Masturbation Habits

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Vincentr1: It certainly is interesting reading everyone's stories. I used to thing I was an oddball for jerking off so much. I didn't however have the early aggressive start that some of you have enjoyed. I guess the catholic fear of God and fear of growing hair in the palms of may hands kept me from participating more. I remember the first time I came wasn't until I was 14 and it happend quite by accident. I was just sitting on the toilet when I got an unrequested erection. I touched my cock with my hand for a second or two and cum shot out all over my hand. I hand no idea what happend. I actually thought I was sick. No one ever told me anything. I went all through high school and most of college experiencing only nocturnal emmissions or wet dreams. I was in basic training in the Army were we all shared a common one room barracks. No way was I going to jerk of in a room full of thirty other sleeping infantryman. If I got caught I would be mentally torured for the balance of basic training and it might even follow me around for years after that. As a result after about two week of no release, I finally had the mother of all wet dreams. I couldn't tell if I was dreaming or not. The amount of cum in my bunk was hard to believe. ever since that night I promised myself I'd never get that backed up again. Now I have no reservations about j/o daily, sometimes 3-4 times a day. The wife's quite supportive as well. If she's not in the mood or on her period and I want to get off, she's great with massaging my balls and taking her reps on my cock. For some odd reason it feels better when we snuggle why I jerk off. I guess it 's the release from knowing you don't have to hide anything. I only feel bad when I've been jerking off too much and she decides to help and I've run out cum. She gets a kick out of the sudden explosion. She just doesn't want to get it in her eyes.

When I starting reading this thread I was wondering how all of you could have so much to write about. Here I've ended up writing just as much. ;D

 

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iggy: guys,

it is a psychological theory (freud) that masturbation is a sign of immaturity if a man still does it after the age of 23. but, if so, all human normal males are immature! hell them...

physiologically, it is also good to unload once in a while... so, grab ur c*** and a towel... enjoy guys...

cheers,
iggy

 

[B_RoysToy]

Iggy:

It's great to be encourged to do what one plans to do anyway.

Wish you could see what's in my fist now, iggy! You would be so pleased your encouragement was met with success.

Luke

 

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iggy: luke,

thanks kor that, im so pleased...



cheers,
iggy

 

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Vincentr1: Why haven't the ladies written about their masturbation habits? ??? I'd be interested in reading them. Anybody else?

 

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josh82823: What a great thread. I j/o at least three times a day, and like some others have said, I used to think there was something wrong with me! But I just enjoy it so wtf.

I too have used hair conditioner as a lube - works great. I suppose it's being kind of narcissitic, but if I am in a hurry to get off, I go to the bathroom mirror, watch myself and cum almost immediately

Thanks guys for being so honest. Love this place!

 

[B_RoysToy]

Yeah, josh, the bathroom mirror will enhance all jack off sessions. With the computer, try placing a mirror on the floor between your feet and getting it angled to give you a picture of the activity as you stroke. It really gives a revealing view of your ball sac as it bounces during the workout.

Luke

 

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palladen: 3-5 times a day, otherwise i cant concentrate fully

 

[Pecker]

[quote author=palladen link=board=health;num=1072422079;start=20#27 date=01/09/04 at 16:59:28]3-5 times a day, otherwise i cant concentrate fully [/quote]

That is, when you aren't concentrating on what you're doing 3-5 times a day!

"Palladen! What are you doing in there? Unlock this door!"

"Um...just a minute! I'm concentrating!"

 

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tomarctus: Geepers, I hope I can return to that heady time of 3-5 times a day! No matter how much I think about it I can't seem to get mine to cum more than once a week. Darn these meds I'm on! Even good old Viagra doesn't do it for me. Normal for me used to be once or twice a day. Heck, I'm only 48, and this trouble started all at once when I was 47. How discouraging. But I haven't given up trying to find a way around it. At least I still get nice hardons even though they don't always last. I know I'm not alone in this. Anyone else brave enough to admit it? I'm always thinking about it and playing with my meat every day even if I don't cum.
My advice to everyone is beat away and enjoy every moment.

 

[benderten2001]

You know, as we consider masturbation and that "release" we all seek, even though it wouldn't be as satisfying without ejaculation for many of us, masturbating without reaching that point is okay, too!

Researching the topic of "self-pleasuring" indicates that a man's entire body is somewhat an "erogenous zone" so to speak and taking time out to massage ones self and the other areas (beyond the genitals) is perfectly healthy and therapeutic. We typically stay with the premise to "get off quick" when beginning to masturbate during adolescence and stay with that
"rush" to get it over with all our lives, it seems.
Too bad. "Quality time" in the solo act seems better and is highly recommended by the "sexperts"?.

Too bad, as men, we always associate masturbation with positively HAVING to ejaculate. Sometimes in the process though, we may not necessarily HAVE to get that final result to make the effort totally beneficial.

WHAT would be the big deal should we not "shoot" everytime? --Afterall, we still know we could!
Even if it IS later on...for whatever our reasons.

 

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Jack_Officer: What a great thread! I could write several books on this subject but I'll limit myself to a few comments.

When I was ten I happened to find a copy of "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex..." on the top shelf of my dad's closet. There was a chapter on masturbation and one paragraph alluded to boys discovering how rewarding it could be to rub their penises. Armed with this curious bit of information I locked myself in the bathroom one afternoon to try it. I thought it felt interesting, but not so great that I would want to do it again any time soon.

But I kept going for another couple of minutes and had my first dry orgasm. The light bulb went on.

I instantly became a masturbation fiend. In fact, my mother cornered me one day and said "Your father and I think you're masturbating too much." (This was the ONLY time my mom ever talked to me about sex, and she said the stupidest thing possible.) I later learned that my dad thought no such thing - he too was a masturbation fiend.

Over the next year or so I taught three of my best friends how to jack off, complete with live demonstrations and helpful assistance getting started. I was largely ahead of the curve in reaching puberty and when I started having wet orgasms, another round of demonstrations followed.

The only time I ever had a wet dream was at summer camp when there wasn't enough privacy to get myself off during the week. It was sort of a "Christian" summer camp as well, which further inhibited me. It took me until the very last night of camp to discover why there was a small group of guys who went to the men's restroom/shower building for long hot showers right before lights out every night. (BTW...it was one large shower room, not individual shower stalls.)

I still average about one J.O. session a day, sometimes more, sometimes less. Having sex doesn't seem to diminish my appetite. If anything, it increases my masturbatory impulses. If I have some great sex Saturday night, odds are I'll jack off two or three times a day on Sunday and Monday.

Actually I don't see much of a distinction between masturbation and sex. The J.O. sessions I had with my buddies when growing up were not just a phase or experimentation, they were fully satisfying sexual experiences and I saw no reason to give them up. I still enjoy masturbating with another man - either jacking ourselves sitting side by side, or trading handjobs, or more. Some of the best sex I've ever had involved getting off with another guy who is on the same wavelength about masturbation. Oddly enough it's near impossible to find a gay man who understands that mutual masturbation can be a satisfying sexual experience, so I tend to fool around mostly with men who label themselves as straight or bi-curious.

The "milking" method that jonb described is something I never experienced, but I've read about it elsewhere on the web. I'll have to try that one day!

 

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tomarctus: [quote author=Jack_Officer link=board=health;num=1072422079;start=20#31 date=01/14/04 at 02:46:02]
Oddly enough it's near impossible to find a gay man who understands that mutual masturbation can be a satisfying sexual experience[/quote]
I must be that rare gay man. Mutual masturbation is my favorite activity. I love to jackoff.
Another thing I often do is jackoff again after having sex with a guy, later, when I'm alone. Just having sex arouses me so much that I often need a second wanking session.

 

[B_RoysToy]

You guys are making me so wanna jack off!

 

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raj: Another aspect of masturbation I'm sure only us larger than average guys would know is just the feeling of your heavy hard penis in your hands.

I've clearly accepted the realization that I have two different types of jerk off sessions. The typical and most obvious is the fantasy or porno assisted session. The type every man must know about. But the other type I suppose not every guy can appreciated unless he is a member of our unique group. The other, I guess we can only understand because of our larger than average penis. I love those sessions when it's not about my dick going into a vagina or being sucked, but me just getting into my hard and warm cock in my hands. Only I can massage it just right. I get into admiring the budges of veins especially when its lubed. These kinds of masturbation sessions can even be more fun when done outdoors in seclusion. It's just you and the sun with large hard heavy cock in hand. Loving what you have!

Jerk on brothers!

 

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riddick81: Just read this entire thread - incrediable!  I thought I was the only one that was really hooked on J/O! Even though I've been married most of my life and have had satisfying sex with women, I still very much enjoy beating off the old (82 year) rod. I guess no knows exactly what stimulates me best but me. And at the moment of climax, certain stimulations which only you know, take you over the brink and through the enormous experience of orgasm and EJACULATION!
Seeing and feeling the surges and spasms of your life-giving semen being ejected, all white, visid, sticky, pearly, gelatinous, lumpy, jelly-like, globs of pure estascy,  is truly the most wonderful feeling and vision in the world!!
 Sometimes my wife and I sit in front of a coffee table as I J/O. She delights in seeing my cock swell and UNLOAD my sperm on to the table. Afterward, she will carefully gather it up in her hand, taste it and then rub it all over her large pussy lips, swollen clit, and gaping vagina. Then very often I will go down on her and lovingly bring her orally to a powerful, wet orgasm!!
She has such unusually large sex organs - what a turn-on!!   ENJOY!! riddick81

 

[fourtwenty]

What an amazing thread, i had to unzip my pants to release my wood.
I jerk off at least once daily, and i try to have sex once daily (i live with my girlfriend). But, when i dont get sex because i'm in the doghouse or she's on the rag, i'll be jerkin away...and i harldy ever need any porn.
[quote author=raj link=board=health;num=1072422079;start=0#5 date=12/27/03 at 11:27:22]Hey Dee:

And when I have lazy weekend days home alone, what's a guy to do but lay around massaging his manhood. I too have also wondered if my love of jerk-ing off has to do with my size. A man must love his dick and if he can find the time to worship what makes him a man in his own hands, go for it.

Weekend days (like today) when I have no appointments and just bumming around watching TV, my hands eventually find its way down to my crouth. Usually I'm nude anyway since I sleep in the buff, but if I do have clothes on, they are usually loose fitting shorts, boxers or jammies. Easy access to my penis when I need to. [/quote]

I cannot agree more. Whenever i'm at home, off with my jeans, and on with a pair of boxers, basketball shorts, lounge pants, or nothing.
And my hand is always on my dick or my nuts. rubbing, playing, tugging, holding. Having a big floppy monster and a couple eggs in your pants all day just makes me want to rub and play with it, and if i get wood, i'll sometimes jerk it.
It was great to see that i'm not the only one who likes to lounge around with my hands down my pants.

 

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JimEllsworth5: I'm happy to read that so many older guys masturbate frequently. For some reason I thought it was just me.

I'm also happy to see other large men get off on their own size. I've always been excited about my size. It's become something of an obsession though and is not healthy for me.

While I'm not going to cut back on masturbation, I do need to get my self obsession under control.

 

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riddick81: Hi, JimElsworth, Noted your recent post in Masturbation Habits.
You have been bless with a very unusually large penis - did you do enhancement exercises or was it just there?? GOSH! a rod
15 x 11 IS a tremendous organ. PLEASE post a few photos of your tool in full erection and one of you shooting your load ---
Pretty PLEASE. I just cannot imagine the pleasure such a huge
organ must give you and whatever lenght your partner can take
-- much must be left out in the cold... Many thanks, Olsalty

 

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blacksnake: What a great thread. Now I know that many men do and think the same. I like jacking off. My wife always ask me what's so great about it. I tell her that a man needs to have a personal relationship with his penis. It's healthier and stronger that way. I've been married for almost 12 years and even though we have frequent sex, I jack off all the time. I love being home alone so I can play with my dick when ever I want. I actually jacked simaltaniously with my brother in law once. shhh! Our deep dark family secret. ;D Happy jacking guys.