My Wife and her first BBC

Are not

Gay

BI

Or even bi-"curios"

which is what I said in the 1rst place

Stats and surveys say that is the case.

I know there is this overwhelming (at least among some) belief that is site is of, by and for nothing but gay men despite the fact hat it is in no way labeled as or marketed as such as well as having a sub section for "women's issues"
i see an argument brewing in the comments, not trying to add to it, but would just ask- then explain Rome. and explain Prison sex. many straight men seem to have no issue getting off on and demanding sex from their inferiors depending on the society they reside in. i think at that point, you need to define gay. enjoy having sex with a guy, get emotional support from a guy, fall in love with a guy? seems more fluid than its not, it is, its not.
 
It's not a question about desire. It's about respect. So obsessed about a big, black dick, can't even respect black men enough to write him as an authentic person. That's the point I'm making, that your horny, inconsiderate mind refuses to comprehend. Erasing a person's existence and reducing them to dick is harmful. But you be great and continue to spend and maintain ignorance. Argue with someone else. Go be stupid on your side of the hill.
There is no question the whole BBC thing, QOS thing, cuckold with a black guy is racist, and a fetish. so they have fetishized racism. I am not sure that is a thing anyone should be defending, but maybe waking up to try to understand it. the argument "you like what you like" only goes so far- we have outlawed pedophiles for good reason. the opposite problem that is an extension of BBC fetish is the BNWO ridiculousness - where black men and white women and a few odd white males have convinced themselves Black men are superior. its all fetish. Is there a problem with that? um yeah if you are driving around looking at black men, assuming they all have large cocks and might fuck you, or a man is concerned they might fuck their wife- we have seen real jealous play out in the real world. Maybe they just want to get through the job interview and get the job....Black men have been written into these roles in the US for a long time, and it is a form of suppression dating back to slavery- the wild savage, the super strong man, the threat to "your woman"- it does more to work against them, than for them. there was a man, a "nobody" from the south who famously claimed "obama wants to fuck my wife" (anyone recall that?) which made the news once. my vote is it matters. now is there a problem with reverring all men with big dicks? yes, thats a different issue. should this person be able to write a story about his getting off on the psychological trauma of having his wife fucked by another guy- sure, he's working through some stuff.