My boyfriend (28) had sex with my unconscious body (21) a week ago. I woke up in the middle of the incident. I yelled no, turned around and went back to sleep. In the morning he was jacking off and touching my ass. I sat up in bed and stated that I knew what he did the night before. He lied and said he wasn't inside of me and that he was just trying to get inside of me. I know my body and I know he was mid-thrust when I caught him. Idk if I'm over reacting.
It's difficult to opine if you're overreacting if we don't know your reaction. Were you angry, outraged, violated, betrayed, titillated, turned on, or something else? Yelling "no," turning around and going back to sleep does not tell us much. Besides, to the extent you didn't immediately end the relationship indicates that, whatever your reaction, you were understanding or even intrigued.
