up with me. But frankly, the one thing I have found that really doesn't matter as much as you would think is a mans looks....it's more about your personality and how you relate to them. I also found that bragging about your processions (as I've seen guys do) doesn't do it either. That tends to attract the wrong kind of women. I remember I was friends with a really built Puerto Rican woman that I worked with....(I was head of security for a Dept store). I used to take her home after work, since on Sundays, the buses only ran every hour or so, and it's awful cold in the winter in Philly. . After a while, we became really good friends, and she introduced me to her whole family. She had a sister that was even FINER than her. Once we were all at there mothers house (I had dropped her off there) , and her sister told me it was her birthday....and she wanted to blow out my big candle. Dude, I was so tempted...because her sister was FINE!!!! and Single! but nope...schmuck that I am, I said I cant do that. What a dumb ass.!
I have only fucked my wife, but gave and received oral from many girls before marriage. My wife had other men before me (and I LOVE hearing about it)!!
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When I was married I only had sex with my wife though she was pretty well versed in sex with experienced guys before we got married and after she continued - the bigger the better. So yes, the only woman I had sex with was my wife.
Your wife? your profile says you're 100% gay...and you have a wife?! Am I missing something here?
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Met my wife when I was 23, 11 years together now. I never been with another person in a personal relationship, not even a kiss. I am very happy about it.
For me and perhaps those other posters on this thread who've only had sex with their own wife, we probably don't feel as if we've missed out on someone "better" or some "adventure". The only thing my wife hasn't been willing to do in our 45 years of marriage is anal. Would I like to add it to our mix of sexual activity? Sure, but we do plenty of other stuff that satisfies us both - toys, lube, outdoor sex, hotel sex, etc. I asked her a few days ago to trim her pussy which she did. She's ready for me to lick her to orgasm. That's probably tonight's "extracurricular" activity. LOL
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I agree. I don't regret not having sex with anyone else. She has gotten more adventurous over the years. She's willing to try almost anything, including anal. Her newest thrill is her clit vibrator. She LOVES that thing! She has a massive orgasm almost every time she uses it. Its such a turn-on watching her play!
we were each other's firsts although she did have sex with a guy before me he couldn't get it in her she was too tight as a virgin and he just came outside of her from grinding and trying to get it in. We've had fun all these years, figured we've had sex a couple thousand times. How? 24 years together, sex at least 20 times a month and that's very conservative (more like 30/mo for several years), so that's a fuckton of fucking lololol. She's got thyroid and menopause issues now so we're intimate but penetration is not on the table 
Soon she'll be on better meds and we hope the fucking can continue, we know too much about sex and enjoy it way way too much to not do it anymore, so she's making an effort to get her libido and vaginal tone back
Soon she'll be on better meds and we hope the fucking can continue, we know too much about sex and enjoy it way way too much to not do it anymore, so she's making an effort to get her libido and vaginal tone back
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It's actually a vibrating cock ring. CalExotics
It's rechargeable and has like 7 different vibe settings. We both love playing with it!
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