I get it now. Thank you to the guy who said I don't have anything to contribute. You are right.
I took a shower and whoh, some self-reflecting came. You are right. I have an agenda that I bring to this thread contrary to its purpose. I try to sit and watch without judgment, but it has slithered in and I need to do better. For example, the correcting of someone's sexuality is not the offense, it's the judgment that comes with it. When I mention CF guys, it was the judgment that was the problem not the information.
I know I am upset when I find out a hot porn guy I like is actually straight. So I can see when your fantasy (fetish) is challenged why it would be upsetting. But I appreciate the information, rather than resent it. I don't really dig fantasy so much as reality. But that's me.
There are two fantasies being shared here -gay models fucking women (or anyone with female parts) and the the fantasy that perceived gay models (even if it's not true) are same. Those who indulge in these fantasies do not want reality tripping it up.
So you can delete my last post if you feel like it. I came here to observe and gather information and try to understand this fetish/fantasy a little more. Today, in this moment, thanks to that shower, I am achieving some of that. I will do my best to sit back and just watch, let fantasy run amok, without bringing reality or judgment in.