Those responses are transphobic. If a cis straight men is dating or having sex with a trans woman, he isn't less straight because of it. If a cis straight woman is dating or having sex with a trans man, she is not less straight because of it.Let's flip it this way. While sexuality is internally experience, the dating and sexual market determines if it's valid or not. This is the paradox of sex and sexual relations. Everything comes with a cost. For example, most women would never mess with a man that has been with a trans women. That limits transwomen and men who want to pursue them limited options. Be a transwomen face a limited dating pool or a dirty little secret. Most men will also be cut off from a large number of women.
This is how women view men who date transwomen. As a gay or queer person, what do
These responses are from lipstick alley, a forum that consists of cis, black women. And most these are just the nice ones. Women can be really cruel when it comes to police men's sexual desires. As a gay man, I found it insulting that I have to take whatever just because I'm gay. When women are allowed to be as catty about how their mate behaves and his past sexual partners. What do you think? Why can't I have the right to determine whether a man is gay or straight?
I get it that not all people is open to the idea of dating or having sex with trans people (or with cis people that dates or have sex with trans people) and THAT is not transphobic.
However, not all people who date trans and cis at the same time are bisexual. Saying that is almost saying that they don't seem a trans woman as just a woman or a trans man as just a man. They are, they're just not cisgender