Perhaps try keeping yourself close with things like making each other feel special, but with no intent on having sex.
be open with your wife too. A good marriage doesn’t need to be sexual but it does need you to remain close to each other
be open with your wife too. A good marriage doesn’t need to be sexual but it does need you to remain close to each other
We have been married for 6 years and have realised that you can't force anything but if I am being honest lately we are very distant and we are trying to get closer to each other. I am very open with her she knows what i like and stuff.
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Unfortunately I think you are right. My wife was shocked the last time I asked for sex, a couple years ago. I know some of her friends also have no libido. I am going to try again with my wife soon. I’m considering asking her if I can see an escort if she is really resistant.
Married 42 years here and am in the same situation
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Guys... There happens to be this great private forum that the staff here at LPSG made for us to discuss just such things! It will ask you to request membership first. No judgement either. It's right there in the main forums group!
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That's the way woman are. The only time woman are into sex is when they want a guy to marry,want a baby or get paid. Woman have too much drama and other issue's. My wife in all our years of marriage never asked or initiated sex or done anything to spice sex up. I believe that was her up bringing, mom told her it's not lady like. What do you think.
Probably a lot to that. My current wife was very much into sex. We enjoyed a very active and enjoyable sex life. But after about 20 years it started to decline. Another few years it disappeared completely. That was 16 years ago. 6 years ago I got a penile implant, mainly for me , but also in the hopes it would spark a new interest. It did not. She has outright told me that she has absolutely no interest or desire or need for sex. Other than sex, we have a very good marriage which makes it all the more frustrating.
I think that is the way a lot of long married couples are anymore.
I think that is the way a lot of long married couples are anymore.
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The pandemic didn't help things. Though some of us had more time together with our wives, it was not always happy times. The residuals of this are still being felt. My wife and I have enjoyed a good sex life. But we have less sex now than before the start of it. A lot of undercurrent stress for many as well I'm sure.
How long have you been in a sexless marriage?
My wife is very open with me about being happy with having no libido. It’s not something she wants anymore. Oddly our marriage has gotten closer and stronger since she told me this, and we have had no sex since
Opposite here. Both love sex but I can't perform like I used to because I need the stimulus of something new.
We still have sex but nothing like 5 plus years ago (53 for me).
We still have sex but nothing like 5 plus years ago (53 for me).
Hi, curious to more about stimulus is something new. do new things get you hard as opposed to the same old routines.
Yes, like seeing hot people naked for the first time and then getting to enjoy them physically. I also like to show off when cumming in front of others.
I tried the link. It just says access denied. How do I request access?
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It used to be a private group started by @bkmuscledad . Now a private section I'm not sure as we were all brought in. @LPSG Simon ?
