masturbation and roommates

[dave2006]

This has to be one of the worst things a guy has to get use to when sharing a room. And you don't know what worst trying to figure out how to get off without being discovered or hearing/seeing your bunkmate actually getting off!
In college was the only time this happened.Usually I would hold up the sheet with on hand while jerking it with the other. This made cleaning up a bitch although a sock came in handy for this. My junior year I had a roommate who snored so sometimes I would be brazen enough to pull the sheet back and give it a pull.
Sometimes I wake up to he bunk shaking every so slighty. Another guy I would always hear the infamous "clicking sound". I never said anything. But my freshman year I had a three man room. A bunk on one side and a single bed on the other. The guy below me felt the need to yell out to me to look over that our was jerking off. He woke me out of a sound sleep and I looked over because he wouldn't shut up. He denied it. But both hands were under the sheet on his crotch. You see that outline of his erection against the sheet. It was never brought up again. Bottom line most guys would prefer to jo in private but when your young, horny, and have no other options it's amazing what you'll do.

Any have similar experiences?

 

[tomaskontos20]

So good to read these stories. I've been sharing a room in a student building since November. 2 weeks after i arrived France started a 6pm pandemic curfew. My roommate and I have ended up getting to know each other more since the curfew. A week into it, he confessed that in order to be discreet he was jerking off in his bed when I was in the shower. We both agreed to give each other space if we need it to jerk off but it didn't work... because we would both miss the signs to give each other privacy and we both jerk off every day. We have gotten pretty used to each other these last few months and watch porn together most nights... even given each other a hand-job 5-6 times when it was really late.

 

[Golfbuddy]

My freshman year I lucked out by having an awfully cute, all-American, clean-cut looking stud of a roommate who broke the ice. Dave was a Junior and very well hung, and I couldn't help but steal peeks. He noticed, to be sure. One night, during our first week together, we went an played some hoops and when we got back to the room he suggested we go shower up. So off we went. We were the only two there. His beautiful body and long dick caused me to rise a bit, which he noticed and then he said he loves to JO in the showers. He grabbed his cock and stroked it, coming in great spurts. I did too. When we got back to the room, he said he "needs" to do it at least once a day, and if I wanted, we could do it together in the morning or whenever. So began our two years of daily wanking. We did it to each other a few times, but that was all. He was the best roommate I ever had. So open minded, nice and discreet. BTW: the floors were very institutional type of linoleum tile, so clean up was a breeze!

 

[herbho]

During my jr and sr years of college, I roomed with a guy whom I had gotten to know pretty well, as were were both in the same campus activities, so we decided to just go ahead and share a room in the upper-classman dorm. We sat down and went over some procedures, such as what would happen if one of us got " lucky," etc. Then, we humorously talked about jacking off and decided that, since our beds were only three feet apart, we wouldn't go to great lengths to hide it. He was a horny straight guy and I was very gay. So, whenever I heard him go at it, I would pull mine out and satisfy myself. Well, it got to the point that we didn't even need to hide under the sheets, but wanked on top of the covers. I can still remember him whispering dirty things under his breath, as if he were fantasizing a scene, which drove me crazy. " After a couple of months, I thought," Fuck it, got up, hard as a rock, and jacked him off. After I had done it a few times, he even reciprocated. It inevitably turned into me sucking him off whenever he was in the mood, which worked out great for both of us - he didn't need to jack off and I got a frequent mouthful of cum, in addition to an occasional handjob.

 

[S_Dick]

-times you’ve caught each other
-times you’ve done it together
-something lol

-times you’ve caught each other
College dorm roommate was pretty regularly. Started a few weeks into living together. Hearing each other late at night when we were each in our beds and thought the other was asleep. One of us would start, and the other would start too. No one said anything. Eventually catching each other looking at porn on our computers. This was pre smartphones, so we would just be at our desks. After that happened a few times, he suggested that we just be cool with it, and try to let the other be. But keep it between us. Eventually there was just one paper towel roll, just for spunk, that lived between our two desks. We were a couple of animals.

-times you’ve done it together
Eventually we got comfortable enough with each other that one night after we got back home drunk, he said he needed to jerk off. I said I did too. We put on some porn on his computer, sat in our respective chairs and jerked together. It was a little awkward in that moment, but we got through it. After we broke that seal we were both free to just jerk whenever we felt like it. Rather than before, when we'd wait till the other was gone, and just be ok if they walked in on us. Now we were able to just say I am gonna jerk whenever, and the other one would just nod, go about our day, or join in on the wank session before going to class, or at the end of the night. It was fucking awesome. Our dorm had a connected room where an upperclassmen guy lived, and all 3 of us shared a bathroom/kitchen. The upperclassmen knew about our arrangement, thought it was hilarious, but was never up for joining. He would walk through our shared kitchen to get to his room and just say 'have fun boys'

 

[deleted1654531]

I’ve shared rooms (long term) twice.

My first time was with one guy in my first year at uni. I was quite nervous about this very thing, and being young and full of testosterone I knew I was going to go mad if I didn’t have a regular release. Luckily the ice got broken only a few weeks into sharing a room when I walked in on him wanking. We were both embarrassed and awkward at first, but when he realised I really didn’t care we became a lot closer. We never jerked off together but from then on we just accepted each other doing it and tried to give each other privacy. That didn’t stop us walking in on each other several more times each!

The second time I shared a room was in my 2nd year at uni. I actually had two roommates, but they were both close friends of mine and we had decided to share together. It came up pretty quickly - one mate just came straight out with the question of how we were going to wank, and we basically decided to be chill about it. We were an extremely open trio and spent a lot of time around each other naked. It soon got to the point that we would just pull it out and jerk off whenever we felt like it, regardless of who was in the room and what they were doing. And yes, we did wank all at the same time regularly!

 

[H.ricky]

My first year in college we all instantly clicked and I live with two of them now. The dorm had two triples and one bathroom so luckily we all were unfiltered and open about everything. So when it came to jacking off no one was necessarily discreet but also just directly out the open. Majority of us had a fleshlight or something like it and it wasn’t a secret no one hid what they needed to do

 

[jwpettie]

My roomate and i jack to porn in the living room on a nitely basis,just a habit we got into.It just seems the norm anymore,tends to be more of a shooting match,somenites,we are just vbery comfortable with each other.

 

[Road_cyclist]

Me and my roomie agreed shortly after he moved in that we can masturbate whenever we want. And I masturbate a lot so I’m glad there are no constraints.

 

[H.ricky]

hot ...i think its fine for friends to jerk off in front of each other as long as everyone is ok with it

In tight living situations like dorming you’re not going to get to the privacy you might want. Luckily as guys there was a understanding that we had to take of business

I know for me my morning wood is raging no matter what, so I have to nut in the morning. living with roommates in college they knew that was a part of my routine either in the bathroom or in the room and it wasn’t anything I covered up or hid

one of my roommates from then actually lives with me now in our apartment he would always masturbate in a condom lmao so when he went to grab one we knew what was happening

 

[deleted3995701]

I've had 4 roommates with a shared bedroom over the years and I've jacked off with all of them and blew two of them.

The first dude was curious about gay sex and we ended up having a fun time one time. Smallest cock I've ever seen on a man.

The second was a buddy staying with me and after a bar night, crawled on my bed and wanted head. We ended up jerking off. I don't wanna suck dick when I'm drunk.

Third dude was a bat night buddy as well. He was staying with me for awhile. We got trashed, ended up watching porn and flogging logs. He had a solid 7 inches.

4th dude was kicked out of his place for cheating on his woman (he hadn't yet). He needed hernia repairs and was in really rough shape so I offered him my couch. A few days in the couch was uncomfy and he asked to share my bed. I said sure and that night we were all over each other, it happened out of the blue, the dude was hurting and alot of delicate fun was had.

I've always been open about my body everywhere I've been and every one of my flatmates (dozens over the years) has seen me naked almost daily. I walk around naked, I sleep naked, I go to and from the bathroom naked, I cook naked and after awhile, every dude I lived with did the same thing.

Being naked with other dudes is just fun. Even if there's no sex or sexual overtones.

 

[deleted9528201]

In college, the guys on my dorm hall jerked off in the showers together, and we jerked off in our rooms together.
Each of the guys on my hall was either on the track & cross country team or on the swim team.
The atmosphere on our teams and on my hall was very sexually relaxed.
We all went shirtless on the hall and during practice.
We all wore cock rings, and most of us used Fleshlights or other sex toys when we jerked off in our rooms.
After practice and after competitions, we often went to the strip club together and got lap dances from girls together. College was a really fun and sexually wild time for us.

 

[waistbanz]

I had a friend stay with me for a few months last year after he sold his place and needed a place to stay. More housemates than roommates. We've been friends for a few years now and met each other in the lanes at one of the pools. Both mature guys around same age, close like brothers. Since we've been showering together for a while now after our swims, nudity wasn't an issue at all. We're both usually in underwear or completely buff most mornings and evenings, but obviously clothed during the day. We both sleep naked (separate rooms) and the odd wood in the morning isn't unusual - especially for me. As far as masturbation goes, it's a non-issue. He's busted in on me while on the computer or watching porn and I know he can hear me from his room, I make a bit more noise than he does. The first time he caught me, he told me it was okay and not to worry about it. I walked in on him in his room (door was open) the first time I caught him, to ask him something and I just said sorry, I just wanted to ask you something. His response was 'No problem what do you need?' He stopped yanking but continued massaging his cock. Then I walked back out.. We sometimes talk about sex. He does have a girlfriend in another country right now.. Couldn't ask for a better housemate all the way around!

 

[chrisrobin]

It got to the point where my roomy and me didn't mind wanking when the other was in the room/bed, eventually all in the open.
To start with he would vanish to the bathroom at bedtime and come back looking flushed so I outed him by asking if he'd enjoyed his nightly wank. He half blushed and muttered "yep". Don't mind me I told him, you wanna wank you wank and if I wanna wank I'll wank but please don't do it solo in the bathroom.
I have to admit that seeing him wank made me wank as well, he had really nice thick cock and shot loads, I envied his GF

 

[Ed Sullivan]

In my second year of uni my housemate lived in the room adjoining the living room. It was a little annoying - you felt bad staying up late and watching tv because he would be trying to sleep in the next room. Near the end of the tenancy after the others had moved out, and it was just the two of us, he went on a trip somewhere, and I didn't know exactly when he'd be back. a couple nights later, I came in late at night and decided to stream myself jerking off. It included...a lot of vocals. A lot of sounds of slapping. A lot of a lot. etc. I finished and went to bed, then the next morning came downstairs quite early to see him sitting awkwardly on the sofa. He was quite reserved and very Christian (not believing in sex before marriage and so on) and therefore didn't mention it, but he'd got back the night before while I was out and I'd totally not noticed. I was mortified. I was literally up for hours jerking off. It's a good thing I decided to just stream online rather than hook up with someone. It's also a good thing I didn't decide it would be fun to go steal his underwear or something haha

 

[hot showers]

I lived in a triple my freshman year. I was in the lower bunk, with one roomie above and one in the single bed. I used to keep a stash of toilet paper hidden under the covers, and would drop the used paper down the wall side and clean it out when they weren't around. There was always a ton of junk under my bed to hide it. I was so horny at that age, that I could blow a big load with minimal motion, so I was always confident that I was keeping it discreet in terms of sound, vibration, and visible sheet movement.

I did have a couple of embarrassing slip ups, though, in terms of remaining evidence. Once was a after a morning session, in which I hadn't sufficiently blotted. I noticed as soon as I got out of bed a massive wet spot in the front of my underwear. Fortunately, my hamper was right next to my bed and my routine was to strip off my u/w and throw it in the hamper before grabbing my towel to go to the shower, so that one may have gone unnoticed.

That same routine worked against me another time, though. After I tossed my underwear in the hamper one morning, I noticed that there was a significant piece of toilet paper stuck to the tip. Both roommates were awake and in the room. Because we kept our towels on hooks on the inside of the room door, that meant that the hamper and towel were at opposite ends of the room, and it was pretty much guaranteed that my roommates saw my penis that day and every day, which was pretty normal behavior for guys in those days. The only problem that day, was it meant that they must have seen that TP on the tip. Once I noticed it, there wasn't anything I could do, except not linger on the path to the door, so I just kept going. Nobody said anything

 

[kurios]

Yeah a while ago but after a few awkward attempts at being secretive I just raised the fact that I did a fair amount of wanking and my room mate admitted he did also and that we should just cut out the crap and do what we had to do.
It took a little while but soon we were at total ease and the motions/noises that previously had me assuming/wondering if he was or did he hear me were no longer noticeable.
I realise this level of straightforwardness wouldnt always work but pretending we dont doesnt either.

 

[scanjock8]

i was in a fraternity at a school with a large greek system, so we rarely had any privacy. as a pledge i remember sleeping on a "porch" with ten guys and inevitably hearing the squeek of someone trying to jack off in the night, although we'd usually call it out and start flipping each other shit from our bunks. we had communal showers too, so that wasn't an option. after initiation i shared a room with two brothers with slightly different class schedules, so occasionaly i could sneak in some jack-off time, but not often enough.

being the closeted frat boy that i was, every few weeks i would go into the city and jack off to gay porn at one of those seedy video booth places--that is until i ran into a guy i knew from another fraternity who was there for the same reason, which soon became 'first love' for both of us, and a secret romance we carried on while at school for two years. after that i wasn't too concerned about finding places to jack-off (whew).

 

[Falcon9]

In college, I shared a large open room with a very handsome room mate. He was athletic, tall, dark haired, played tennis a lot, ran, totally clean cut guy. He had his bed near the large windows on one end and mine was more like in the middle of the room. After a few weeks of living together freshman year, I had the idea and discussed it with my room mate to put up a "wall" made of cloth as a kind of temporary privacy screen. And so I went to work stringing up this huge black curtain thing. Well after it was up, there was a good sense of privacy although it didn't stop any of the sound from going across the room. What happened next was a complete surprise. I came back to the room one afternoon and was on my side of the curtain but the light from the window on his side was so bright I could actually see through the cloth... and there was the stud room mate doing his girl. Trying to be quiet as he gave it to her. It was like a dream sequence, I could see the outlines of ass, legs, tits, his smooth muscle ass reflecting even more of the sunlight from the windows. It didn't happen often but I saw them doing each other every once in a while like that. If it was a cloudy day, the effect with the light coming through just didn't work, although I could still hear "things." It worked both ways, one night I was up late and jerking assuming he can't see or hear and he yells over are you taking care of business and I said yes and we laughed. It was the whole idea of a privacy curtain that actually did the opposite effect of allowing more intimate things to happen that made it such an amazing experience.

 

[Triasco]

Across almost 8 years in the Army, I've had dozens of roommates and been in dozens of situations where I had to spend multiple nights sleeping in a bay or a tent occupied by dozens of people, some of whom outrank me greatly. Many of the rooms I had barely had 10 feet between the beds.

And I still jerked off for my typical hour. I think it's natural and normal, and nothing wrong with it as long as you're not trying to involve the other person. And I'm a grown man, so I prefer to masturbate in the comfort of my own bed, not in a communal shower or in bathroom stalls. I wait until my roommate is either not present (I try to keep tabs on my roommate's schedule) or asleep, sacrificing my own sleep more often than not. lol.

Most don't catch on, and the jealousy is usually from seeing my soft cock or my morning wood.