My Roommate is addicted to masturbating and it’s starting to get out of hand

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This is a crazy story that I’m literally stuck in rn. Literally as I’m typing they’re in the next room masturbating.

Let me rewind. I have a friend staying with me in my apartment living room. They’ve been here a few months. I had a couple staying in there before. It’s rocky sometimes but it works.

This roommate is in their earlier 30’s. Let’s call them Astro. Astro is chill. We’re very close already but the problem is they have an addiction to masturbation. Now I didn’t mind it here and there when we were asleep or in our separate spaces. Whatever.

I began to notice that they began masturbating in my room. I came home one day and they were passed out with their dick out. It’s hot. I am attracted to them. But I was like okay, I just pretend I didn’t see that. After that they started doing it with no headphones and louder. The bathroom is right next to my door so I hear everything. Fine. They’re in the bathroom. Technically that’s privacy. But bring headphones at least. Fine I left it. Whatever.

Now. One day he masturbates behind me on my couch under some blankets while I am getting ready for my day. I just kept doing my thang. They nutted and everything I didn’t know what to do. Do I think that masturbation is hot? Yes. But we also had a guest literally in the other room. It was awkward. Eventually it was addressed and they apologized.

but it just got worserrrr

Now. Astro masturbates aaaaallllll day and night. To the point where I literally could leave my room while we’re hanging out to get a cup of water and I can already hear them masturbating/playing porn in the distance. Literally 2 mins. Yes in my room. And this is daily. Nonstop. I sleep. It’s masturbation, I wake up. Still masturbation. I can’t do anything without coming back to him in a random position trying to cover his boner.

I’m starting to become restless and weary of the friendship. I always wondered why they had rough friendships but they don’t seem to understand any boundaries.

my couch is propped at the end of my bed and sometimes I’ll be laying down on the couch and they’ll lay on my bed to masturbate behind me to some porn. I thought I’d be able to handle it.
But it seems like he just gets riskier and riskier each time and idk what to even think or do anymore tbh.

it’s such a weird situation. Idk if it’d make them feel better if I hooked up with them or masturbated with them. Idk. I’m not sure what to even do. Or am I supposed to do anything. As I’m typing this he’s masturbating on his bed even tho we’re trying to get the cold air circulated so my door is open. Idk.

I can handle the masturbation in their room. And on their own time. But literally shouldn’t be every single time we’re hanging out and I leave the room or look away. That’s a little insane. Kinda hot but also when it’s hours on end at a time, it gets old.

anyways. Just needed to get this off my chest. Hopefully this doesn’t end up on tiktok I’d die.

if you want more stories I can give them. Since they keep doing it
 
Poor guy has something dark going on in his solar plexus. Best thing right now is find a way to get sex for him. If he has some sex it will help.
If this story were to be real, they would have fucked already!

Straight out from the horse’s mouth, he’s attracted to his room mate! And his room mate wanked in his room, passed out with his cock out and on his bed. And the roommate is supposedly in his “30s”, i’m assuming OP is also around the same age.

None of this shit is believable. Even Tina Belcher can write a better erotic non-fiction.

Op is on here to find other folks to fan his passion for writing erotic fiction. He isn’t on here to seek advice.
 
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This is a crazy story that I’m literally stuck in rn. Literally as I’m typing they’re in the next room masturbating.

Let me rewind. I have a friend staying with me in my apartment living room. They’ve been here a few months. I had a couple staying in there before. It’s rocky sometimes but it works.

This roommate is in their earlier 30’s. Let’s call them Astro. Astro is chill. We’re very close already but the problem is they have an addiction to masturbation. Now I didn’t mind it here and there when we were asleep or in our separate spaces. Whatever.

I began to notice that they began masturbating in my room. I came home one day and they were passed out with their dick out. It’s hot. I am attracted to them. But I was like okay, I just pretend I didn’t see that. After that they started doing it with no headphones and louder. The bathroom is right next to my door so I hear everything. Fine. They’re in the bathroom. Technically that’s privacy. But bring headphones at least. Fine I left it. Whatever.

Now. One day he masturbates behind me on my couch under some blankets while I am getting ready for my day. I just kept doing my thang. They nutted and everything I didn’t know what to do. Do I think that masturbation is hot? Yes. But we also had a guest literally in the other room. It was awkward. Eventually it was addressed and they apologized.

but it just got worserrrr

Now. Astro masturbates aaaaallllll day and night. To the point where I literally could leave my room while we’re hanging out to get a cup of water and I can already hear them masturbating/playing porn in the distance. Literally 2 mins. Yes in my room. And this is daily. Nonstop. I sleep. It’s masturbation, I wake up. Still masturbation. I can’t do anything without coming back to him in a random position trying to cover his boner.

I’m starting to become restless and weary of the friendship. I always wondered why they had rough friendships but they don’t seem to understand any boundaries.

my couch is propped at the end of my bed and sometimes I’ll be laying down on the couch and they’ll lay on my bed to masturbate behind me to some porn. I thought I’d be able to handle it.
But it seems like he just gets riskier and riskier each time and idk what to even think or do anymore tbh.

it’s such a weird situation. Idk if it’d make them feel better if I hooked up with them or masturbated with them. Idk. I’m not sure what to even do. Or am I supposed to do anything. As I’m typing this he’s masturbating on his bed even tho we’re trying to get the cold air circulated so my door is open. Idk.

I can handle the masturbation in their room. And on their own time. But literally shouldn’t be every single time we’re hanging out and I leave the room or look away. That’s a little insane. Kinda hot but also when it’s hours on end at a time, it gets old.

anyways. Just needed to get this off my chest. Hopefully this doesn’t end up on tiktok I’d die.

if you want more stories I can give them. Since they keep doing it
Can you just tell him clearly how you're feeling and put your foot down that it's not okay? It seems like you've been holding back telling him clearly what you think and how it's not okay... Sure, he's a compulsive masturbator and that's his problem, but you also have a problem in that you're failing to address this directly with him despite this clearly bothering you a bit.
 
If this story were to be real, they would have fucked already!

Straight out from the horse’s mouth, he’s attracted to his room mate! And his room mate wanked in his room, passed out with his cock out and on his bed. And the roommate is supposedly in his “30s”, i’m assuming OP is also around the same age.

None of this shit is believable. Even Tina Belcher can write a better erotic non-fiction.

Op is on here to find other folks to fan his passion for writing erotic fiction. He isn’t on here to seek advice.
Yes. But rn because of that situation he can’t have guests over and the area we live in, not many people can host. We’re in the big Apple. You’d be surprised how hard it is to find someone to host. And we’re black queer plus sized ish people so our looks aren’t necessarily favored. Maybe I should allow him to have a guest over.
 
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Can you just tell him clearly how you're feeling and put your foot down that it's not okay? It seems like you've been holding back telling him clearly what you think and how it's not okay... Sure, he's a compulsive masturbator and that's his problem, but you also have a problem in that you're failing to address this directly with him despite this clearly bothering you a bit.
When that situation happened the first time we had a discussion about it. I laid down the law. But they still are doing it. I feel bad cause I truly don’t think they can help it.
 
So your friend has hypersexuality and an exhibition kink. Hes getting riskier and riskier. You think he's hot and youre both gay and he masturbates on your bed near you.

So I can only think of two things.

1)He wants to masturbate or have sex with you dude.


2)He needs to see a therapist for the underlying issues with hypersexuality. It could be his meds if he is on any. Some antidepressants cause hypersexuality. So do some other mental health medicines.

I would definitely see if he can see a therapist before things spiral really bad. Hes already pretty bad but it can get worse.

If this was truly bothering you severely, I think as two adults, you would have already put stronger boundaries and had a serious talk and then continue the talk if things happen again soon after. Boundaries are healthy and needed.
 
This is a crazy story that I’m literally stuck in rn. Literally as I’m typing they’re in the next room masturbating.

Let me rewind. I have a friend staying with me in my apartment living room. They’ve been here a few months. I had a couple staying in there before. It’s rocky sometimes but it works.

This roommate is in their earlier 30’s. Let’s call them Astro. Astro is chill. We’re very close already but the problem is they have an addiction to masturbation. Now I didn’t mind it here and there when we were asleep or in our separate spaces. Whatever.

I began to notice that they began masturbating in my room. I came home one day and they were passed out with their dick out. It’s hot. I am attracted to them. But I was like okay, I just pretend I didn’t see that. After that they started doing it with no headphones and louder. The bathroom is right next to my door so I hear everything. Fine. They’re in the bathroom. Technically that’s privacy. But bring headphones at least. Fine I left it. Whatever.

Now. One day he masturbates behind me on my couch under some blankets while I am getting ready for my day. I just kept doing my thang. They nutted and everything I didn’t know what to do. Do I think that masturbation is hot? Yes. But we also had a guest literally in the other room. It was awkward. Eventually it was addressed and they apologized.

but it just got worserrrr

Now. Astro masturbates aaaaallllll day and night. To the point where I literally could leave my room while we’re hanging out to get a cup of water and I can already hear them masturbating/playing porn in the distance. Literally 2 mins. Yes in my room. And this is daily. Nonstop. I sleep. It’s masturbation, I wake up. Still masturbation. I can’t do anything without coming back to him in a random position trying to cover his boner.

I’m starting to become restless and weary of the friendship. I always wondered why they had rough friendships but they don’t seem to understand any boundaries.

my couch is propped at the end of my bed and sometimes I’ll be laying down on the couch and they’ll lay on my bed to masturbate behind me to some porn. I thought I’d be able to handle it.
But it seems like he just gets riskier and riskier each time and idk what to even think or do anymore tbh.

it’s such a weird situation. Idk if it’d make them feel better if I hooked up with them or masturbated with them. Idk. I’m not sure what to even do. Or am I supposed to do anything. As I’m typing this he’s masturbating on his bed even tho we’re trying to get the cold air circulated so my door is open. Idk.

I can handle the masturbation in their room. And on their own time. But literally shouldn’t be every single time we’re hanging out and I leave the room or look away. That’s a little insane. Kinda hot but also when it’s hours on end at a time, it gets old.

anyways. Just needed to get this off my chest. Hopefully this doesn’t end up on tiktok I’d die.

if you want more stories I can give them. Since they keep doing it
Ok, aside from the confusing as hell “they/he” back and forth, is he on crystal? I’d find that out first because that might be the bigger and underlying problem here. If he isn’t, he needs a therapist.
 
It may seem ridiculous but if you haven't, deeply ponder the word ADDICTION. That should explain it all. It's not so much the masturbation, it's addiction and sounds like he's actually addicted to edging, as I am. It is a tremendous thing that has amazed me as to the power thereof. I take Cialis and it is a wonderful thing- but it causes the most mind-blowing increase in dick sensitivity and the most tremendous increase of mind blowing DEEP and NEW sensations to the penis. I have found myself deeply addicted to edging and feeling it is a total loss to cum. To cum, the addicted edger will lose the overwhelming sensation. Kinda like being addicted to crack, I think.

Good and not good.
 
Ok, aside from the confusing as hell “they/he” back and forth, is he on crystal? I’d find that out first because that might be the bigger and underlying problem here. If he isn’t, he needs a therapist.
sorry about that I forget that everyone isn’t used to using pronouns interchangeably like the other young lgbt. They’re not on Crystal. We try to stay away from the Tina heads cause we live in a city where that’s the thing to do but the men be crazy.
 
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It may seem ridiculous but if you haven't, deeply ponder the word ADDICTION. That should explain it all. It's not so much the masturbation, it's addiction and sounds like he's actually addicted to edging, as I am. It is a tremendous thing that has amazed me as to the power thereof. I take Cialis and it is a wonderful thing- but it causes the most mind-blowing increase in dick sensitivity and the most tremendous increase of mind blowing DEEP and NEW sensations to the penis. I have found myself deeply addicted to edging and feeling it is a total loss to cum. To cum, the addicted edger will lose the overwhelming sensation. Kinda like being addicted to crack, I think.

Good and not good.
Yeah I think this is what it is. They mentioned they liked edging. I didn’t even know this was a thing.
 
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This is a crazy story that I’m literally stuck in rn. Literally as I’m typing they’re in the next room masturbating.

Let me rewind. I have a friend staying with me in my apartment living room. They’ve been here a few months. I had a couple staying in there before. It’s rocky sometimes but it works.

This roommate is in their earlier 30’s. Let’s call them Astro. Astro is chill. We’re very close already but the problem is they have an addiction to masturbation. Now I didn’t mind it here and there when we were asleep or in our separate spaces. Whatever.

I began to notice that they began masturbating in my room. I came home one day and they were passed out with their dick out. It’s hot. I am attracted to them. But I was like okay, I just pretend I didn’t see that. After that they started doing it with no headphones and louder. The bathroom is right next to my door so I hear everything. Fine. They’re in the bathroom. Technically that’s privacy. But bring headphones at least. Fine I left it. Whatever.

Now. One day he masturbates behind me on my couch under some blankets while I am getting ready for my day. I just kept doing my thang. They nutted and everything I didn’t know what to do. Do I think that masturbation is hot? Yes. But we also had a guest literally in the other room. It was awkward. Eventually it was addressed and they apologized.

but it just got worserrrr

Now. Astro masturbates aaaaallllll day and night. To the point where I literally could leave my room while we’re hanging out to get a cup of water and I can already hear them masturbating/playing porn in the distance. Literally 2 mins. Yes in my room. And this is daily. Nonstop. I sleep. It’s masturbation, I wake up. Still masturbation. I can’t do anything without coming back to him in a random position trying to cover his boner.

I’m starting to become restless and weary of the friendship. I always wondered why they had rough friendships but they don’t seem to understand any boundaries.

my couch is propped at the end of my bed and sometimes I’ll be laying down on the couch and they’ll lay on my bed to masturbate behind me to some porn. I thought I’d be able to handle it.
But it seems like he just gets riskier and riskier each time and idk what to even think or do anymore tbh.

it’s such a weird situation. Idk if it’d make them feel better if I hooked up with them or masturbated with them. Idk. I’m not sure what to even do. Or am I supposed to do anything. As I’m typing this he’s masturbating on his bed even tho we’re trying to get the cold air circulated so my door is open. Idk.

I can handle the masturbation in their room. And on their own time. But literally shouldn’t be every single time we’re hanging out and I leave the room or look away. That’s a little insane. Kinda hot but also when it’s hours on end at a time, it gets old.

anyways. Just needed to get this off my chest. Hopefully this doesn’t end up on tiktok I’d die.

if you want more stories I can give them. Since they keep doing it

I've been jacking it all day and boy are my arms tired.​

Being a car mechanic sure is rough.