Nico ( Nico’s Aesthetics )

[sexfanatic]

He can have boundaries, but my issue is he doesn’t speak about having boundaries. He never acknowledges that being a sex worker takes a certain level of not caring about people seeing you in that way.

him being judgmental of sex workers while not acknowledging he wants some of the praise they get by posting thirst traps annoys me

he wants the attention they get but to still be seen as respectable

He doesn't have to explain or announce or acknowledge his sexual boundaries to strangers on the internet. Say what?

And the only time he is judgmental about sex workers is when they are doing mess. It's like y'all completely bypassed that part.

Just because he critiques a sex worker doesn't mean he is critiquing the act of sex work itself. I'm going to need y'all to learn discernment and learn to make distinctions.

Nico doesn't criticize sex workers who do the following:

1. get their bag
2. don't scam
3. don't get into violent altercations
4. don't espouse problematic shit on the timeline.

That's why he worked with Rhyhiem. Rhyhiem is a PROFESSIONAL who stays outta mess.

Also who cares if he wants attention. Humans are social creatures we all long for certain levels of attention. Why does that bother u?

 

[sexfanatic]

No one is lying.
I have watched the videos where he speaks about looks like the one where the guy cries about being rejected, and he doesn’t mention the guy’s looks factoring into the rejection and mainly focuses on the guy being mean about rejecting him.

when has he said looks personality and sexual compatibility matter?

lol he just says the stuff about fat phobia and femphobia so unconventional black gays think he supports them

I remember that video that you speak of. Nico said that treating people negatively because of their looks is WRONG. Which he is correct about...

That doesn't mean Nico doesn't have his own sexual preferences.

Not wanting people to be treated BADLY for their looks doesn't mean you can't have your own sexual preferences in regards to your partner.

Also he has literally said Looks / Personality / Sexual Compatibly are major factors in SEVERAL VIDEOS.

He stated in his most recent video about how he doesn't like dating younger gays because they are inexperienced sexually ( ie sexual compatibility)

Nico says he also finds Black/Brown men more sexual attractive (ie Looks)

He talked about his ex-fiancé being fem presenting and how that didn't matter to him...(ie personality)

All the evidence is there. You just need to look. Nico has also stated many times he does have "preferences" but he doesn't feel the need to share them IN DEPTH.

 

[sexfanatic]

he has MAJOR "pick me"/ IM EXOTIC LOOK!!! energy its beyond funny

Nico doesn't look exotic at all. He just looks like a regular light brown skin black dude.

LOL unless you consider being LIGHT SKINNED as "eXoTiC" ?

Nico has repeatedly preached against colorism, texturism and featurism in the queer community. So I don't where you are getting this, as you put it "IM EXOTIC LOOK" idea.

Smh

 

[sexfanatic]

nobody is trying to defend messy actions of these porn stars.
what I'M saying (because I can only speak for myself) when I saw his YT vids being recommended on my page, almost all of them were negative stories about Black porn stars. ALL NEGATIVE, ALL JUDGEMENTAL.
That should be balanced out and he doesn't do a good job of that. and that's why I don't watch his videos and unsubscribed.

That's fine. Nico's channel is mostly a drama channel. If you want to bypass the mess then unsubscribing from his channel is fine. I don't have a problem with that. I have problems with other sentiments shared in this thread. But what you replied with is cool with me at least.

 

[91KD]

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thread went left FAST omg lol

 

[sexfanatic]

Lol this is just you making assumptions
And if his preferences align with everyone else’s then he’s the same as the other gays he critiques lmao

What assumptions did I make when I got them straight from the horse's mouth?

 

[sexfanatic]

You’re misreading what I’m saying
He rarely admits he wants the attention they get but still the ability to not be one of them

I'm not misreading anything. You are acting like a Priest who is demanding a confession. Why does Nico need to ADMIT anything to a stranger on the internet? You realize how weird that sounds?

As I stated before. Nico doesn't need to acknowledge, announce or explain anything he does online....especially if he ain't hurting anybody lol

It's also strange that you need HIM to acknowledge to YOU why he wants attention. Why do you care?

I'm entertained by him so I don't need to know why he wants the attention. Also I don't think wanting attention is a bad thing to begin with.

Maybe he wants attentions for validation? So.
Maybe he wants attention for money on YouTube/Onlyfans? So.
Maybe he wants attention outta boredom? So.

FINALLY, if NICO doesn't want to garner attention by being a HARDCORE PORN PERFORMER, so what? Maybe he just wants to dabble. And what about it? I am so confused why y'all are bothered by that? Do you need NICO to SPREAD IT LOW and BUST IT WIDE OPEN? I mean I would like to see it, but I ain't getting mad if he decides to be more reserved. His prerogative.

 

[sexfanatic]

A lot of its inferences compiled over time

My inferences are based off actual tangible statements.

Which, I haven't seen you do....or some others in this thread do either.

 

[deleted13334721]

Y’all have the iq of a rabbit if y’all think people are hating on Nico. Everyone who criticizes others is not a “hater”. Expand yall vocabulary please. Nico talks shit about so many people and puts Black men down worse than White folk. All that shot he talks about hating to be sexualized and now his ass is on only fans eating at Rhyheim’s place. Like, bro what!?

LOL Nico laughing at Gay Dudes fighting makes him vicious? I guess that makes a lot of people who watch online fights vicious, huh? LOL

I'm sorry this is a REACH.

Also he ONLY makes fun of the porn stars who DO MESS. I find it weird that so many of YOU are trying to defend the messy actions of these porn stars he criticizes hey maybe it's me

LOL Nico laughing at Gay Dudes fighting makes him vicious? I guess that makes a lot of people who watch online fights vicious, huh? LOL

I'm sorry this is a REACH.

Also he ONLY makes fun of the porn stars who DO MESS. I find it weird that so many of YOU are trying to defend the messy actions of these porn stars he criticizes.

Hey maybe it's me but I haven't found gay black men beating the living shit out of each other funny since I was a wee lass back in the 1980s hanging out on the Christopher Street Pier and saw two fellas going at it with glass bottles. I think he needs to talk about some positive things that men of color are doing just my opinion and he doesn't do it for me I have gigantic titties way way bigger than his

Yeah
He doesn’t seem to consider why people act why they do.
He just looks down on them fighting and acting out.
Some of them are clearly mentally ill and poor/low in

He doesn't have to explain or announce or acknowledge his sexual boundaries to strangers on the internet. Say what?

And the only time he is judgmental about sex workers is when they are doing mess. It's like y'all completely bypassed that part.

Just because he critiques a sex worker doesn't mean he is critiquing the act of sex work itself. I'm going to need y'all to learn discernment and learn to make distinctions.

Nico doesn't criticize sex workers who do the following:

1. get their bag
2. don't scam
3. don't get into violent altercations
4. don't espouse problematic shit on the timeline.

That's why he worked with Rhyhiem. Rhyhiem is a PROFESSIONAL who stays outta mess.

Also who cares if he wants attention. Humans are social creatures we all long for certain levels of attention. Why does that bother

Because he acts like he’s better than them
When he wants what they get but to also not be seen as a sex worker
Are you nico or a deranged Stan from his podcast Lmao

He does act like he's ABOVE all those black men who choose to do porn and now he's making and filming scenes himself? And he doesnt even have a good camera. At Ryheims crib he was shooting with a phone. Like at least if you're going to be a pornographer come correct.

 

[Mc313]

 

[deleted13334721]

Lmao when I saw him holding a phone I was so confused.
Also why you choking your chicken while you’re working and not fully clothed lol

I knew something was up when he said he was gonna be a camera man when his own videos grainy and poorly lit

Laughing my half black ass off! That footage he shot of Sean Xavier and the white cat was HORRENDOUS..

 

[sexfanatic]

Because he acts like he’s better than them
When he wants what they get but to also not be seen as a sex worker
Are you nico or a deranged Stan from his podcast Lmao

Because he acts like he's better than them?

AND THERE IT IS!

I knew it.

This whole thing is about feelings of inadequacy. Feelings of inferiority.

Nico has never claimed to be better than anyone. If YOU feel that he has an AIR OF SUPERIORTY that is PROJECTION on your part.

Does Nico clown on people who do mess? Absolutely. Let's not pretend like we haven't either. Cuz I know I have. BUT if Nico doing that makes YOU feel like he's "UPPITY" or "BETTER THAN"...that's unfortunately a YOU problem.

You told me I was the one making "INFERENCES" that were unfounded, BUT NO, that would be you. I see that now.

You also accused me of being a DERANGED STAN. I could be RUDE, like YOU WERE. I could accuse you of being something. I could call you everything BUT a child of God. But I won't. This thread ain't that serious. So lets not play those games.

YOU and I both are FANS of his. YOU follow his moves online more than I do at this point.

The only difference is I see the positive in him while YOU see the negative. BUT there is a thin line between LOVE/HATE. And every hater is a secret FAN.

P.S. If Nico wants the same validation/attention that sex workers get WITHOUT being a HARDCORE PERFORMER, so what? The most important take away from this is...why do you care? Why does that make you mad? Are you mad that he can get the same amount of attention as a TOP HARDCORE PERFROMER with only half the dedication? That's life. Some people don't have to work as hard as others. Don't hate the player...hate the game.

 

[sexfanatic]

Laughing my half black ass off! That footage he shot of Sean Xavier and the white cat was HORRENDOUS..

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I won't pay for a bad quality product.

 

[sexfanatic]

Lmao you think u ate
Who reading this
Nico fan girl
I’m not pressed about nico
Anyone can make grainy videos on an old web cam about drama

anyone can do that
I’m not a fan lol

you’re derailing anyway


my issue with nico is he does act like he’s better
And multiple people see that
You are ignoring that Bc u like him lol

Not having the attention span to read more than 50 words isn't something to brag about, buddy.

 

[sexfanatic]

I’m not reading it Bc u clearly are projecting and also have a strong parasocial relationship with someone who doesn’t even respond to comments lmao

since you love nico so much
What videos do u suggest to us casual viewers

You do realize parasocial relationship work BOTH WAYS? Love and Hate.

You think hating on Nico makes you exempt from having parasocial tendencies? LOL You're a Nico fan.

You literally referred to multiple videos of Nico's throughout this thread, but I'm the one with a parasocial relationship? LOL Sure, ok, buddy. Nice save.

 

[sexfanatic]

Lol nah I’m just looking at him as objectively as I can
Don’t think he’s evil
Don’t think he’s an Angel

Lol so u gonna suggest us vids

Not you acting like you don't watch his videos. Sir, you literally referred to his videos throughout this thread? Now you playing games lol.

 

[Cheesycorn]

Nico has displayed an air of superiority. And he doesn’t have to outright say he’s better than ppl to come to that conclusion. I made a post breaking that down but who knows how far back that is considering all the circular back and forth. At one point he said he could do OnlyFans but doesn’t have to. He also referred to Rhyheim and gang as a harem. To make those comments and end up doing OF content and making friends with Rhyheim and co is ironic.

 

[deleted13334721]

Because he acts like he's better than them?

AND THERE IT IS!

I knew it.

This whole thing is about feelings of inadequacy. Feelings of inferiority.

Nico has never claimed to be better than anyone. If YOU feel that he has an AIR OF SUPERIORTY that is PROJECTION on your part.

Does Nico clown on people who do mess? Absolutely. Let's not pretend like we haven't either. Cuz I know I have. BUT if Nico doing that makes YOU feel like he's "UPPITY" or "BETTER THAN"...that's unfortunately a YOU problem.

You told me I was the one making "INFERENCES" that were unfounded, BUT NO, that would be you. I see that now.

You also accused me of being a DERANGED STAN. I could be RUDE, like YOU WERE. I could accuse you of being something. I could call you everything BUT a child of God. But I won't. This thread ain't that serious. So lets not play those games.

YOU and I both are FANS of his. YOU follow his moves online more than I do at this point.

The only difference is I see the positive in him while YOU see the negative. BUT there is a thin line between LOVE/HATE. And every hater is a secret FAN.

P.S. If Nico wants the same validation/attention that sex workers get WITHOUT being an HARDCORE PERFORMER, so what? The most important take away from this...why do you care? Why does that make you mad? Are you mad that he can get the same amount of attention as a TOP HARDCORE PERFROMER with only half the dedication? That's life. Some people don't have to work as hard as others. Don't hate the play...hate the ga

Because he acts like he's better than them?

AND THERE IT IS!

I knew it.

This whole thing is about feelings of inadequacy. Feelings of inferiority.

Nico has never claimed to be better than anyone. If YOU feel that he has an AIR OF SUPERIORTY that is PROJECTION on your part.

Does Nico clown on people who do mess? Absolutely. Let's not pretend like we haven't either. Cuz I know I have. BUT if Nico doing that makes YOU feel like he's "UPPITY" or "BETTER THAN"...that's unfortunately a YOU problem.

You told me I was the one making "INFERENCES" that were unfounded, BUT NO, that would be you. I see that now.

You also accused me of being a DERANGED STAN. I could be RUDE, like YOU WERE. I could accuse you of being something. I could call you everything BUT a child of God. But I won't. This thread ain't that serious. So lets not play those games.

YOU and I both are FANS of his. YOU follow his moves online more than I do at this point.

The only difference is I see the positive in him while YOU see the negative. BUT there is a thin line between LOVE/HATE. And every hater is a secret FAN.

P.S. If Nico wants the same validation/attention that sex workers get WITHOUT being a HARDCORE PERFORMER, so what? The most important take away from this is...why do you care? Why does that make you mad? Are you mad that he can get the same amount of attention as a TOP HARDCORE PERFROMER with only half the dedication? That's life. Some people don't have to work as hard as others. Don't hate the player...hate the game.

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I wo

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I won't pay for a bad quality product.

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I won't pay for a bad quality product.

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I won't pay for a bad quality p

I'm not misreading anything. You are acting like a Priest who is demanding a confession. Why does Nico need to ADMIT anything to a stranger on the internet? You realize how weird that sounds?

As I stated before. Nico doesn't need to acknowledge, announce or explain anything he does online....especially if he ain't hurting anybody lol

It's also strange that you need HIM to acknowledge to YOU why he wants attention. Why do you care?

I'm entertained by him so I don't need to know why he wants the attention. Also I don't think wanting attention is a bad thing to begin with.

Maybe he wants attentions for validation? So.
Maybe he wants attention for money on YouTube/Onlyfans? So.
Maybe he wants attention outta boredom? So.

FINALLY, if NICO doesn't want to garner attention by being a HARDCORE PORN PERFORMER, so what? Maybe he just wants to dabble. And what about it? I am so confused why y'all are bothered by that? Do you need NICO to SPREAD IT LOW and BUST IT WIDE OPEN? I mean I would like to see it, but I ain't getting mad if he decides to be more reserved. His prerogative.

The footage didn't look that great. That's what I came to this thread for. The 411 on the onlyfans...to see if it was worth my money. I still like Nico, but I won't pay for a bad quality product.

Hee hee..self control is also a factor..if you need to be naked and masturbating while shooting scenes I don't know how far youre going to get in the porn biz. And the good cameras cost about 5 to 10 Grand and the lights cost money too. How is he saying he has a production company (eye of aesthetics?)

 

[sexfanatic]

Nico has displayed an air of superiority. And he doesn’t have to outright say he’s better than ppl to come to that conclusion. I made a post breaking that down but who knows how far back that is considering all the circular back and forth. At one point he said he could do OnlyFans but doesn’t have to. He also referred to Rhyheim and gang as a harem. To make those comments and end up doing OF content and making friends with Rhyheim and co is ironic.

I don't project motives or intentions onto people. I only go off their direct actions. Nico has never claimed to be better. Nico has shared his own insecurities and struggles with eating disorders/body dysmorphia etc. If you see that as having an air of superiority... that's a perception you're just gonna have to live with.

And hypothetically, even if Nico thought he was better than some of these messy pornstars, who cares? It shouldn't bother you. Hell I think I am better than half of the messy pornstars Nico talks about. And I don't feel bad for thinking that. I also think I'm a better person than Trump...big whoop

Also that "harem" statement was A JOKE. Clearly Rhyhiem isn't bothered by the joke, since they are now working together. So why are you so bothered by it? You seem more bothered by the joke than Rhyhiem is at this point lol

 

[sexfanatic]

Hee hee..self control is also a factor..if you need to be naked and masturbating while shooting scenes I don't know how far youre going to get in the porn biz. And the good cameras cost about 5 to 10 Grand and the lights cost money too. How is he saying he has a production company (eye of aesthetics?)
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LOL you don't have to spend that much money on equipment. This is ONLYFANS we are talking about not a HOLLYWOOD MOVIE. There are onlyfans creators who make BANK with just an iphone.

All you need is a cheap Amazon ring light and a HD camera phone.

Also Nico being naked during the photoshoot isn't a big deal. It's porn, it's never that serious. Also Nico can play both parts : camera man & performer.