Thank you! Lots of squats!
I am bi and masculine. Very alpha in my life but love to be submissive when I hook up with a guy. No one I know would ever expect that.
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I've experienced quite a number of guys who are married, have kids but still have a bi side that needs satisfying. In fact they are my main gentlemen callers, they enjoy being serviced, control how far they want to go and know its no strings. Over time they progress with their curiosity from a hand or blow job through the flies to full naked no holds barred.
Yes I really believe that BI invisibility is a real thing. I don't feel that gays or straights are generally accepting of bisexuality.
I am. I wish more men were bi (officially).
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Extremely masculine here as well but have a very heavy bi side. Top guy here and very oral ..... I do well and enjoy other masculine guys. Not hard to find and enjoy.
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I fall into this category. Married, 50's somewhat on the DL. Pretty masculine even when I bottom for someone I usually and the one doing the fucking.
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Tl;dr media representation of Bisexuality focuses on sexual and gender fluidity so women are more "masculine" and men are shown as more "feminine" and Bisexual people will often follow these archetypes and subcultural cues
IMO I think a lot of bisexual representation focuses on representing the fluidity of both sexual and gender expression, hence why many bisexual women are depicted as doing traditionally masculine-oriented activities in media or at least doing things considered "unladylike", like getting tattoos or weightlifting or wearing "masculine" clothes like denim or leather jackets; Rosa Diaz from Brooklyn Nine-Nine comes to mind.
Similiarly, for men, I think there's a focus on representing bisexual men as having a "softer" or more "feminine" side in addition to a masculine side, though I think that's also true across the board for all men on the spectrum of queerness. Representation of bisexual men in media is pretty piss-poor even when considering the rampant fetishization of bisexual media, but most of the big bisexual male celebrities and characters that I immediately think of- Alan Cumming, William Shakespeare, Mads Mikkelsen's exceptionally dandy portrayal of Hannibal Lecter- have a distinctively effeminate admixture with their masculine side.
Personally, I'm very masculine and outwardly straight-presenting. I drink energy drinks and pre-workout instead of coffee, I lift every two or three days, I used to play electric guitar and listen to a fuckton of Metal, I dress in clothes that accentuate my musculature, I'm in a very male-overrepresented profession, and I tend to read non-fiction over fiction. Most of my "feminine" side is often hidden to activities like the occasional Botox treatment, high-end skin products, and owning a bidet (since the topic of if wiping one's own ass makes one gay has become another front in the culture wars, apparently).
IMO I think a lot of bisexual representation focuses on representing the fluidity of both sexual and gender expression, hence why many bisexual women are depicted as doing traditionally masculine-oriented activities in media or at least doing things considered "unladylike", like getting tattoos or weightlifting or wearing "masculine" clothes like denim or leather jackets; Rosa Diaz from Brooklyn Nine-Nine comes to mind.
Similiarly, for men, I think there's a focus on representing bisexual men as having a "softer" or more "feminine" side in addition to a masculine side, though I think that's also true across the board for all men on the spectrum of queerness. Representation of bisexual men in media is pretty piss-poor even when considering the rampant fetishization of bisexual media, but most of the big bisexual male celebrities and characters that I immediately think of- Alan Cumming, William Shakespeare, Mads Mikkelsen's exceptionally dandy portrayal of Hannibal Lecter- have a distinctively effeminate admixture with their masculine side.
Personally, I'm very masculine and outwardly straight-presenting. I drink energy drinks and pre-workout instead of coffee, I lift every two or three days, I used to play electric guitar and listen to a fuckton of Metal, I dress in clothes that accentuate my musculature, I'm in a very male-overrepresented profession, and I tend to read non-fiction over fiction. Most of my "feminine" side is often hidden to activities like the occasional Botox treatment, high-end skin products, and owning a bidet (since the topic of if wiping one's own ass makes one gay has become another front in the culture wars, apparently).
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Im bisexual and masculine…but Im somewhat mew to this, I just know what I like and I like a nice hung dick…now if I can find someone to play with…my wife knows and she thinks its hot as hell…we both acknowledge men when we are out and she will tell me who she would fuck…men or women…me too…all I know is..my dick gets rock hard when I see the right dick and I want to be spit roasted by a couple of young twinks…ok now Im hard!!!!
I've got a lot of them in my cupboards....
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majority of bi men are masculine tho
This is true in my personal experience as well lol so I find OP's dilemma quite the strange one. Most bisexual guys I've met are hetero-romantic and "straight passing" until you inquire further and find out they like dudes too (to varying degrees)
Well as a "collectionneur" of MARRIED bi guys as fuck buddies I'd venture further.
No one would believe any of my fuck buddies would EVER be interested in another dick. Never ever.
Such is the power of gender stereotype in our society. Yeah, blue-collar burly hairy macho "motherfucker" types may in private yearn to bottom for another man...
Back to OP - you're looking at the wrong places.
To all macho bi guys here: where do you look for (sex) date these days?
Craigslist used to be the go-to place for many (married) bi's looking for extracurricular activities. But ever since Craigslist's demise, how to you find playmates???
Guess this would be of common interest on this thread!
Craigslist used to be the go-to place for many (married) bi's looking for extracurricular activities. But ever since Craigslist's demise, how to you find playmates???
Guess this would be of common interest on this thread!
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Grindr works for me, I could hook up on that app several times a day if I wanted. I guess it depends on where you live and what your looking for?
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Based on the men i see at all male parties and at adult bookstores, most bi and gay men look and act just like your typical straight man. I've even have know some very effeminate acting men who claimed to be straight so not even that is an indicator of what a man's sexuality is.
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