Multi faceted fondness for spandex / lycra, advice-stories etc…

[22cyclist22]

It’s always a bit tricky for me to balance my liking for how people (mostly guys) look in spandex with the fact that I grew up wearing it a lot for sports. I still wear it because I love how tights and compression shorts make me feel – like I could jump across any gap, run any distance, or fit into really tight spaces.
I do some cycling, but honestly, I hike and jog a lot more (lately). I’m kind of self-conscious, so wearing spandex in public is a bit of a challenge, even though it makes me feel more (a lot more!) productive and energetic. For reference I’m 27 and live in the United States.

I honestly feel jealous of women who can wear whatever they want without judgement, i want to dress like you see here, after a hike, versus changing Afterwards to conform with society.

Any thoughts?

 

[josty]

Something about Spandex/tights/leggings/etc has always intrigued me. I just think they look so cool. Maybe it's just the general association with sports, fitness, and superheroes that draws me in. Definitely wish we had more widely accepted options compared to women.

 

[22cyclist22]

Something about Spandex/tights/leggings/etc has always intrigued me. I just think they look so cool. Maybe it's just the general association with sports, fitness, and superheroes that draws me in. Definitely wish we had more widely accepted options compared to women.

It could have something to do with people commonly assuming the worst whenever they see men acting differently then normal, versus when people see women, the feel indifference more frequently towards women versus destine and fear towards men. Not saying thats right or wrong or whatever, just trying to articulate what might be going on.

Not sure why I used such academic vocabulary - lol.

 

[dikje1]

I cycle a lot so I have an excuse to be out in my tight kit. It’s fun to walk across the patio of a coffee shop during a break, wearing sunglasses but watching the eyes of almost everyone sitting there as they dart to get a quick glance of our crotches. Admittedly it does turn me on a bit. Guess I’m a perv. Oh well.

 

[deleted23309891]

I love wearing them out and people getting to see the head of my cock. It’s sexy

 

[22cyclist22]

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Whoa so you wear those out? I mean I’m not complaining! They suit you!

 

[22cyclist22]

I cycle a lot so I have an excuse to be out in my tight kit. It’s fun to walk across the patio of a coffee shop during a break, wearing sunglasses but watching the eyes of almost everyone sitting there as they dart to get a quick glance of our crotches. Admittedly it does turn me on a bit. Guess I’m a perv. Oh well.

Those kind of thoughts turn me on too. But then I’m like eh man people can be so rude, kind of off-putting especially when going about your business if that makes sense.

 

[dikje1]

Those kind of thoughts turn me on too. But then I’m like eh man people can be so rude, kind of off-putting especially when going about your business if that makes sense.

Interesting. I’ve never thought it rude. But I can see that, though. Other than a slight thrill, I sometimes think it’s also a bit funny and wonder if some people can’t help themselves. Then again, where I live gay men wearing skimpy and/or tight clothing is not uncommon. Indeed, I often wear clothes outside of cycling that show at least a bit of a bulge. And I find the reactions of the straight family men here on vacation are the best.

 

[deleted23309891]

Whoa so you wear those out? I mean I’m not complaining! They suit you!

Yes, they're basically just underwear, but they look like athletic wear. I'm a complete perv and ok with it lol. I love when I get an erection or semi. People can't take their eyes off it.

 

[22cyclist22]

Interesting. I’ve never thought it rude. But I can see that, though. Other than a slight thrill, I sometimes think it’s also a bit funny and wonder if some people can’t help themselves. Then again, where I live gay men wearing skimpy and/or tight clothing is not uncommon. Indeed, I often wear clothes outside of cycling that show at least a bit of a bulge. And I find the reactions of the straight family men here on vacation are the best.

Right, so by “rude” I mean the public’s reactions. Maybe I’m just a bit too thin skinned….. Maybe i find the comments under folks breath and subtle head shaking more personal than i should. Then again it is kind of cool to be so confident…. As i have learned on HERE (lpsg).

 

[pappiepapie]

I love wearing it and seeing it. I run 2-3 times a week so wear it regularly

 

[generico86]

My wife and I have had an ongoing discussion over the past few years about how appropriate/inappropriate it is to just wear compression shorts/tights out to run/race without shorts over top. Reading up on it, it seems like it used to be more common in the 80s but people got conservative about it in the last few decades. I'm mostly over the hesitation and just wear them, but still get self-conscious sometimes. Latest example is: I've been doing sprint triathlons (2-3 a year) for the last few years and bought a tri-suit to compete. Fits great and would be cool to "have the gear" but this is what it looks like on me. I did a tri 2 weeks ago and chickened out wearing it (presumably it would be even more clingy when wet). Thoughts? I feel like everyone is like "Just suck it up and do it! Nobody cares about your junk." But I don't want moms herding their children away in disgust. By the way, regarding the picture, tucking it down is not an option on the bike, and putting it up or to the side is actually way worse. During the actual event, there would definitely be shrinkage, but not enough to prevent a clear outline.
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[dikje1]

My wife and I have had an ongoing discussion over the past few years about how appropriate/inappropriate it is to just wear compression shorts/tights out to run/race without shorts over top. Reading up on it, it seems like it used to be more common in the 80s but people got conservative about it in the last few decades. I'm mostly over the hesitation and just wear them, but still get self-conscious sometimes. Latest example is: I've been doing sprint triathlons (2-3 a year) for the last few years and bought a tri-suit to compete. Fits great and would be cool to "have the gear" but this is what it looks like on me. I did a tri 2 weeks ago and chickened out wearing it (presumably it would be even more clingy when wet). Thoughts? I feel like everyone is like "Just suck it up and do it! Nobody cares about your junk." But I don't want moms herding their children away in disgust. By the way, regarding the picture, tucking it down is not an option on the bike, and putting it up or to the side is actually way worse. During the actual event, there would definitely be shrinkage, but not enough to prevent a clear outline.
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Well, tough call, that! But leaves no doubt that you’re hung!

 

[WadWorshipper]

My wife and I have had an ongoing discussion over the past few years about how appropriate/inappropriate it is to just wear compression shorts/tights out to run/race without shorts over top. Reading up on it, it seems like it used to be more common in the 80s but people got conservative about it in the last few decades. I'm mostly over the hesitation and just wear them, but still get self-conscious sometimes. Latest example is: I've been doing sprint triathlons (2-3 a year) for the last few years and bought a tri-suit to compete. Fits great and would be cool to "have the gear" but this is what it looks like on me. I did a tri 2 weeks ago and chickened out wearing it (presumably it would be even more clingy when wet). Thoughts? I feel like everyone is like "Just suck it up and do it! Nobody cares about your junk." But I don't want moms herding their children away in disgust. By the way, regarding the picture, tucking it down is not an option on the bike, and putting it up or to the side is actually way worse. During the actual event, there would definitely be shrinkage, but not enough to prevent a clear outline.
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If that's you, soft, I see your problem. Literally. I'm jealous but I understand your concerns. It would be great to just ignore any naysayers and enjoy the day and the event. But as well hung as you are, the issue becomes a bit more.....defined?

 

[generico86]

Thanks, glad I'm not crazy to hesitate. I'm still soft in the pic but probably a little chub since I was taking a pic. On triathlon forums people say it's no big deal because during the swim you're in the water, on the bike no one can see, and on the run you typically wear a number belt that hides your crotch. So it's really only the pre-race period that's a concern and everyone is busy warming up, doing their own thing at that time. I've got another one coming up in September so maybe I'll wear it then. Some friends are coming for that one to spectate though so that's a barrier. But the suit was expensive- kinda feel like I have to use it. Would be nice if it was just normal for men to wear tights on the bottom like women do (as the OP mentions) and not worry about it. But then women have all sorts of body/garment issues that we don't have; still easier to be a guy for sure.

 

[dikje1]

Thanks, glad I'm not crazy to hesitate. I'm still soft in the pic but probably a little chub since I was taking a pic. On triathlon forums people say it's no big deal because during the swim you're in the water, on the bike no one can see, and on the run you typically wear a number belt that hides your crotch. So it's really only the pre-race period that's a concern and everyone is busy warming up, doing their own thing at that time. I've got another one coming up in September so maybe I'll wear it then. Some friends are coming for that one to spectate though so that's a barrier. But the suit was expensive- kinda feel like I have to use it. Would be nice if it was just normal for men to wear tights on the bottom like women do (as the OP mentions) and not worry about it. But then women have all sorts of body/garment issues that we don't have; still easier to be a guy for sure.

What do other men wear when they’re participating in these events? That’s your clue of what is probably what you should be wearing. When cycling, we all wear tight (bib) shorts. Some guys have big bulges, some don’t. It is what it is. And as I mentioned in my earlier post, sometimes people look. I know I’m checking out some of my fellow cyclists. Woof!

 

[generico86]

Yes, totally agree- plenty of guys wear tri-suits like this, or just tri shorts (cycle shorts that also go in the water). Planning to give it a shot and try not to think about it. Thanks all for the support!

 

[dikje1]

Yes, totally agree- plenty of guys wear tri-suits like this, or just tri shorts (cycle shorts that also go in the water). Planning to give it a shot and try not to think about it. Thanks all for the support!

If you want to try and get used to people staring at your beautiful bulge, I’ll be happy to try and help you out.

 

[WadWorshipper]

If it's that common in those events to wear that suit, then you should do it. You have the same "cover" as men who swim in competitive swim events who may not have the perfect swimmer's body. It's the uniform of the sport. You've outlined the various stages of the event that will tend to hide your mammoth manhood, except the pre-event period: if you have a bag of your "stuff", could you throw a pair of shorts in there to wear during this time? If it was me, I'd wear it proudly, because it's awesome, but I understand your concern about your friends seeing more than they've seen of you before.

 

[generico86]

If it's that common in those events to wear that suit, then you should do it. You have the same "cover" as men who swim in competitive swim events who may not have the perfect swimmer's body. It's the uniform of the sport. You've outlined the various stages of the event that will tend to hide your mammoth manhood, except the pre-event period: if you have a bag of your "stuff", could you throw a pair of shorts in there to wear during this time? If it was me, I'd wear it proudly, because it's awesome, but I understand your concern about your friends seeing more than they've seen of you before.

Yeah, I can't say I'm not a little proud. Even get off on it some- a little exhibitionism never hurt anybody. But interesting that revealing your manhood to strangers is so much easier than being in front of people you know. When I run in compression shorts from home I always worry I'll see a neighbor on the sidewalk, but once I'm a few blocks away the stress slips away. Same thing at the pool. I'll wear jammers on vacation but always wear trunks when I take the kids to our local pool.