My straight crush said something sus

[Peinfeind]

thanks for sharing your story, I went through something similar when I was in high school when I fell head over heels for one of my best friends. I’m still not over him but I’ve made some new friends since I’m in college now and I’ve been talking to this one guy for like a year now and we’re both very close. The new guy we’ll call him (Seth) is straight I think idk even know. He’s like super horny half the time it’s super hot she points out mine and his bulges. I like it so much he even peaked on me once at a urinal like full blown turned his head put out his hands on the urinal divider and looked at my dick. Part of me thinks he’s sexually curios but I know for a fact he’s only been with women. A few days ago I was at his house after working out, we were just watching movies while drinking and smoking weed. We were laying on the same bed together and he started leaning on me like kinda cuddling. And here’s the crazy part lol
He leaned in twice to kiss me I didn’t know what to think of it so I just laughed it off and said to chill the first time but man when he leaned in the second time he got up all in my face and we nearly kissed I was just to scared to go in for the kiss I just don’t wanna push the boundaries of our friendship and ruin it. Maybe it’ll scare him idk he was drunk but I wasn’t willing to take the risk and now I’m regretting it
I still have hop tho that we could hook up or something we always talked about having a threesome with a girl but we just need to find one that down

 

[just rodger]

I think he was serious and was aiming it at one person, probably you.
You could always bring it up again before the trip, " when is the jerk off party scheduled for?"
It can be awkward to be perceived as straight (him) while trying to hit on a guy (you) who you suspect is bi / gay . He threw it out there, I would follow up.

 

[J_22]

(I'm scared of men I just want their dick)

This is so real lmao, I feel you

 

[UeFuder]

I think he was serious and was aiming it at one person, probably you.

omg bro are making my delulu stronger lol

btw y'all I think he was serious, but not that interested: if a jerk off session may happen in future, he would take part and nothing more

 

[UeFuder]

He’s like super horny half the time it’s super hot she points out mine and his bulges. I like it so much he even peaked on me once at a urinal like full blown turned his head put out his hands on the urinal divider and looked at my dick. Part of me thinks he’s sexually curios but I know for a fact he’s only been with women. A few days ago I was at his house after working out, we were just watching movies while drinking and smoking weed. We were laying on the same bed together and he started leaning on me like kinda cuddling. And here’s the crazy part lol
He leaned in twice to kiss me I didn’t know what to think of it so I just laughed it off and said to chill the first time but man when he leaned in the second time he got up all in my face and we nearly kissed I was just to scared to go in for the kiss I just don’t wanna push the boundaries of our friendship and ruin it. Maybe it’ll scare him idk he was drunk but I wasn’t willing to take the risk and now I’m regretting it
I still have hop tho that we could hook up or something we always talked about having a threesome with a girl but we just need to find one that down

bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss u.

 

[UeFuder]

I’d appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!

For who's interested, he is now single and we shared many nice moments: he introduced me to many of his friends and made sure to not make me feel excluded from the group, I smoked my first joint with him and his friend. He still doesn't joke with me like he does with others, but I know he truly cares about me because he said some really nice things about me in a certain situation. He also hugged me from nothing various times, even if I don't do much physical touch: he's a loving one.

I've been trying to stay as cool as possible and it has been nice for now long. I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone by leaving likes on his stories (and on my friends' to make it look coherent). I'm also trying to not think too much about him in order to prevent any delusion.

 

[Peinfeind]

bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss

bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss u.

damn I should’ve just done it it’s okay though I still have hope that we’ll hook up one way or another. We always talk about having threesomes. It’s only a matter of time

 

[ndamood4sum]

Hi everyone, this is my first thread where I talk about my personal experiences, and I hope to get some honest advice. Here’s the situation.

I’ve had a strong sexual attraction to a guy in my friend group since October. He’s straight and in a relationship with a girl for 3 years (they cheated on each other many times tho), so I try not to get emotionally attached. Usually, I don’t feel love easily, but I do experience strong sexual desires.
No one in the group knows I’m not straight, so the guys treat me like a “bro,” which makes me a bit uncomfortable. I’m the quiet one in the group, but they all like me. They often make sexual jokes (hetero ones, obv), and sometimes they make me nervous because I’m not used to that kind of talk.
I’m Italian, and in my city, it’s common for guys to say things like “I put my cock in your mouth” as a joking way of saying “Shut up.” They never say these things to me, probably because I’m quieter and more serious, and that makes me feel a bit excluded.
Now, about the guy I like: during a conversation, he told me and another friend that on an upcoming trip (with a lot of other people), we should all jerk off together. I was too stunned to speak, and my friend didn’t respond either. Then he jokingly added, “We’ll cum on (another friend’s name) ” and the conversation moved on with other jokes.
I’m still thinking about what he said, his tone felt too serious. What he said (translated to English) is "But we definitely need to jerk off together when we’re in the room". The idea of doing that with him excites me but also makes me anxious because I’m not straight, and all my friends are (we are 6 guys). I’m 80% sure he wasn’t joking: he kinda looks like one of those bros who would jerk off with his friends as a way of sharing time and getting a closer friendship, but I’m confused.

My questions are:
1. Do you think he was joking or serious?
2. If he wasn’t joking, should I participate if the situation comes up?
3. What do you think about a straight guy with a girlfriend suggesting this kind of thing to his friends?

I’d appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!

I want to say that if he said it that easily, then maybe he has already done that before. When I was younger just about every friend group I was a part of at some point had that kind of experience with each other. I was the only gay one usually and most, if not all already knew that I wasn't straight.

Only you can answer if you should participate if he wasn't joking but he you guys do it, try and go with the flow and while everyone will glance at each other, don't get caught staring at just one person to long. Gay, Straight, Bi etc it really doesn't matter, there is probably nothing that even comes close to this kind of male bonding. Just try and have fun if you do it