I don't even wanna know what women's real expectations are when they regularly watch porn. I am 7.3x6 (no fat pad or so included) and I am visually dwarfed by all the actors with comparable size.
Btw, I recently recalled that an older cousin of a friend from when I was young always had these porn magazines with the title 'Pleasure'. Googled it and realized that somehow none of these guys was bigger than me. So either dicks have grown immensely since then, or nowadays fookin trickery is giving me body dismorphia for nuffin.