masturbation and roommates

[bigbd77]

This has to be a "Rite of Passage" for all undergraduate men living on campus. I can remember my first roommate in college my freshman year. This was my first experience ever having a roommate. He was tall and slim and had the appearance of a heavy metal artist (shaved hair on the side of his head with a long pony-tail down the middle). Well, I was used to masturbating on a regular basis before I went to college. Atleast once a day (some days more). When I first arrived at school I would wait until I thought he was asleep and then j/o under the covers. Our room was very dark so there was no chance of him catching a glance. I am not noisy when masturbating so I knew I wouldn't wake him. I only assumed with us being youg men at the time (19 years old) that he too was masturbating in silence or in the shower. All this changed when one night I woke out of my sleep to hear a loud, wet, clicking noise coming from his bed across the room (about 5 feet away). When I finally came to my senses I realized that he was in the middle of a late night j/o session. I tried to go back to sleep but was unable to. I had never heard the sound of another guy masturbating and found it quite disturbing and yet intriguing at the same time. This continued throughout the year and increased in frequency. But, what I found even more disturbing was on a particular weekend when one of his "friends" visited and stayed in our room. It bothered me a little when they shared the bed together, but I quickly dismissed the notion because I figured they were just good friends (since I have shared beds with male cousins at a young age with no hanky panky). However, I woke later that night and found out just how good "friends" they really were . I couldn't see anything because like I said our room was very dark at night when the lights were turned off, but the noises I heard told the entire story. I never said anything to him about the incident but I did tell my best friend when I came home for Spring Break. I think he got a thrill from being heard or seen by someone else because he would often have those loud j/o sessions and once I caught him pissing in the sink. I tell ya, I have enough stories from this one roommate to write a best selling book.

 

[VanillaTwist]

When I was living at college I'd wait until my roommate went home for the weekend to jerk off in my room or I'd do it in my bedroom if I went back home myself. After doing it for so long before college it was kind of weird to adjust to the limitations, but these days it's pretty easy to go weeks without touching myself even if there's nobody around to catch me.

Although it'd make more sense to do it often now...

 

[Falcon9]

In college, I shared a large open room with a very handsome room mate. He was athletic, tall, dark haired, played tennis a lot, ran, totally clean cut guy. He had his bed near the large windows on one end and mine was more like in the middle of the room. After a few weeks of living together freshman year, I had the idea and discussed it with my room mate to put up a "wall" made of cloth as a kind of temporary privacy screen. And so I went to work stringing up this huge black curtain thing. Well after it was up, there was a good sense of privacy although it didn't stop any of the sound from going across the room. What happened next was a complete surprise. I came back to the room one afternoon and was on my side of the curtain but the light from the window on his side was so bright I could actually see through the cloth... and there was the stud room mate doing his girl. Trying to be quiet as he gave it to her. It was like a dream sequence, I could see the outlines of ass, legs, tits, his smooth muscle ass reflecting even more of the sunlight from the windows. It didn't happen often but I saw them doing each other every once in a while like that. If it was a cloudy day, the effect with the light coming through just didn't work, although I could still hear "things." It worked both ways, one night I was up late and jerking assuming he can't see or hear and he yells over are you taking care of business and I said yes and we laughed. It was the whole idea of a privacy curtain that actually did the opposite effect of allowing more intimate things to happen that made it such an amazing experience.

 

[ssongs]

I always enjoy reading these......please continue on.....

And am also interested in the military question.

How, and where Do they manage that ?

I was in the Navy for 5 years and the only time that really came up for me was in boot camp. About 60 or 70 guys would be in big room. At night when everyone was asleep you could discreetly wank it a little bit, but there was always someone awake because two guys would always be on fire/safety watch at night. Slipping away to the bathroom was always a possibility too. When I was there, we had stalls, with walls, but no doors, just a sheet. Sometimes you'd go into the bathroom and all of the stalls would be full for quite a while!

At first when I got to boot camp, I didn't jerk off for about a month, but after a while I figured out I could. Man, what a cum-shot that was! By far, the best wank I've ever had.

Also when you're on a ship you stay in the same room with at least 20 other guys. We had these bunk beds, but the had curatins, so you could close them and jerk off. But you didn't have much room to move around. Plus the bunks are made of steel, so it doesn't shake like a bed normally would.

B

 

[eldeld]

Well, here's the update-

THANK goodness for conversation starters because I had no idea how to start it off. I had returned to the dorm after cleaning up in the restroom and he was changing and getting ready to go to bed as well. Going to our drawers, I opened up the top by accident (mine is the bottom drawer) and had accidentally discovered his porn magazine collection and jokingly asked him if it was his jerk-off material. His answer, "Hell yeah!"

He said he was hoping I would take longer so he could get some wanking in. I told him, "Thank God!" and gave him a huge hug and told him how I had been holding it in. He was completely cool with it and we laughed about it. We both agreed to just screw it and masturbate whenever we wanted. I'm really liking this guy.

Just curious, what happened next?

 

[Rood]

I always wondered what guys in the military did about it. Did they wank in front of others, do it secretly, have circle jerks out on hikes?

Hootie, when I entered the USArmy recruits were required to state whether or not they had homosexual tendencies. I'm sure that many fellows lied, as anyone marking "Yes" would automatically be given the boot. The requirement to state one's proclivity, however, made everyone, straight, homosexual, or in between, conscious of the prejudice and fearful of being accused.

Once during basic training a couple of recruits living in barracks across our exercise field were drummed out of the military when they were caught doing something together in their company's communal shower room. We never did know what they had been caught doing, but be sure that word was spread to everyone by the sergeants in whose charge we had been placed. It was a warning, and it put the fear of God in everyone.

One time only was masturbation discussed, and that was the day when our company received a demerit during barracks inspection after the inspecting officer and our sergeant claimed to have found clumps of cum on the highly polished floor. No one confessed to doing the dirty deed, however, and we never knew the truth behind the allegation. I always assumed that it was drops of floor wax, but who knows?

During our two week field trip in the mountains (this was at Fort Carson, Colorado in February), each two recruits carried half a pup tent, and if you wanted any protection from the wind and snow, you paired up and slept together in the tent. Nevertheless it was damned cold sleeping on a snow bank, and I thought it pretty stupid not to combine our sleeping bags and share our body warmth. However, I knew the fellow in my tent was in love with me, and for nothing would I encourage him, so afraid was I of what might happen.

So we froze separately. Today I might say: "Screw the army".

Everything relaxed somewhat after basic training, but we all knew what was expected of us, especially as I spent my first year in the same barracks at Carson in which we had endured basic training. Masturbation was always discreet, solo, quiet, and quick.

The one time during that year that I broke the rule was while out on maneuver. Seeking shelter late one night, our group leader and another fellow slipped silently into a fox hole, by chance discovered by moonlight. Assuming that the foxhole would hold no more than two, I slept outside, at the edge of the opening. Later that night, horny as hell, I jacked off, careless as to whether or not my cum splashed onto my buddies below. I don't know, but I assumed it had spotted their uniforms.

A visit to a whore house in Nogales, Mexico, while temporarily assigned to Fort Huachuca, AZ didn't much alter the typical scenarios described above.

The one time that I dared to transgress ALL the rules was one warm day while on leave in Colorado Springs. Untypically relaxing alone ... with a book ... in the Garden of the Gods, I was casually befriended by a young fellow from the nearby Air Force Academy. We struck up a conversation which gradually became more and more sexual in tone. Within an hour we were high on a hill overlooking the park, jacking off together. God that was good. We both felt better afterwards.

Thinking I would never see the fellow again, it shocked me when a letter from him arrived, proposing that the two of us take an apartment together in the Springs. It was a letter I quickly destroyed and never answered.

Years have passed since those experiences, but I highly doubt that the fear of being accused of being gay has changed things very much ... no matter how "straight" a soldier may assert himself. I'm sure it is that fear which makes military men claim to be 100% straight. Kinsey, I know, thought differently, based upon his thousands of interviews.

So, no, if you want to imagine group sex among men, don't go to the military. It rarely if ever happens.

Rood

 

[accidenttourist]

Masturbation was always discreet, solo, quiet, and quick.

Rood

So well said for the situation, even though not so well for those stuck in that situation...

Just curious - from your experience in the army are there quite a number of guys who are actually not-so-straight as claimed, given the number of occasions where there are guys feeling the need to bond together, deterred only by the explicit ban from the army? :wink:

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

I shared a room with a friend on holiday (he is son of family friends).

I jerked like crazy in my bed, and he did not realize (or care??).

 

[Group51]

Nevertheless it was damned cold sleeping on a snow bank, and I thought it pretty stupid not to combine our sleeping bags and share our body warmth. However, I knew the fellow in my tent was in love with me, and for nothing would I encourage him, so afraid was I of what might happen.

So we froze separately. Today I might say: "Screw the army".

My goodness. Brokeback Army, how sad.

 

[caffecaffe]

last semester i lived in a dorm with a roommate. He is a bit introverted so we never talked a lot (when i tryied to start a conversation he always finished it up quickly) and i know that some people from certain parts of my country are not very open minded...even being naked in front of each other (it's totally normal in my hometown). so i walked in the room in my boxer briefs but nothing more (or nothing less). the first week i jo about two times...i was so fuckin horny...two times in a week? sometimes two times in a day isn't enough!
after that almost everyday in the bathroom and sometimes under the (what is the word for bed clothes???lol)... being sure that he was sleeping.one day i went to bed when he was out with his friends. so i jo undercovered. when i eard the keys in the door i just had time to pull the...again the bed clothes (bah!)... up and pretend to be sleeping.i thought he was able to saw a strange elevation...

anyway...
i never noticed him jo in the bed and when he takes a shower it takes no longuer than ten minutes to get stipped, wash himself and get dressed.

i don't know...is he normal or he can jo without making a sound

(i speak for myself...with me i always have that "chuak chuak chuak" sound!)

 

[free2jump4u]

In college, I rarely saw my roommate, you was always at his girlfriend's dorm, so I could freely jerk off. We each had a big closet, so I would mostly jerk off facing the closet, kinda pushing my hips in toward the clothes, just in case he walked in, I could say I was changing. I jerked off in the showers, but only sometimes.

I was jealous of one guy who said his roommate kept jerking off. I played it off like I didn't care and told him, your roommate should stop! Yeah, right, I was thinking, Oh Please let me go over!

 

[Doyouwantit]

I always did it in the bathroom after my 1st experience (below). I would sit in the stall that faced the showers so I could watch the guys.
When I first started school I was scared to do anything like most guys. I didn't get off for 3 weeks and I needed it bad. I had a top bunk so one night I just couldn't go any longer. So, I pulled it out and went to town. I had a small wash cloth to clean up with. But, when I shot it was so much it hit the ceiling and flew over the side of the bed and hit the floor. I was covered in cum and the little wash cloth wasn't enough. I had to clumb out of the bed and walk to the bathroom. Thank god it was late at night and no one else was out. Still have no idea if my roommate knew what I was doing or not. I cleaned up the room when we went to class the next day.

 

[D_Marion Assdimple]

I am in college and me and my roommate wank together twice a day...ince where we kinda talk about everything....like girls, sports, school....and once where we barely talk unless we are complementing the others size...my roommate is an asian guy who is very muscular....he has great pecs and abs....nothing guy...I just envy his body...his cock is 9.5 x 7.5...he's huge occasionaly will fuck in the same room together....but I rarely do that because the girl usually stops to admire him

 

[mellon77]

I do the same thing, either in the shower for a long time or a kinda-quickie in the bed, except he always awake after me so i don't know if he's watching. But i love watching myself so i don't bother to look, if he realizes oh well.

 

[big Italian cock]

My freshman year I lucked out by having an awfully cute, all-American, clean-cut looking stud of a roommate who broke the ice. Dave was a Junior and very well hung, and I couldn't help but steal peeks. He noticed, to be sure. One night, during our first week together, we went an played some hoops and when we got back to the room he suggested we go shower up. So off we went. We were the only two there. His beautiful body and long dick caused me to rise a bit, which he noticed and then he said he loves to JO in the showers. He grabbed his cock and stroked it, coming in great spurts. I did too. When we got back to the room, he said he "needs" to do it at least once a day, and if I wanted, we could do it together in the morning or whenever. So began our two years of daily wanking. We did it to each other a few times, but that was all. He was the best roommate I ever had. So open minded, nice and discreet. BTW: the floors were very institutional type of linoleum tile, so clean up was a breeze!

its great your roommate was comfortable with nudity and jerking off its a good bonding experience and its fun

 

[Triasco]

Across almost 8 years in the Army, I've had dozens of roommates and been in dozens of situations where I had to spend multiple nights sleeping in a bay or a tent occupied by dozens of people, some of whom outrank me greatly. Many of the rooms I had barely had 10 feet between the beds.

And I still jerked off for my typical hour. I think it's natural and normal, and nothing wrong with it as long as you're not trying to involve the other person. And I'm a grown man, so I prefer to masturbate in the comfort of my own bed, not in a communal shower or in bathroom stalls. I wait until my roommate is either not present (I try to keep tabs on my roommate's schedule) or asleep, sacrificing my own sleep more often than not. lol.

Most don't catch on, and the jealousy is usually from seeing my soft cock or my morning wood.

 

[H.ricky]

My first year in college we all instantly clicked and I live with two of them now. The dorm had two triples and one bathroom so luckily we all were unfiltered and open about everything. So when it came to jacking off no one was necessarily discreet but also just directly out the open. Majority of us had a fleshlight or something like it and it wasn’t a secret no one hid what they needed to do

 

[big Italian cock]

My first year in college we all instantly clicked and I live with two of them now. The dorm had two triples and one bathroom so luckily we all were unfiltered and open about everything. So when it came to jacking off no one was necessarily discreet but also just directly out the open. Majority of us had a fleshlight or something like it and it wasn’t a secret no one hid what they needed to do

hot ...i think its fine for friends to jerk off in front of each other as long as everyone is ok with it

 

[jwpettie]

My roomate and i jack to porn in the living room on a nitely basis,just a habit we got into.It just seems the norm anymore,tends to be more of a shooting match,somenites,we are just vbery comfortable with each other.

 

[H.ricky]

hot ...i think its fine for friends to jerk off in front of each other as long as everyone is ok with it

In tight living situations like dorming you’re not going to get to the privacy you might want. Luckily as guys there was a understanding that we had to take of business

I know for me my morning wood is raging no matter what, so I have to nut in the morning. living with roommates in college they knew that was a part of my routine either in the bathroom or in the room and it wasn’t anything I covered up or hid

one of my roommates from then actually lives with me now in our apartment he would always masturbate in a condom lmao so when he went to grab one we knew what was happening