More "straight" In The Past Year?

santil0724

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For as long as I can remember I would have crushes on both girls and boys. When I started sexually maturing and actually started masturbating, it was straight porn (and I'd focus on the guy) or hot men. But I still have always found girls attractive just more so those in real life than through a screen. I consider myself pansexual, since gender doesn't really matter to me, with a lean towards masculine men. Now I've settled on liking solo male vids the most. I've been in a good stable relationship with a woman since high school and we've been together for 4 years now. We have sex regularly and I enjoy it. I always thought that I'd like men more than women but this last year, for the first time, I have sexually objectified women as much as I do men and actively see celebrities, random women, and pornstars/cammers as hot. Does anyone else have this experience of being more sexually attracted to one or the other?
 
I know how ya feel. Been Attracted to both. Women for most of my life. Started experimenting with guys recently (late 40s). Now, I've reverted back to being with women mostly. Still like men, but I think for me it is better kept a fantasy.
 
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It fluctuates, depends on circumstances, influences you get from friends, etc. At the moment in a steady relationship with a younger guy. His previous relationship was with a woman and his mindset is still oriented towards women more than men. We both now find ourselves looking and commenting on women more than in the past.
 
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Every year I find I'm focusing more on men than women. I hate it because I have an amazing wife and very happy life. This is a side I have suppressed for a long time, so I think it's surfacing stronger than ever. I still find women attractive and arousing, but I'm not interested in any other women than my wife. I wish I could say the same for men.