No Nut November 2023

As I stated in my earlier posts: there is not a single benefit associated with abstinence, but there are multiple potential hazards. “Even” ejaculating several times a day is completely healthy and normal, provided it doesn’t interfere with everyday life, does not get in the way of your social contacts / sexuality with other people, and as long as you don’t use porn every time.
Let me also clarify that there is nothing inherently ‘wrong’ with porn, but it is common that it ‘re-programs’ the brain so that an orgasm becomes associated with a particular stimulus. Also, it creates an unrealistic image of what normal bodies, penises, and interhuman relations are supposed to look like.

In fact, ejaculating several times a day is a non-medicinal way to ‘clear up’ a prostatitis. (!)

You are neither proving yourself nor anyone else anything, all you managed to do is get caught up in the narrative of puritans. Who themselves don;t even realise that they’re just parroting what some deeply-frustrated religious nuts came up with.
I couldn’t hold it anymore and jerked off..it was a lot,but it’s out for a while now :rolleyes:
 
How many of you are having frequent sex? I think that might be the reason for jerking off consistently. I cant imagine any of you jerking off over having orgasm with sex.
 
The wife and I have been married 12 years, we’re usually an every other day kind of couple. There are times that it goes longer but she’s usually willing to lend a helping hand if she can tell I’m struggling and she isn’t in the mood.
 
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I sleep in tights/compression shorts to provoke wet dreams, the only thing that has changed is that I started leaking precum all the time while I sleep. I guess to experience a nocturnal emission I must abstain more days
 
I just get to the point after a few days where I am literally throbbing and I totally have to wank off and get the spunk out.
Same, plus if I go more than a week I will literally get hard-ons just walking. I get so turned on I cant focus on work or school, not to mention at my university and my job there are tons of thicc girls in tight legging that leave little to the imagination and a LOT of guys with thicc thighs and fat booties always wearing those really tight super trim athletic shorts

I applaud anyone who can even attempt no nut novemember, with my schedule I need to jerk in the morning so i can start my day with a clear head and rub a few nuts out at night to destress after the long day
 
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How many of you are having frequent sex? I think that might be the reason for jerking off consistently. I cant imagine any of you jerking off over having orgasm with sex.
I have frequent sex true tinder,when I was doing NNN ofcourse not but normally I “date” multiple times a week..I am lucky to have a lot of bottoms living nearby ;)
 
How many of you are having frequent sex? I think that might be the reason for jerking off consistently. I cant imagine any of you jerking off over having orgasm with sex.
When I have been seeing someone, sex a few times a week was normal, so I rarely jerked off as I'd much rather unload deep inside the pussy of the woman I was seeing!

Many decades later, I am now married and as long as we have sex at least once a week or more, I very rarely masturbate, for the exact same reason!

I have never participated in NNN, as I consider every month to be NAMAYC (Nut As Much As You Can)
 
How many of you are having frequent sex? I think that might be the reason for jerking off consistently. I cant imagine any of you jerking off over having orgasm with sex.
That is just as ludicrous as every other statement you made regarding this subject. There are so many assumptions and so much projection in those few sentences.
By and large, and in particular if a man is in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, a man has a greater sex drive than his partner. Moreover, your orgasm is not the responsibility of a partner: that’s a toxic relationship waiting to happen.
On top of that - wanking is not a poor alternative for ‘real sex’ (as you seem to think), it’s sex in its own right. And actually, in sexology, a valued tool to improve a man’s performance, enjoyment, etc etc with a partner.

I’m a healthy guy, with frequent encounters ;) , but that doesn’t stop me from enjoying a good wank. Sometimes because I want a quick ‘pick-me-up’, or because I want a slow ascent with a toy. Maybe even pleasure myself to the max with a partner not being allowed to touch me ;)

It’s not a matter of either-or. A healthy bloke needs both.
 
@freeballer you can be healthy with or without masturbating. I believe its better not too. I think its true that it raises our testosterone when we dont masturbate frequently. I feel so much stronger and energetic ever since doing semen retention. I only ejaculate with sex sometimes i even edge. I feel so good. Other people on semen retention say the same thing.
 
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@freeballer you can be healthy with or without masturbating. I believe its better not too. I think its true that it raises our testosterone when we dont masturbate frequently. I feel so much stronger and energetic ever since doing semen retention. I only ejaculate with sex sometimes i even edge. I feel so good. Other people on semen retention say the same thing.
If you read your own post, you immediately notice that there isn’t a shred of rationale behind your statements.
You “believe”, “think”, “feel” - somehow you got caught up in the narrative of some “proponent” without ever taking a closer look at the motivations of said person. There have been several anti-masturbation movements since the late 1800s, all at least partly based in religion, and just like the inane US advocacy of neonatal circumcision (which, incidentally, was also used as a method to hamper masturbation), and this is just the latest.

Science is completely against you. I can counter any “opinion” you have with hard evidence to the contrary, and in fact, I already did. We have literally tonnes of evidence that abstaining from masturbation, even immediately before a major sport achievement does NOT diminish said achievement (think: gold medals) and can even HELP.

Abstaining from masturbation does NOT raise testosterone, in fact, it actually LOWERS testosterone. Simply because the body will down-regulate production if you don’t ‘use’ it.

Sperm is not some magic fluid you’ll ever run out of. Nor will ejaculating ‘deplete’ your life energy, your vitamins or whatever drivel they come up with. In fact, the amount of proteins etc etc that you ‘lose’ with TEN initial ejaculates (ie, as if you ejaculate for the 1st time of the day times 8) can be more than ‘replenished’ with a single slice of dry wholemeal bread. And 100 ml of water.

As for people feeling ‘so much better’ - just read what people say in this topic: that poor @Dutchboy20cm was in agony (and I still have no clue why he even attempted to do so) and he’d stay in agony unless his body would start downregulating his sperm production. But given his age, a prostatitis is much more likely.

I don’t know what your history is and why you acquired a abstinence-fetish, but you are doing everyone a major disservice by perpetuating your unfounded beliefs.
 
@freeballerlondon you can jerk off if you want.

I am letting everyone know I HAVE THE PERSONAL CONVICTION its better to do semen retention than jerk off everyday.

If people want to touch themselves thats okay nothing is wrong with that.
As said: it’s a fetish for you. And you need to be explicitly clear about that. It is NOT a matter of debate, that abstinence can harm a man, I have seen this too many times
(And for those of you who still hadn’t realised: I am a staff member at a university hospital)
 
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@londonballer if you knew about the science of masturbation for men then you would know that abstaining from frequent ejaculation raises testosterone in men which is a good thing.
 
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