Hmm...
1. you look in the wrong places? As a "connoisseur" of these guys, they tend to be married with kids, and are extremely discreet on their extracurricular activities. That's particularly true for those who just started to yield to their bi side.
2. (equally likely) you live in the wrong part of country?
1. you look in the wrong places? As a "connoisseur" of these guys, they tend to be married with kids, and are extremely discreet on their extracurricular activities. That's particularly true for those who just started to yield to their bi side.
2. (equally likely) you live in the wrong part of country?
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I am bi and consider myself fairly masculine. I can fix a lot of things on my car and house. I can fight and like to camp and hike. I am not easily scared. I am strong and confident. What do you consider masculine?
Insert comment about "masculinity" being a BS patriarchal concept
Bisexual men exist equally across the whole spectrum of personality.
Bisexual men exist equally across the whole spectrum of personality.
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This is me. I am bi and quite masculine, mostly only attracted to more effeminate guys when with men, and there is no mistake between me and other men which is the more masculine one when we are together. Short hair/buzzed head, full face beard, hairy male body, though I am very hygienic and keep my appearance and beard trimmed and well groomed.
Though I am not your "mans man" type of man if that is what you are looking for. I'm a sci-fi tech geek, anime lover, Marvel and DC and Star Wars pop culture fan. So, if you equate masculinity to flannel shirts, sports, outdoor activities like hunting, or cars, that is not me. Though I do hold a first-degree black belt (Shodan) in the art of Shaolin Kempo, if that counts. It it doesn't count, cool, I don't care. I have a type, and me myself as I am, am not the type I am into. People that are like me, I consider to be too masculine for my tastes.
That said, I am far from effeminate in presentation and personality.
I'm going to share my experience;
If you say you are bi, straights are going to think you're crypto-gay and gays are going to think you are just curious.
I'm sick of it, so I just went with gay.
There - I'm masculine bi, but I don't have time and patience for all this bullshit. Voluntarily gay, technically bi.
If you say you are bi, straights are going to think you're crypto-gay and gays are going to think you are just curious.
I'm sick of it, so I just went with gay.
There - I'm masculine bi, but I don't have time and patience for all this bullshit. Voluntarily gay, technically bi.
personally attracted to straight guys and a lot of the straight guys are closeted bi or curious but will never act on it. which leaves only the feminine gays which isn’t “my” preference.
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Yeah masculine is a gender assignment based on cultural & personality stereotypes of a males aught to be.
I have a similar perspective. I would describe myself as bi and masculine. However, if you tell someone your bi they usually ascribe less than masculine stereotypes to you so most of it just keep it to ourselves.
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Wow!
Perfectly said. That’s exactly my mindset.
Masculine bi guys exist. We are generally married, 30+, and very discrete about our activities. Im bi, verse and masculine. Don't take the idea that masculine guys are not bottoms either. There are tons of masculine bi guys that like things in their ass. In the end its about pleasure and preference of attraction.
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I’m 100% masculine and prefer bottoming. I haven’t topped yet but want to. I’ll always be more of a bottom though as I love receiving anal pleasure.
You're not alone. I'm not open, but I've experienced this with family, and it isn't very comforting. I, too, feel forced to choose to either be gay and with men or be with a woman. It's inflexible, and I'm not too fond of it. That's why I'm single. Though it's frustrating because it's challenging to date men and find other masculine men I'm attracted to, which makes the idea of a lavender situation seem more manageable.
My paint exactly. Pleasure is fun. Besides the orgasm from being a bottom is way better than that of being a top.
Masculine and muscular bi guys with big cocks are my type.
Most Bi guys I have ever met were masculine.
I fall into this category. I am extremely masculine but consider myself bi. You would never know if you passed me on the street that I like bottoming.
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I saw your picture. Damn dude, you’re hot!
