Nico ( Nico’s Aesthetics )

[JifariGrier]

Ok, I’m going to address everyone on why I stated what I did. I think Nico’s has a lot more potential than to be settling to become a porn star. Also, I noticed that this is a trend with Black, Gay men. Somehow they are always involved in some type of sex work somehow. Either it’s OF, Porn, Escorting or something sex related. But then they cry about it when that same lifestyle bites them in the ass. I like porn just like the next man, but I just didn’t think Nico would actually try to pursue it.

But because I want to see to better for us, my opinion doesn’t count?

I worked in the adult industry mostly as a dominant master and some print and film for 10 years. What I saw among gay black men involved in porn was heavy drug use and more often than not a horrific abuse background and one guy used to actually steal from his client. To be honest I was only able to work through my need to indulge in s&m and also my hypersexuality through years of therapy. It isn't a good business for anyone if you ask me and I've never seen anybody who acquired vast wealth from doing it. It's a deal with the devil and I hope Nico doesn't get too caught up in it! I mean, just look at Knockout about to do serious time in prison for kidnapping and attempted murder, Jontae and Eric serving life sentences for murder and Atl Tayh locked up for vehicular assault. What do that tell you?

 

[NeoSeek]

I hope none of you guys are watching his content, since you have such a problem with him doing it.

In my heart of hearts, I do see sex work as like, a last resort kind of situation. I agree that nico had (so much) more potential than onlyfans, but if he likes it I love it. Far be it from me to judge anyone's actions.

 

[Psychoticx]

I worked in the adult industry mostly as a dominant master and some print and film for 10 years. What I saw among gay black men involved in porn was heavy drug use and more often than not a horrific abuse background and one guy used to actually steal from his client. To be honest I was only able to work through my need to indulge in s&m and also my hypersexuality through years of therapy. It isn't a good business for anyone if you ask me and I've never seen anybody who acquired vast wealth from doing it. It's a deal with the devil and I hope Nico doesn't get too caught up in it! I mean, just look at Knockout about to do serious time in prison for kidnapping and attempted murder, Jontae and Eric serving life sentences for murder and Atl Tayh locked up for vehicular assault. What do that tell you?

Don’t forget about Rico Pruitt, his story is sad. He could’ve been a lot bigger as an actor if he decided to pursue it seriously.

But I’m glad you got out the business tho.

 

[knightgee]

It will never cease to amaze me how some of y'all manage to beat off to people y'all clearly think are subhuman. Whole industry exists because people (mostly men lbr) are terminally horny yet those same people talk about the performers like they're one step removed from being meth dealers.

But I'll say it's funny to see Nico become the target of this sort of judgmental behavior given that before getting into sex work, that was the exact attitude he had towards people who do porn. That's also why that "potential" comment gags me. Before OF he was a big titty lightskinned butch queen who made cringe video content recapping gossip and giving uneducated opinions about topics he was woefully underqualified to discuss. After OF he still is all of that, but now we've seen his dick and hole. Potential to do what? What "potential" did he have that we should mourn now that he's fucked on camera?

 

[Hana48]

I never understand stans at all. Which one is it are we suppose to be a monolith or not?

and before you keep being a pickme, Nico is literally in my DMs right now asking about catching up and heading to Boxers ever since he touched NYC soil. We are not the same.

such a weird brag. shows that you clearly can’t keep anything private with those loose lips of yours

 

[JifariGrier]

It will never cease to amaze me how some of y'all manage to beat off to people y'all clearly think are subhuman. Whole industry exists because people (mostly men lbr) are terminally horny yet those same people talk about the performers like they're one step removed from being meth dealers.

But I'll say it's funny to see Nico become the target of this sort of judgmental behavior given that before getting into sex work, that was the exact attitude he had towards people who do porn. That's also why that "potential" comment gags me. Before OF he was a big titty lightskinned butch queen who made cringe video content recapping gossip and giving uneducated opinions about topics he was woefully underqualified to discuss. After OF he still is all of that, but now we've seen his dick and hole. Potential to do what? What "potential" did he have that we should mourn now that he's fucked on camera?

The only one I really find hot is Ryheim because he's not using roids but honestly he do fuck way too many mofos (like at least 7 a week) and Nico really fumbled that scene with him. He didn't prep himself and he was actually in pain. That shit was comedy. And I don't think anyone in the porn business is sub human but being that I was in it I can vouch that the majority have issues related to trauma.

 

[Psychoticx]

It will never cease to amaze me how some of y'all manage to beat off to people y'all clearly think are subhuman. Whole industry exists because people (mostly men lbr) are terminally horny yet those same people talk about the performers like they're one step removed from being meth dealers.

But I'll say it's funny to see Nico become the target of this sort of judgmental behavior given that before getting into sex work, that was the exact attitude he had towards people who do porn. That's also why that "potential" comment gags me. Before OF he was a big titty lightskinned butch queen who made cringe video content recapping gossip and giving uneducated opinions about topics he was woefully underqualified to discuss. After OF he still is all of that, but now we've seen his dick and hole. Potential to do what? What "potential" did he have that we should mourn now that he's fucked on camera?

I hate to say it, but porn is kinda like career suicide, especially if you’re black, and queer. There has been some who were able to gain mainstream clout from it, like TS Madison.

He may not have the potential to be on camera to you, but it doesn’t mean he has potential do anything else in life. He may wants to work a 9-5 later on in life, but that porn past is going to make things very hard for him to branch out beyond that.

 

[Jeffer2580]

Ok, I’m going to address everyone on why I stated what I did. I think Nico’s has a lot more potential than to be settling to become a porn star. Also, I noticed that this is a trend with Black, Gay men. Somehow they are always involved in some type of sex work somehow. Either it’s OF, Porn, Escorting or something sex related. But then they cry about it when that same lifestyle bites them in the ass. I like porn just like the next man, but I just didn’t think Nico would actually try to pursue it.

But because I want to see to better for us, my opinion doesn’t count?

I honestly don't know why y'all are taking aspirin on someone else's headache,he's adult who has taken an adult decision,any bumps along the way, it's his cross and only his to bear

 

[MysteryMaven]

such a weird brag. shows that you clearly can’t keep anything private with those loose lips of yours

This is a statement addressing that being compelled to mammie for someone who wouldn’t spit in your direction if you were on fire is hilarious. Especially when we are critiquing hypocrisy but I guess black gay men can’t be held accountable for anything. Secondly, I could care less to hold “secrets” , not the first gay on this site to spill T and won’t be the last. Move around me and let go of my shirt…thanks.

 

[Psychoticx]

I honestly don't know why y'all are taking aspirin on someone else's headache,he's adult who has taken an adult decision,any bumps along the way, it's his cross and only his to bear

And? Who cares? It’s a PUBLIC posting site, people are entitled to post their opinions, there isn’t any rules on this site to tell you what you can, and cannot post. If you want to continue this discourse by sharing more porn clips, or photos of him, then do it instead of feeling some type of way when someone makes a comment that isn’t sex, or porn related. Especially if I’m trying to uplift the brother, instead of putting him down.

 

[Jeffer2580]

And? Who cares? It’s a PUBLIC posting site, people are entitled to post their opinions, there isn’t any rules on this site to tell you what you can, and cannot post. If you want to continue this discourse by sharing more porn clips, or photos of him, then do it instead of feeling some type of way when someone makes a comment that isn’t sex, or porn related. Especially if I’m trying to uplift the brother, instead of putting him down.

If you are trying to uplift a brother,you wouldn't be slut shaming him when sex work is a job in itself rather you will respect his decision and not see him as less than or without potential for choosing a job that you find disgusting yet you are here. Moreover,you will be talking to him directly not talking about him behind his back on a forum that he may not even know exists

 

[JifariGrier]

I honestly don't know why y'all are taking aspirin on someone else's headache,he's adult who has taken an adult decision,any bumps along the way, it's his cross and only his to bear

I once saw a documentary where Jenna Jameson showed off her yacht, mansion, Salvador Dali paintings and her children, all from porn. Don't you know her children got taken away and her house went into foreclosure and she had to get back into the sex trade. Furthermore the legendary Joey Stefano ended up cruising for clients on Santa Monica boulevard again after an illustrious porn career. There's no happy ending in this for anyone. Look at all the drama Nico always talks about that's going on with all the black performers. I just don't see what good comes out of it. I always see people financially destitute after that shit. I don't know why he's so hell-bent on getting into it.

 

[NeoSeek]

I once saw a documentary where Jenna Jameson showed off her yacht, mansion, Salvador Dali paintings and her children, all from porn. Don't you know her children got taken away and her house went into foreclosure and she had to get back into the sex trade. Furthermore the legendary Joey Stefano ended up cruising for clients on Santa Monica boulevard again after an illustrious porn career. There's no happy ending in this for anyone. Look at all the drama Nico always talks about that's going on with all the black performers. I just don't see what good comes out of it. I always see people financially destitute after that shit. I don't know why he's so hell-bent on getting into it.

Literally, because he wants to. lol

 

[Psychoticx]

I once saw a documentary where Jenna Jameson showed off her yacht, mansion, Salvador Dali paintings and her children, all from porn. Don't you know her children got taken away and her house went into foreclosure and she had to get back into the sex trade. Furthermore the legendary Joey Stefano ended up cruising for clients on Santa Monica boulevard again after an illustrious porn career. There's no happy ending in this for anyone. Look at all the drama Nico always talks about that's going on with all the black performers. I just don't see what good comes out of it. I always see people financially destitute after that shit. I don't know why he's so hell-bent on getting into it.

Unfortunately, that happens to someone with low/no self esteem.

 

[ahaahahahaa]

Porn is too intertwined with drugs and illicit activities, that's what leads so many down the path of destruction. If you're able to do porn and avoid getting caught up then you'll make a lot of money and be able to retire before 30. If you do get caught up then you'll be worse off than when you started.

 

[JifariGrier]

Literally, because he wants to. lol
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Literally, because he wants to. lol

Porn is too intertwined with drugs and illicit activities, that's what leads so many down the path of destruction. If you're able to do porn and avoid getting caught up then you'll make a lot of money and be able to retire before 30. If you do get caught up then you'll be worse off than when you started.

I have never in my life seen anybody who held on to the money that they made from the porn lifestyle. Why just recently Adrian Hart who is a gay black performer was begging people on Twitter for $750 to fix his whip and Tae the Doug who is a retired gay black performer stated on YouTube that he couldn't even afford a vehicle at all and when the Helix model Alex Riley died they had to take up a GoFundMe for his funeral. I have also never seen anyone that had sobriety in the biz. Like why is Nico so fascinated by it? Also the pornstars Rico and Fame who were a couple had a fist fight in a car which someone filmed and Rico was pulling Fame's hair cuz he has dreads and beating the shit out of him and Fame was actually crying and Nico thought that was hysterical. There's just too much sickness in the gay porn biz. There really is.

 

[Scott G]

NONE OF THE SHIT YALL ARE SAYING HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH NICO!!!! STOP PROJECTING YOUR EXPERIENCE AND PERSONAL FEARS ONTO NICO!!!

 

[yass954]

NONE OF THE SHIT YALL ARE SAYING HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH NICO!!!! STOP PROJECTING YOUR EXPERIENCE AND PERSONAL FEARS ONTO NICO!!!

Like, where is the sex positive attitudes?

Nico is a consenting adult!

Why the condescending, self-righteous behavior? On a website called Large Penis Support Group?

The issue with this "it's just my opinion" attitude is that people dump their opinion and project their insecurity onto others. It's unproductive and accomplishes nothing.

 

[Majela]

Rico could take me raw.

I'd have his babies

 

[JifariGrier]

Like, where is the sex positive attitudes?

Nico is a consenting adult!

Why the condescending, self-righteous behavior? On a website called Large Penis Support Group?

The issue with this "it's just my opinion" attitude is that people dump their opinion and project their insecurity onto others. It's unproductive and accomplishes nothing.

Like, where is the sex positive attitudes?

Nico is a consenting adult!

Why the condescending, self-righteous behavior? On a website called Large Penis Support Group?

The issue with this "it's just my opinion" attitude is that people dump their opinion and project their insecurity onto others. It's unproductive and accomplishes nothing.

You know this is you posting Nico