This questions goes to heart of the matter. What defines a man? What is desire? The whole genital preference thing is a moot point. While genital perference are a components, the heart of matter is what makes someone their sex or gender.But look at this scenario,you go out on a date with an handsome man and you both make a genuine connection that makes you not just attracted to him physically but you are attracted to his personality as a whole, you are kinda head over heels over this guy and then bam!!! He shoots at you that he's a transman,do you throw away that genuine love over his genitals even when it's evident you feel something for this man? Please be honest because I don't like people trying to be politically correct thereby making cardboard actions especially in matters of the heart
This is one of the reasons why Nigerian parents are probably more accepting of their self identified gay male offspring dating a transman. They can get grandchildren. The number one reason why homosexuality isn’t accepted is because it’s doesn’t bear offspring.
Again, I don’t care if I’m being transphobic.
Sometimes, hormones can cause trans men to be infertile. However, I know about trans men that have had children. Shrugs.Please learn how hormone therapy works.
Hi, so I know this question was meant for someone else, but I hope you won't mind if I express my opinion on this subject because I find those questions very interesting and I wonder if anyone shares my point of view here, even if it's a bit controversial.But look at this scenario,you go out on a date with an handsome man and you both make a genuine connection that makes you not just attracted to him physically but you are attracted to his personality as a whole, you are kinda head over heels over this guy and then bam!!! He shoots at you that he's a transman,do you throw away that genuine love over his genitals even when it's evident you feel something for this man? Please be honest because I don't like people trying to be politically correct thereby making cardboard actions especially in matters of the heart
Hi, so I know this question was meant for someone else, but I hope you won't mind if I express my opinion on this subject because I find those questions very interesting and I wonder if anyone shares my point of view here, even if it's a bit controversial.
Basically, your scenario of going on a date or planning a hook up with someone and then finding out they are transgendered is already a bit unrealistic to me and at least some people. That's because (and I hope it doesn't sound offensive in any way) generally I can tell if someone is trans immediately. I assume there are cases where people are surprised but from my experience it's obvious. I don't know why exactly, but there are some features that make me instinctively recognise them from the cis people. So that would already preclude me from being interested in going out with them, unless in a friendly, platonic way. Another thing I'd like to mention is this: if that scenario actually ever occured for me and those who share my tastes and we would really be clueless until the person informs us or just reveals they're transgendered by undressing then yes, we would mostly stop the encounter from going anywhere further. That is beacuse, up until that point we are not really attracted to them even if we thought so at first, but we are attracted to the idea and fantasy of what we think they would look like naked etc. And that fantasy would crumble then. I think that genital preference does exist and there is nothing wrong with that, as like any sexual desire it exists beyond our concious control. So I would say that there is nothing transphobic in not wanting to sleep with a trans person, there is nothing misogynistic in not wanting to sleep with women and there is nothing racist in not wanting to sleep with the person of another race IF the reason for that is our body does not get aroused by those people. Now if we were attracted to them and refuse to give in to this attraction for some psychological and ideological reasons then yes, in that case it would be problematic. Of course I can't guarantee that I would never ever be attracted to a transgendered person, as I'm speaking about a hypothetical situation here, but if I were it may be surprising to me, but it certainly wouldn't prevent me from going through with it, yet knowing myself and my own sexual preferences I find it unlikely. Anyway, I do hope I was able to express my stance on this issue in an understandable, respectful way.
Your opinions are validThis questions goes to heart of the matter. What defines a man? What is desire? The whole genital preference thing is a moot point. While genital perference are a components, the heart of matter is what makes someone their sex or gender.
Personally, I would view the man as a trans men or female. Due to my background and experience, my attraction to the person would dampen. I’m not bisexual or pansexual. The attraction would dampen not because of genital preference. It’s based on my belief that people can’t change sex and that a gender is embodied experience based on one’s sex. A biological man’s experience is vastly different from that of a trans man.
Genitals don’t exist in a vacuum. Genitals (and the bodies that we are born with) shape our life and experiences. Just like how the color of out skin or the country we were raised in shapes so much of our lives.
So yes, I would leave that man.
"Gold Star Gay" he is definitely not unless they changed the meaning of it. Not that theres anything wrong with being one or not. Thats what he labeled himself and if I remember correctly it was after some of his bi and straight scenes ,around the same time Devin Franco said he was one....on an unrelated note anyone else think Devin would be hot AF in a 50 Shades parody?Drew Dixon second time with a woman, licking Vanna Bardot (full scene)View attachment 81981541
Devin has bi porn?"Gold Star Gay" he is definitely not unless they changed the meaning of it. Not that theres anything wrong with being one or not. Thats what he labeled himself and if I remember correctly it was after some of his bi and straight scenes ,around the same time Devin Franco said he was one....on an unrelated note anyone else think Devin would be hot AF in a 50 Shades parody?
This is even better,I mean just look at Arad,it literally destroyed his career. I don't know how people will think a Persian man will lie about being gay knowing how hard he had it over there because of his sexuality, it's so unfair because I have mutual friends with Arad and they said he's 100% gay. People need to realize that porn is work first. I even heard he blocks anyone that brings that scene up,you will know he felt hurtMore reaction from Drew Dixon fans. (Francois Sagat didn't face this much backlash, what is it about Drew!)View attachment 82020531View attachment 82020651View attachment 82020711View attachment 82020771View attachment 82020791
Yes, it's a job. I've talked with a lot of them in the past, some are curious to experiment and others have said we have no idea what it takes for them to do str8/bi content. Compartmentalizing, nervousness, keeping your mind on the money you're going to get, and being a good and professional performer comes into play. Jeffrey Lloyd is a good example...This is even better,I mean just look at Arad,it literally destroyed his career. I don't know how people will think a Persian man will lie about being gay knowing how hard he had it over there because of his sexuality, it's so unfair because I have mutual friends with Arad and they said he's 100% gay. People need to realize that porn is work first. I even heard he blocks anyone that brings that scene up,you will know he felt hurt
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Drew Dixon did not work for our entertainment. He worked for money. Someone wanted to cast him and he accepted. It's a work for some production company. It's Drew's job.Drew Dixon reaction continued...View attachment 82020831View attachment 82020851
no no no, I meant around the same time some people who came at Drew a;lso asked Devin if he ever had sex with females, and like Drew he also responded that he's a gold star gayDevin has bi porn?
I remember when he did that bi scene for Men.com, There were rumors going around that he lied about being gay so he could get out of the country quicker. Idk how that wouldve helped but anyway after the backlash from that scene he responded "I do this one scene and suddenly Im bi, guys it's all fantasy about doing what people want to see and you call yourselves my fans?" He's not wrong but it was funny when a girl who responded to him "if that''s the case when is your bottom scene coming out? that's a fantasy that everyone wants to see" lmao he blocked her after seeing that response.This is even better,I mean just look at Arad,it literally destroyed his career. I don't know how people will think a Persian man will lie about being gay knowing how hard he had it over there because of his sexuality, it's so unfair because I have mutual friends with Arad and they said he's 100% gay. People need to realize that porn is work first. I even heard he blocks anyone that brings that scene up,you will know he felt hurt
I mean Drews ok imo and Arad I havent really been into him since his NDS days, neither are my favorites but when they first started doing crossover porn I knew it was only a matter of time before they were burned at the stake. But I agree they got way more hate than people who've done other things, hell Wolf Hudson left gay porn then publicly admitted her hated gay sex or any kind of sexual acts with other guys and didnt get nearly this much flack, not even after leaving straight porn to do bi and called himself the "Bisexual King of Porn" hell he blocked anyone who would bring that up after his return to lgbtq porn and he wont even have sex with men unless a woman is thrown in the mix otherwise he's literally limp AFYes, it's a job. I've talked with a lot of them in the past, some are curious to experiment and others have said we have no idea what it takes for them to do str8/bi content. Compartmentalizing, nervousness, keeping your mind on the money you're going to get, and being a good and professional performer comes into play. Jeffrey Lloyd is a good example...