My "bisexuality"- looking for others who feel this way

I think you just appreciate the openness you never got to experienced as a kid, of a masculine role model. Not saying your dad wasn't masculine, just that he was much more modest. There's nothing sexual to understand in that case, so no need for a label. IMO there is never a need for a label, but that's just me.
 
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I think you just appreciate the openness you never got to experienced as a kid, of a masculine role model. Not saying your dad wasn't masculine, just that he was much more modest. There's nothing sexual to understand in that case, so no need for a label. IMO there is never a need for a label, but that's just me.
This is very much it man, I have been trying to recreate that situation. Do u have any ideas?
 
Not really. I suspect you are craving the intimacy of the male role model you weren't afforded growing up.

What you need is just a bro hug, now and again, that sense of touch that we all need occasionally.

Throw back a pint with a close mate, shoot some billiards and hug at the end, until the next time would be my suggestion.
 
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Not really. I suspect you are craving the intimacy of the male role model you weren't afforded growing up.

What you need is just a bro hug, now and again, that sense of touch that we all need occasionally.

Throw back a pint with a close mate, shoot some billiards and hug at the end, until the next time would be my suggestion.

@OntheWaterfront thats good advice thanks so much man for the thoughts, i have told therapists this exactly thing and they thought I was in denial lol

I think along the same lines, Ive always struggled with men. I was a feminine child and was disliked ect, probably a common story but I do have a hard time making male friends. Naturally its gotten harder as Ive gotten older, im 31 now. So I dont have any friends I can speak of, but if anyone has suggestions Im very open and grateful. Im a successful handsome fit guy, but we all struggle with some things.