Literally none of that matters lol.
As a person who's fucked someone who claims to be straight, voted for trump, and takes viagra pills to fuck women, but has a cock harder than mine when we're together with NO pill.
You guys really just gotta move on with your lives, have a little fun with the guys you meet IRL and stop trying to play detective. There's almost zero rhyme or reason to what most people do man or woman. People will say one thing and do other things.
The label a person choses for themself, or that you try to force on them has almost ZERO validity lol
The only kind of person I would believe to be 100% straight or gay is the one who STILL wouldn't do things with the opposite sex, even if money was involved (except for an astronomical 6-figure+ amount).