Penis dysmorphia/Small Penis Anxiety

[Mr.Louis]

Hello, I just thought I'd share a personal experience with some of y'all that maybe you can relate with or just comment on and be a helping hand, whichever one... I didn't realize it until recently but I have been suffering from SPA and Penis Dysmorphia for as long as I can remember and honestly it did not really start becoming an issue until recently where I've had a couple instances happen that really shook my identity. Before I continue id like to say I am 7" BP measured properly top side and 5in girth, however wider-thicker down along the base.... However I am a lil obese ATM so my NBP is actually 6" ATM. I've had about 5 sexual encounters with women... My first GF said it was a 'beautiful cock' and that it was 'huge' with strong emphasis 'you have nothing to worry about' ... Second girl said it was 'average' (but then again she was trashy white girl who had seen a lot of black dicks and when asked her if black men are bigger she said yes very emphatically, however she was kind enough to say that I should never let a girl convince me I'm small because I'm not...and that kinda hurt a lil bit because I asked her if it was big and she said 'no'. Third girl said you have nothing to worry about multiple times... Not to sound gay but I let a gay guy suck my dick to get an honest opinion from a gay guy and he complimented my cock like it was the last Cock on earth, calling it lovely, fat, perfect, ideal, etc u name whatever compliment you can think of for a Cock i was given it. And one more experience with a woman whose bf was much smaller and she was saying how it's big and she's gonna be sore tomorrow...yadadada... Anyhow all these experiences have been amazing for my confidence if that's what you want to say but for some reason even though so many people are telling me otherwise i still feel 'small' and no matter what i do, i cant convince my subconscious mind otherwise...it is locked into thinking i am not big and unfortunately i don't even think my mind considers me average...which brings me to my next point!!!!

Growing up I was teased a few times by friends in my flaccid state which looks tiny sometimes when it's really shriveled up I am a grower but don't get it twisted...I am 5in-5in+ x 4in+4in+ girth on avg NBP (but when shrunken like 4in NBP x 3.75-4in girth...BP flaccid i am easily 5 shrunken - 6-6+x4.5 on a nice relaxed flaccid. One guy saw it when I was drunk I would imagine it looked small and told everyone I was small (stuck with me). Another time at work my manager saw me in boxers and said it was small and told his son to come up to me and called me pencil dick. Those are actually the only instances I can recall...also my sister In law kept indirectly and directly talking and suggesting I have a small or tiny penis just being a bitch but I think that's just that I think she was being a bitch because her brother and her were going through some shit so I think she just wanted to take her anger out on me...

Ive been addicted to porn for almost 15 years now...and let me just say I am not gay but for some reason I always just wanted to watch the biggest of the biggest cocks in porn fuck women..
your Shane diesels, shorty Mac's, Ramon monster Cock, etc...etc... Now don't get it twisted I always favored johnny sins, Chris strokes,etc.. and I said God I wish I had a Cock like strokes or sins because wanting to have a Cock like Shane diesel just was not going to happen let alone thinking I would be anywhere near sins or strokes but as it turns out i have the same as exact dimensions or close enough to sins and strokes!? Come to find out after 10 years of watching porn and thinking they were twice my size ... Phewwww what a relief and serious eye opener right ?? I mean I looked up to these guys now I'm in the same ballpark?? Go figure... So anyway watching the biggest subconsciously you compare and feel inferior without a shadow of a doubt....

I purchased a dildo my exact dimensions and keep it beside me for self image reprogramming however it's hard to get over my flaccid state and the idea others might have about it because when it's really shriveled up it literally looks tiny.. I would hate for a woman to see me in visible pants only to see a small flaccid and think I'm small because God forbid they should know that penises grow exponentially and what looks small to tiny can grow up to 7 inches...anyway I don't like to wear anything other than jeans when leaving the house so people don't get the wrong idea... If I do decide to wear something that shows my dick print id prefer to wear a ring or something to keep blood flow pumping so it doesn't look to small (I don't actually do this but it's an idea)...
anyway when not wearing jeans or something I always notice women and men in general staring at my crotch area.. I have a very confident walk, aura and swagger about me and some can confuse that for arrogance or a big ego... Anyhow I noticed that when people especially women notice my not so large bulge it's almost like they lose interest or attraction for me no matter how cool I may appear... Don't get me wrong I've noticed a couple actually like what they saw and give me good signals but for the most part it's almost like cause I'm so confident they expect Mandingo in my pants and they get upset when that's not the case (at least till I get hard lol jk... But seriously being a grower fucken sucks sometimes and you can't explain to every woman that it's not small because well that would be awkward to walk up to a chick and say that. I am always worried people are judging my dick and I'm being rejected because they think I'm small because of their perception of my flaccid and thinking I must be 'small' ... I noticed a couple times I walk confidently pass multiple women and they have to inevitably stare at my dick like always and they go like 'yaaaaaa okkk' or smile it off like w.e... and if i decide to try to talk to these women i get like the worst treatment cause in their head they think im small and there's nothing i can do about it and it sucks...

Just to recap... I am 7" BP x 5 (wider-thicker at base) and ATM 6" NBP maybe a lil less due to being borderline obese. I literally have like 1.5-1.75 of fat if I push a ruler hard into pubic bone. And at the time of those stories I was probably more like 6" + NBP definitely was never legit 7" with no fat pad at all I was always at least somewhat above average to lil overweight my whole life but I'm making it a goal to lose every .1 inch of fat pad I can. This is my story and how I suffer from dysmorphia can anybody else relate or want to throw in their 2 cents? Also I would like to note that because of this fucked up perception I hav in my head I'm very anti social and avoid social situations like the plague and especially women...if someone brings up the word 'small' 'tiny' or 'average'. For instance.. or anything relating to penis size for that matter even if it is not relevant to penises at all I still get like panicky it's weird and people notice it and they automatically must assume I have a small penis which further aggravates everything... Let me know what you think and if there's anything I forgot to post I'll definitely post it tomorrow..

 

[Ranxerox]

Trust me... dysmorphia affects everyone no matter what the size. It's just a mind fuck. I have never been teased, but I had a terrible upbringing. So I got worse than teased by the people I should be getting unconditional love from. I have self-loathing issues about all aspects of myself even though I am a smart cat.

Basically what I am saying is, even though you are aware of your problem, and how illogical it is, it is a massive hurdle. So hang in there.

Regarding your issues with soft size. Have you ever tried Cialis? My doc put me on 10mg daily for prostate issues (turned out it was a bit too much for my headaches), and holy fuck my flaccid state was insane! Like it was just fat and heavy all day long. Like someone else's dick. I loved it. I would suggest trying it out!

Anyway, hang tough, brother! I understand you 100%, and I feel you.

Roxx.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Trust me... dysmorphia affects everyone no matter what the size. It's just a mind fuck. I have never been teased, but I had a terrible upbringing. So I got worse than teased by the people I should be getting unconditional love from. I have self-loathing issues about all aspects of myself even though I am a smart cat.

Basically what I am saying is, even though you are aware of your problem, and how illogical it is, it is a massive hurdle. So hang in there.

Regarding your issues with soft size. Have you ever tried Cialis? My doc put me on 10mg daily for prostate issues (turned out it was a bit too much for my headaches), and holy fuck my flaccid state was insane! Like it was just fat and heavy all day long. Like someone else's dick. I loved it. I would suggest trying it out!

Anyway, hang tough, brother! I understand you 100%, and I feel you.

Roxx.

Hello Roxx thanks for your input it was nice reading what you had to say I guess you can never really be 'big enough' huh? ya ive heard of even porn stars suffering from dysphoria. regarding the whole cialis thing, that sounds amazing but I don't want to get addicted to it to where i become solely dependent on it you know what i mean? So i think instead ill focus on other things i can do such as exercise, diet, supplements, or whatever i can get my hands on that works, releasing stress, etc... I guess at this point its all about reprogramming my mind to think healthy and normal thoughts and ignoring everyone that thinks otherwise

 

[Ranxerox]

Hello Roxx thanks for your input it was nice reading what you had to say I guess you can never really be 'big enough' huh? ya ive heard of even porn stars suffering from dysphoria. regarding the whole cialis thing, that sounds amazing but I don't want to get addicted to it to where i become solely dependent on it you know what i mean? So i think instead ill focus on other things i can do such as exercise, diet, supplements, or whatever i can get my hands on that works, releasing stress, etc... I guess at this point its all about reprogramming my mind to think healthy and normal thoughts and ignoring everyone that thinks otherwise

Sounds like you have a plan, brother!

As a weird aside. I notice all these crappy feelings disappear after I cum. I literally couldn't care at that point. So maybe I have some dopamine level issue? Burn-out or something?

Roxx.

 

[Robbie128]

Hello, I just thought I'd share a personal experience with some of y'all that maybe you can relate with or just comment on and be a helping hand, whichever one... I didn't realize it until recently but I have been suffering from SPA and Penis Dysmorphia for as long as I can remember and honestly it did not really start becoming an issue until recently where I've had a couple instances happen that really shook my identity. Before I continue id like to say I am 7" BP measured properly top side and 5in girth, however wider-thicker down along the base.... However I am a lil obese ATM so my NBP is actually 6" ATM. I've had about 5 sexual encounters with women... My first GF said it was a 'beautiful cock' and that it was 'huge' with strong emphasis 'you have nothing to worry about' ... Second girl said it was 'average' (but then again she was trashy white girl who had seen a lot of black dicks and when asked her if black men are bigger she said yes very emphatically, however she was kind enough to say that I should never let a girl convince me I'm small because I'm not...and that kinda hurt a lil bit because I asked her if it was big and she said 'no'. Third girl said you have nothing to worry about multiple times... Not to sound gay but I let a gay guy suck my dick to get an honest opinion from a gay guy and he complimented my cock like it was the last Cock on earth, calling it lovely, fat, perfect, ideal, etc u name whatever compliment you can think of for a Cock i was given it. And one more experience with a woman whose bf was much smaller and she was saying how it's big and she's gonna be sore tomorrow...yadadada... Anyhow all these experiences have been amazing for my confidence if that's what you want to say but for some reason even though so many people are telling me otherwise i still feel 'small' and no matter what i do, i cant convince my subconscious mind otherwise...it is locked into thinking i am not big and unfortunately i don't even think my mind considers me average...which brings me to my next point!!!!

Growing up I was teased a few times by friends in my flaccid state which looks tiny sometimes when it's really shriveled up I am a grower but don't get it twisted...I am 5in-5in+ x 4in+4in+ girth on avg NBP (but when shrunken like 4in NBP x 3.75-4in girth...BP flaccid i am easily 5 shrunken - 6-6+x4.5 on a nice relaxed flaccid. One guy saw it when I was drunk I would imagine it looked small and told everyone I was small (stuck with me). Another time at work my manager saw me in boxers and said it was small and told his son to come up to me and called me pencil dick. Those are actually the only instances I can recall...also my sister In law kept indirectly and directly talking and suggesting I have a small or tiny penis just being a bitch but I think that's just that I think she was being a bitch because her brother and her were going through some shit so I think she just wanted to take her anger out on me...

Ive been addicted to porn for almost 15 years now...and let me just say I am not gay but for some reason I always just wanted to watch the biggest of the biggest cocks in porn fuck women..
your Shane diesels, shorty Mac's, Ramon monster Cock, etc...etc... Now don't get it twisted I always favored johnny sins, Chris strokes,etc.. and I said God I wish I had a Cock like strokes or sins because wanting to have a Cock like Shane diesel just was not going to happen let alone thinking I would be anywhere near sins or strokes but as it turns out i have the same as exact dimensions or close enough to sins and strokes!? Come to find out after 10 years of watching porn and thinking they were twice my size ... Phewwww what a relief and serious eye opener right ?? I mean I looked up to these guys now I'm in the same ballpark?? Go figure... So anyway watching the biggest subconsciously you compare and feel inferior without a shadow of a doubt....

I purchased a dildo my exact dimensions and keep it beside me for self image reprogramming however it's hard to get over my flaccid state and the idea others might have about it because when it's really shriveled up it literally looks tiny.. I would hate for a woman to see me in visible pants only to see a small flaccid and think I'm small because God forbid they should know that penises grow exponentially and what looks small to tiny can grow up to 7 inches...anyway I don't like to wear anything other than jeans when leaving the house so people don't get the wrong idea... If I do decide to wear something that shows my dick print id prefer to wear a ring or something to keep blood flow pumping so it doesn't look to small (I don't actually do this but it's an idea)...
anyway when not wearing jeans or something I always notice women and men in general staring at my crotch area.. I have a very confident walk, aura and swagger about me and some can confuse that for arrogance or a big ego... Anyhow I noticed that when people especially women notice my not so large bulge it's almost like they lose interest or attraction for me no matter how cool I may appear... Don't get me wrong I've noticed a couple actually like what they saw and give me good signals but for the most part it's almost like cause I'm so confident they expect Mandingo in my pants and they get upset when that's not the case (at least till I get hard lol jk... But seriously being a grower fucken sucks sometimes and you can't explain to every woman that it's not small because well that would be awkward to walk up to a chick and say that. I am always worried people are judging my dick and I'm being rejected because they think I'm small because of their perception of my flaccid and thinking I must be 'small' ... I noticed a couple times I walk confidently pass multiple women and they have to inevitably stare at my dick like always and they go like 'yaaaaaa okkk' or smile it off like w.e... and if i decide to try to talk to these women i get like the worst treatment cause in their head they think im small and there's nothing i can do about it and it sucks...

Just to recap... I am 7" BP x 5 (wider-thicker at base) and ATM 6" NBP maybe a lil less due to being borderline obese. I literally have like 1.5-1.75 of fat if I push a ruler hard into pubic bone. And at the time of those stories I was probably more like 6" + NBP definitely was never legit 7" with no fat pad at all I was always at least somewhat above average to lil overweight my whole life but I'm making it a goal to lose every .1 inch of fat pad I can. This is my story and how I suffer from dysmorphia can anybody else relate or want to throw in their 2 cents? Also I would like to note that because of this fucked up perception I hav in my head I'm very anti social and avoid social situations like the plague and especially women...if someone brings up the word 'small' 'tiny' or 'average'. For instance.. or anything relating to penis size for that matter even if it is not relevant to penises at all I still get like panicky it's weird and people notice it and they automatically must assume I have a small penis which further aggravates everything... Let me know what you think and if there's anything I forgot to post I'll definitely post it tomorrow..

Hello, I just thought I'd share a personal experience with some of y'all that maybe you can relate with or just comment on and be a helping hand, whichever one... I didn't realize it until recently but I have been suffering from SPA and Penis Dysmorphia for as long as I can remember and honestly it did not really start becoming an issue until recently where I've had a couple instances happen that really shook my identity. Before I continue id like to say I am 7" BP measured properly top side and 5in girth, however wider-thicker down along the base.... However I am a lil obese ATM so my NBP is actually 6" ATM. I've had about 5 sexual encounters with women... My first GF said it was a 'beautiful cock' and that it was 'huge' with strong emphasis 'you have nothing to worry about' ... Second girl said it was 'average' (but then again she was trashy white girl who had seen a lot of black dicks and when asked her if black men are bigger she said yes very emphatically, however she was kind enough to say that I should never let a girl convince me I'm small because I'm not...and that kinda hurt a lil bit because I asked her if it was big and she said 'no'. Third girl said you have nothing to worry about multiple times... Not to sound gay but I let a gay guy suck my dick to get an honest opinion from a gay guy and he complimented my cock like it was the last Cock on earth, calling it lovely, fat, perfect, ideal, etc u name whatever compliment you can think of for a Cock i was given it. And one more experience with a woman whose bf was much smaller and she was saying how it's big and she's gonna be sore tomorrow...yadadada... Anyhow all these experiences have been amazing for my confidence if that's what you want to say but for some reason even though so many people are telling me otherwise i still feel 'small' and no matter what i do, i cant convince my subconscious mind otherwise...it is locked into thinking i am not big and unfortunately i don't even think my mind considers me average...which brings me to my next point!!!!

Growing up I was teased a few times by friends in my flaccid state which looks tiny sometimes when it's really shriveled up I am a grower but don't get it twisted...I am 5in-5in+ x 4in+4in+ girth on avg NBP (but when shrunken like 4in NBP x 3.75-4in girth...BP flaccid i am easily 5 shrunken - 6-6+x4.5 on a nice relaxed flaccid. One guy saw it when I was drunk I would imagine it looked small and told everyone I was small (stuck with me). Another time at work my manager saw me in boxers and said it was small and told his son to come up to me and called me pencil dick. Those are actually the only instances I can recall...also my sister In law kept indirectly and directly talking and suggesting I have a small or tiny penis just being a bitch but I think that's just that I think she was being a bitch because her brother and her were going through some shit so I think she just wanted to take her anger out on me...

Ive been addicted to porn for almost 15 years now...and let me just say I am not gay but for some reason I always just wanted to watch the biggest of the biggest cocks in porn fuck women..
your Shane diesels, shorty Mac's, Ramon monster Cock, etc...etc... Now don't get it twisted I always favored johnny sins, Chris strokes,etc.. and I said God I wish I had a Cock like strokes or sins because wanting to have a Cock like Shane diesel just was not going to happen let alone thinking I would be anywhere near sins or strokes but as it turns out i have the same as exact dimensions or close enough to sins and strokes!? Come to find out after 10 years of watching porn and thinking they were twice my size ... Phewwww what a relief and serious eye opener right ?? I mean I looked up to these guys now I'm in the same ballpark?? Go figure... So anyway watching the biggest subconsciously you compare and feel inferior without a shadow of a doubt....

I purchased a dildo my exact dimensions and keep it beside me for self image reprogramming however it's hard to get over my flaccid state and the idea others might have about it because when it's really shriveled up it literally looks tiny.. I would hate for a woman to see me in visible pants only to see a small flaccid and think I'm small because God forbid they should know that penises grow exponentially and what looks small to tiny can grow up to 7 inches...anyway I don't like to wear anything other than jeans when leaving the house so people don't get the wrong idea... If I do decide to wear something that shows my dick print id prefer to wear a ring or something to keep blood flow pumping so it doesn't look to small (I don't actually do this but it's an idea)...
anyway when not wearing jeans or something I always notice women and men in general staring at my crotch area.. I have a very confident walk, aura and swagger about me and some can confuse that for arrogance or a big ego... Anyhow I noticed that when people especially women notice my not so large bulge it's almost like they lose interest or attraction for me no matter how cool I may appear... Don't get me wrong I've noticed a couple actually like what they saw and give me good signals but for the most part it's almost like cause I'm so confident they expect Mandingo in my pants and they get upset when that's not the case (at least till I get hard lol jk... But seriously being a grower fucken sucks sometimes and you can't explain to every woman that it's not small because well that would be awkward to walk up to a chick and say that. I am always worried people are judging my dick and I'm being rejected because they think I'm small because of their perception of my flaccid and thinking I must be 'small' ... I noticed a couple times I walk confidently pass multiple women and they have to inevitably stare at my dick like always and they go like 'yaaaaaa okkk' or smile it off like w.e... and if i decide to try to talk to these women i get like the worst treatment cause in their head they think im small and there's nothing i can do about it and it sucks...

Just to recap... I am 7" BP x 5 (wider-thicker at base) and ATM 6" NBP maybe a lil less due to being borderline obese. I literally have like 1.5-1.75 of fat if I push a ruler hard into pubic bone. And at the time of those stories I was probably more like 6" + NBP definitely was never legit 7" with no fat pad at all I was always at least somewhat above average to lil overweight my whole life but I'm making it a goal to lose every .1 inch of fat pad I can. This is my story and how I suffer from dysmorphia can anybody else relate or want to throw in their 2 cents? Also I would like to note that because of this fucked up perception I hav in my head I'm very anti social and avoid social situations like the plague and especially women...if someone brings up the word 'small' 'tiny' or 'average'. For instance.. or anything relating to penis size for that matter even if it is not relevant to penises at all I still get like panicky it's weird and people notice it and they automatically must assume I have a small penis which further aggravates everything... Let me know what you think and if there's anything I forgot to post I'll definitely post it tomorrow..

Terrible that you feel that way and the reality is that even 6 inches NBP is above average.
This is definitely something you need to sort out in your head.
However. Some of your experiences sound cruel and humiliating. Those people who have attacked you in that way probably have something really wrong with them.
I suffered from size esteem for a good while despite being pretty successful with women. It just crept up on me.
I'd always hated my flaccid state but figured that no woman was going to see me shrunken soft because it would be at least 70% hard by the time they got to see it.
I'd had compliments about my girth from various women but beyond my 20s. I was meeting more experienced women that had sampled at least a few cocks well above average. I was 6.5 erect length but with hardly any fat pad.
Then came the fat pad with time.
My personal solution was initially using a pump and then I discovered using traction devices. I gained an inch in length and had some girth gain too.
It took a lot of dedication but happy with my erect size but still. I don't like my flaccid size.
Btw. I really don't think that everyone is checking out your bulge and even if they were. Any Woman that knows a bit about cock. They know about showers and growers.
Work on it and good luck.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Terrible that you feel that way and the reality is that even 6 inches NBP is above average.
This is definitely something you need to sort out in your head.
However. Some of your experiences sound cruel and humiliating. Those people who have attacked you in that way probably have something really wrong with them.
I suffered from size esteem for a good while despite being pretty successful with women. It just crept up on me.
I'd always hated my flaccid state but figured that no woman was going to see me shrunken soft because it would be at least 70% hard by the time they got to see it.
I'd had compliments about my girth from various women but beyond my 20s. I was meeting more experienced women that had sampled at least a few cocks well above average. I was 6.5 erect length but with hardly any fat pad.
Then came the fat pad with time.
My personal solution was initially using a pump and then I discovered using traction devices. I gained an inch in length and had some girth gain too.
It took a lot of dedication but happy with my erect size but still. I don't like my flaccid size.
Btw. I really don't think that everyone is checking out your bulge and even if they were. Any Woman that knows a bit about cock. They know about showers and growers.
Work on it and good luck.

Yes, there's a alot of sick people out there who wish people harm and unfortunately attacking a man's penis is one sure fire way to harm a man in my opinion and women and men know this, so I guess it is up to us to do as much research as we can and dig out the truth instead of falling prey to other's mindsets. I have noticed in my experience that women's 'go to' weapon or revenge or comeback whatever you want to call to it a man who agitates them or pisses them off in a way they do not like is to automatically attack his self-esteem and guess what? telling a man he has a small penis is a sure fire way to do just that.

 

[VIIby5]

Im the same size and seem to be suffering from the same dilemma. I feel small and inadequate .The main difference is I don't think its just in my head. I have some serious doubts about thise size studies and what they say is average, above average, big etc. I seriously entertain the idea that 7" BP might just be scraping the bottom of the barrel of a average or even less. For instance when I was younger everyone of my friends were bigger. Two significantly bigger out of 5 friends. What are the chances unless what is thought to be average is way off.

Unfortunately I haven't had the pleasure of ever being complemented by a woman. Actually quite the opposite. Your experiences do make me feel a little better though. One of my experiences include having a girl suddenly become reluctant to have sex " coincidentally" right after seeing my penis. She was willing as hell right before this. While I have gotten numerous compliments here I can't be sure that its just my pics misrepresenting my size. However a few here have also said I am small and others said perfectly average. Who am supposed to believe?

 

[Mr.Louis]

Im the same size and seem to be suffering from the same dilemma. I feel small and inadequate .The main difference is I don't think its just in my head. I have some serious doubts about thise size studies and what they say is average, above average, big etc. I seriously entertain the idea that 7" BP might just be scraping the bottom of the barrel of a average or even less. For instance when I was younger everyone of my friends were bigger. Two significantly bigger out of 5 friends. What are the chances unless what is thought to be average is way off.

Unfortunately I haven't had the pleasure of ever being complemented by a woman. Actually quite the opposite. Your experiences do make me feel a little better though. One of my experiences include having a girl suddenly become reluctant to have sex " coincidentally" right after seeing my penis. She was willing as hell right before this. While I have gotten numerous compliments here I can't be sure that its just my pics misrepresenting my size. However a few here have also said I am small and others said perfectly average. Who am supposed to believe?

Well if you must know I was extremely skeptical of the penis size studies at first as well and there was no way I thought 7" BP could be in the 1% or even close so i took it upon my self to find real life answers. You gotta remember that those studies had participants who agreed to be measured, that means guys who thought they were small or inadequate wouldn't want their dicks measured, and guys with Ed or other similar problems were exempt from the studies, so even with confidence bias in play the average is still what they claim, between 5-6 BP, you gotta remember not every body has a twisted perception of their size like we do, so a truly average dude might see a different reality than we do because that is the serious affect pornography can have to ones size which is why I am trying my hardest to stop. So the true average is actually lower that in real life because like I said volunteer and co confidence bias, all studies that point to a certain average, the average is always lower in real life. For example the avg height is 5'9 in America, most guys are actually below that if you pay attention in the real world. Here take a look at this video it's an experienced woman who has slept with almost everyone in the music industry (yes, rappers who always claim to have big dicks in their rap songs) and probably thousands of guys:

she claims most guys in the world have small penises, but if you watch her other videos shes one of those idiots that believe in 10-15 inch dicks but you gotta remember 'girl inches' and her ex husband literally had a 1.5 inch dick, she actually measured it that's what a girl means by 'small', so a 7-8 inch NBP dick to her ya is 10-15 inches lol.

Next point: I wanted actual real life examples of this so I became undercover gay for a couple months where I allowed a couple gay guys 'suck my dick' and nothing else I had to cover my face mind you but still... The few guys I was able to measure BP were high 5's to low 6's BP, they were actually realistically 4-5 inches NBP with fat pads, and avg girth round 5" one was actually 5.5 girth but he was uncut and that adds to girth, if you pull their skin back and measure he was average girth, uncut just looks bigger flaccid and erect. And I got to see a few other dicks no homo that looked small flaccid and they all considered themselves average. I would ask them stories about their experiences with penises and one of them said out of the 2000 dicks he's seen, yes 2000, 1900 he said were small to avg, yes between 3-5 inches NBP and the rest were avg to abv avg and bigger, u gotta remember that fat pad is no joke and can seriously take a lot of dick away. And for girth, he said he literally saw a few pencil dicks in his life like literally straw thin that's why they're called pencil dicks, so if ur anywhere between 4 - 5 ur def fine, 4 mifht be a bit low but ehh w.e.

Third point: Pornstars? Duhhh pornstars!! Who else to compare size studies to? Believe it or not, most pornstars even 'big names' are barely pushing the 7" mark NBP of course, so what does that mean for guys like us with 7" BP? If we get lean as hell and lose our fat pad, we can become pornstars!!! Even with average girth which is what the majority of pornstars have anyway. ALOT of pornstars, mainstream and amateur are 6-7 NBP, 'monstercocks' are only 7-7.5" NBP and barely anyone is 8", so 8 is the biggest of big in porn. I've written ALOT already if you have any questions and let me know my hands are tires lol

 

[RawrRawrRawr]

You can Google to find research papers where they measured large numbers of guys cocks and you'll see the numbers for yourself.
Medical professionals are not fabricating research data to skew the average cock size.

The funny thing is when they do larger scale studies that have men measure their own cocks, the average is *alway* higher. Because even in an anonymous survey guys lie about the length of their cocks.
Even more ridiculously one of the papers I read asked only gay men, the average was about 2 inches longer than expected.
Because we're ridiculous lying size queens.

 

[neintynein]

Next point: I wanted actual real life examples of this so I became undercover gay for a couple months where I allowed a couple gay guys 'suck my dick' and nothing else I had to cover my face mind you but still... The few guys I was able to measure BP were high 5's to low 6's BP, they were actually realistically 4-5 inches NBP with fat pads, and avg girth round 5" one was actually 5.5 girth but he was uncut and that adds to girth, if you pull their skin back and measure he was average girth, uncut just looks bigger flaccid and erect. And I got to see a few other dicks no homo that looked small flaccid and they all considered themselves average. I would ask them stories about their experiences with penises and one of them said out of the 2000 dicks he's seen, yes 2000, 1900 he said were small to avg, yes between 3-5 inches NBP and the rest were avg to abv avg and bigger, u gotta remember that fat pad is no joke and can seriously take a lot of dick away. And for girth, he said he literally saw a few pencil dicks in his life like literally straw thin that's why they're called pencil dicks, so if ur anywhere between 4 - 5 ur def fine, 4 mifht be a bit low but ehh w.e.

Wait, you did what? in the name of research? cool story bro

Third point: Pornstars? Duhhh pornstars!! Who else to compare size studies to? Believe it or not, most pornstars even 'big names' are barely pushing the 7" mark NBP of course, so what does that mean for guys like us with 7" BP? If we get lean as hell and lose our fat pad, we can become pornstars!!! Even with average girth which is what the majority of pornstars have anyway. ALOT of pornstars, mainstream and amateur are 6-7 NBP, 'monstercocks' are only 7-7.5" NBP and barely anyone is 8", so 8 is the biggest of big in porn. I've written ALOT already if you have any questions and let me know my hands are tires lol

I find it amazing to contemplate that those are the real numbers -- though I'm not saying you're not right. I just want to find someone who can photograph my junk (a bit over 7.5xa bit under 5) and make it look pornstar huge.

 

[neintynein]

I purchased a dildo my exact dimensions and keep it beside me for self image reprogramming however it's hard to get over my flaccid state and the idea others might have about it because when it's really shriveled up it literally looks tiny..

In all seriousness, if this all upsets you so much see a therapist. You know already it's in your head, they can tell you how to get it out.

 

[Ugggsee]

This might be skewed towards the gay side of the spectrum but my friends and I, including straight women, seek out the "husband" sized goldicock. A "large" dick can be fun but it's not a given; on the regular it's too much work. I know I am in the minority with sensibility, especially in this multiverse of excess being a flex. Personally, I'd be perfectly content with your dimensions; anything over 8" and all I can offer is throwing it over my shoulder and burping it.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Wait, you did what? in the name of research? cool story bro


I find it amazing to contemplate that those are the real numbers -- though I'm not saying you're not right. I just want to find someone who can photograph my junk (a bit over 7.5xa bit under 5) and make it look pornstar huge.

I regret posting that I hope I didn't offend anyone on here.

And those pornstars sizes are actual facts, idk if you know the thread 'measured pornstars??' But they practically measured or shall I say 'verified' the accuracy of pornstar sizes in more numerous ways than I can count, I mean 'mandingo' is the biggest in porn history give or take and he's barely 9" and the others behind him a full inch or so shorter... Check it out if you'd like or maybe you know about that thread already either way it helped me out with seeing the correct perspective..

As far as seeing a therapist goes, I can't really afford that right now but trust me I plan on it, I am curious how a therapist would respond to these kind of questions.

 

[Mr.Louis]

You can Google to find research papers where they measured large numbers of guys cocks and you'll see the numbers for yourself.
Medical professionals are not fabricating research data to skew the average cock size.

The funny thing is when they do larger scale studies that have men measure their own cocks, the average is *alway* higher. Because even in an anonymous survey guys lie about the length of their cocks.
Even more ridiculously one of the papers I read asked only gay men, the average was about 2 inches longer than expected.
Because we're ridiculous lying size queens.

Trust me, I have read and searched every penis size article/blog/post on Google and it took a while to put things into perspective and they all say the same thing about 7" BP being the 1% do you believe that as well? I mean it makes sense seeing as how most 'big named' pornstars in that range.

But if you have some links to share regarding avg size I'd be more than willing to take a look

 

[RawrRawrRawr]

Here's a couple of links -

https://www.bizsearch.nz/s/Penis-Size-Study-Veale-et-al-2015-BJUI.pdf

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2020.1787279

As is mentioned, it's assumed that men with small penises are less likely to agree to be part of one of these studies. So even though everything has been done as well as is possible the average values are very likely to be larger than the true average.

 

[Robbie128]

Trust me, I have read and searched every penis size article/blog/post on Google and it took a while to put things into perspective and they all say the same thing about 7" BP being the 1% do you believe that as well? I mean it makes sense seeing as how most 'big named' pornstars in that range.

But if you have some links to share regarding avg size I'd be more than willing to take a look

Hello Mr Louis.
Because you have been very honest. I will share some honesty with you.
Really. You shouldn't regret posting about your "research". Many of us have experimented. I have too despite now identifying as 100% straight.

The whole penis size thing really can play with ones head.
I know because I've really been through it all. I was always unhappy about being seen in my most flaccid cold state to start with but then in my teens with my first sexual encounters. I was reasonably confident that I measured at 6.4/6.5 inches erect and being very slim. I had no fat pad. I was pretty confident that I was a little bit above average at least.

It was much later that I really began to mentally suffer and by looking back I could see where my fears began.
I'd had a mfm 3some with my first serious Girlfriend and a best male friend and we were both pretty much equal in reality but when I was watching my friend having sex with my Girlfriend.
He appeared bigger. I got a thrill from that notion and it was the start of a slow road towards embracing Small Penis Humiliation.
Many Women are kind about penis size and realistic but others are not. I was very sexually active in my 20s and did come across the occasional woman that wasn't so kind and I began to fear sexual encounters with women that had experienced cocks that were significantly bigger than my own.

It became more difficult to keep telling myself that I was a good average.
I'd done other mfm 3somes in the meantime with 2 other Girlfriends but so far. I hadn't been in such a situation with a bigger guy. Part of me wanted a humiliating situation but I was also scared as to how it would feel.
It was a male friend that gave me my first big humiliation. He saw me naked and flaccid when he'd came and visited while I was still in bed. I tried to get up to change quickly and he made a remark about my cock being on the small side.

A while later. I was at his place and he was drying off after a shower and he deliberately wanted me to see what he had.
It was big. Even soft it was about 6 inches and thick. Another time his Girlfriend made a remark aimed at me saying that she couldn't settle for 6 inches. It was totally aimed at me. My friend had ridiculed me while talking to his Girlfriend obviously. I wasn't being paranoid.
It only took a small minority of negative remarks to start hurting me.

I then met the woman in 2000 that I would later marry. Before we became sexually involved. During a discussion about sex. She gave the opinion that 6 inches was small.
OK. I later realised that she had a skewed idea about size because she'd been with a few smaller than average guys that had claimed they had 6 inches.
She was open about the fact that she was sexually experienced and she was honest that she'd had sex with men who were an inch or so longer than my cock but in her size skewed world. A real 7 incher was 8 or more inches. (It's those magic girl inches again)
However. My size hadn't been a deal breaker and we had fantastic sex.

However. I knew that she was the right woman that could help me learn.
I asked her straight if she missed having sex with a bigger cock.
She agreed to the idea of mfm 3somes and advertising for guys up in the 8inch range.
We had quite a few big guys join us for sex and I admitted to her that I was enjoying the Small Penis Humiliation aspect of all this.
That wasn't a problem for her and I ultimately worked through that phase and she was quite understanding about the fact I'd developed it into a kink.

I have more to tell but this post is long enough for now.
I will continue tomorrow.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Here's a couple of links -

https://www.bizsearch.nz/s/Penis-Size-Study-Veale-et-al-2015-BJUI.pdf

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2020.1787279

As is mentioned, it's assumed that men with small penises are less likely to agree to be part of one of these studies. So even though everything has been done as well as is possible the average values are very likely to be larger than the true average.

Yes, volunteer bias and confidence bias always come into play, guys with micropenis and Ed are exempt from these studies usually so they can't bring the numbers down.

Hello Mr Louis.
Because you have been very honest. I will share some honesty with you.
Really. You shouldn't regret posting about your "research". Many of us have experimented. I have too despite now identifying as 100% straight.

The whole penis size thing really can play with ones head.
I know because I've really been through it all. I was always unhappy about being seen in my most flaccid cold state to start with but then in my teens with my first sexual encounters. I was reasonably confident that I measured at 6.4/6.5 inches erect and being very slim. I had no fat pad. I was pretty confident that I was a little bit above average at least.

It was much later that I really began to mentally suffer and by looking back I could see where my fears began.
I'd had a mfm 3some with my first serious Girlfriend and a best male friend and we were both pretty much equal in reality but when I was watching my friend having sex with my Girlfriend.
He appeared bigger. I got a thrill from that notion and it was the start of a slow road towards embracing Small Penis Humiliation.
Many Women are kind about penis size and realistic but others are not. I was very sexually active in my 20s and did come across the occasional woman that wasn't so kind and I began to fear sexual encounters with women that had experienced cocks that were significantly bigger than my own.

It became more difficult to keep telling myself that I was a good average.
I'd done other mfm 3somes in the meantime with 2 other Girlfriends but so far. I hadn't been in such a situation with a bigger guy. Part of me wanted a humiliating situation but I was also scared as to how it would feel.
It was a male friend that gave me my first big humiliation. He saw me naked and flaccid when he'd came and visited while I was still in bed. I tried to get up to change quickly and he made a remark about my cock being on the small side.

A while later. I was at his place and he was drying off after a shower and he deliberately wanted me to see what he had.
It was big. Even soft it was about 6 inches and thick. Another time his Girlfriend made a remark aimed at me saying that she couldn't settle for 6 inches. It was totally aimed at me. My friend had ridiculed me while talking to his Girlfriend obviously. I wasn't being paranoid.
It only took a small minority of negative remarks to start hurting me.

I then met the woman in 2000 that I would later marry. Before we became sexually involved. During a discussion about sex. She gave the opinion that 6 inches was small.
OK. I later realised that she had a skewed idea about size because she'd been with a few smaller than average guys that had claimed they had 6 inches.
She was open about the fact that she was sexually experienced and she was honest that she'd had sex with men who were an inch or so longer than my cock but in her size skewed world. A real 7 incher was 8 or more inches. (It's those magic girl inches again)
However. My size hadn't been a deal breaker and we had fantastic sex.

However. I knew that she was the right woman that could help me learn.
I asked her straight if she missed having sex with a bigger cock.
She agreed to the idea of mfm 3somes and advertising for guys up in the 8inch range.
We had quite a few big guys join us for sex and I admitted to her that I was enjoying the Small Penis Humiliation aspect of all this.
That wasn't a problem for her and I ultimately worked through that phase and she was quite understanding about the fact I'd developed it into a kink.

I have more to tell but this post is long enough for now.
I will continue tomorrow.

so tell man, I'm all ears

 

[Robbie128]

Ok

Yes, volunteer bias and confidence bias always come into play, guys with micropenis and Ed are exempt from these studies usually so they can't bring the numbers down.

so tell man, I'm all ears

Mr Louis. Part 2.
Looking back to my first serious Girlfriend. Although she'd been a virgin when I got with her. She often enjoyed talking about sex and cocks etc.

Although I didn't feel inadequate with my girthy 6.5 inch long erect cock I knew that I compared well to the majority of other guys.
However. I knew that there were some guys that had cocks as big as 7, 7.5 or 8 and even 9.
I absolutely dreaded the very real possibility of my girl Amanda being seduced by a confident big cocked guy.
I was tormented by the mental picture of her being fucked by a guy that was noticeably bigger, longer, thicker even by a half inch or so and also this guy I'd imagine to have bigger balls.

I mentioned the 3some with Amanda my first serious Girlfriend in part 1.
We were 3 good friends and Pete was pretty much my best mate. Still is.
He fancied her a lot and there was playful flirting between them which I didn't mind. I began to fantasise about him fucking her.
He claimed he had 7 inches.

I was wanting to face that sexual humiliation already but it was better that it would be a friend involved.
Pete had always been honest saying he wanted to fuck her and we'd get horny talking about her.
He had a thing about women wearing stockings and suspenders as did I and I told him that Amanda wore them exclusively.
Soon we were planning to encourage a 3some with her.
It all happened very easily after one playful afternoon where I'd encouraged Amanda to show Pete her stockings and suspenders. She then dropped her knickers and gave him a good look at her hairy pussy.
Once Pete said that he had an erection. It was easy for me to suggest that it would be kind of her to relieve him.
She wasn't shy about it. She wanked him off. I was surprised that it was happening so naturally.

The humiliation aspect was already happening because I'd noticed how keen she'd been to flaunt herself and then to handle his hard cock and she was loving it. Afterwards she readily agreed to a full 3some the next weekend.

On the big night. She'd made a special effort with her black stockings and suspenders in a lovely brand new matching outfit.
I couldn't believe this was a reality.
Pete was very attentive towards Amanda and most of her sexual focus was on him.
He didn't just fuck her, he made love with her. She also showed much more enthusiasm when giving him oral than she did with me.
I won't go into full detail here because I may have posted in detail already but if anyone wants a full account. PM me.

I had totally enjoyed it. It was breaking a sexual taboo. I'd been equally aroused and turned on further by feelings of sexual jealousy with a slight aspect of SPH in there although I kept that to myself.
Pete expressed the idea he would like to have a 1 to 1 with Amanda.
She looked to me for my response and it seemed that she'd be into it.
I agreed and they had a good few 1 to 1 sessions with my blessing and we had a few more 3somes too.
I'd already faced my fears a little so I was okay with sharing my Girlfriend/Fiancée.
I'd even enjoyed those slight feelings of sexual inadequacy because I'd embraced as a kink and allowed myself to let go and see myself as second best.

Later long term relationships happened in my mid to late 20s as did 3somes which I encouraged but I was the bigger guy each time.
I was craving internally for a situation with a much bigger guy but didn't want to admit it and really. I wasn't ready quite yet to confront that imagined vision I'd had regarding Amanda years before.

My first experience of SPH came out of the blue when I met my second Wife in 2000. (we married in 2008)
From the beginning. She was very honest that she'd had quite a few different men and admitted to 30 different men she'd had sex with over a 24 year period.
I suspected that she may have downplayed the number.
She was also vocal in saying that she'd had a few guys that had an inch or more than my cock and more girth too.

At last. I could really admit to myself that I'd needed a Woman that would give me those SPH humiliation feelings.
Of course I felt envy and slightly less of a man in her eyes but our sex life was great.
Soon she readily agreed to trying 3some situations and as mental preparation.
I invited my old friend Pete to meet my new Woman as he wouldn't be as intimidating as a much bigger guy.

We had 4 3some sessions with Pete and I could see how sexually experienced she was. We took turns with her etc.
Soon I suggested that we advertised for a guy who had 8 inches or so and after a good chat. She was up for it.

Altogether I watched her with 14 male guests who were all noticeably bigger than me. I didn't join in except for one guy who encouraged it.
During those sessions. I kept my feelings of humiliation to myself and she didn't actively humiliate me other than obviously enjoying the sex with these guys.

It was the last two guys that we had as guests that she'd realised that I was getting off on the SPH aspect.
First there was Andy with a thick 8.5 inches and she'd verbally humiliate and taunt me and he went along with it.
She had 5 sessions with him, and after each session with Andy she'd dominate me and make me lay down while she squatted over me to piss on my face.
Then there was another guy called Terry who had 8 she had 2 sessions with me there and later admitted to seeing him 5 times behind my back. Yes I was hurt but I just had to go to the bathroom and jerk off after she told me.
Those mixed emotions.

I'd now fully embraced enjoying the humiliation as a kink. It had taken me a full 20 odd years to fully admit it to a Woman and to accept it had always been a part of me.
It was now 2007 and the 3somes had run their course.

I then went seeking SPH elsewhere.
Escort girls were not the answer but I found it accidentally.
I had to go to hospital to have a cyst removed from my groin. After the operation. I had a huge gaping hole an inch wide and an inch deep which had to be packed daily with lint and gauze. It was to the left of my balls.

My flaccid state was terrible at this time but I was exposed to many medical professionals. After the op. A cute nurse came to my bed and pulled the screens around. She had to clean the wound and pack it with strips of lint. I was there with legs spread with my cock totally cold and shriveled. (I was also suffering from age shrinkage and was under 6 by then)
She had to use her left hand to hold my cock and balls to one side while she worked..it took a good while and because I'd had no sexual contact for a while because of my cyst.
I started to become aroused. She was now holding my hard cock to one side.
I apologised for my erection and she said not to worry and added "he's a lively little man isn't he?"
Wow. An SPH moment right there.
I was even more aroused.
As she had to keep adjusting her hand on my cock and balls I could feel my cock touching her wrist and then she'd be holding it by the glans.
Just slight movements here and there and suddenly. I couldn't control it.
I just shot my load. I wasn't embarrassed but pretended I was.
When I was discharged. The Nurse phoned me while on my way home under the pretext of asking if I'd collected my medicines.
Thinking about it later. She'd have had to go out of her way to get my number from the ward sister as she was a post op nurse who didn't work on my ward.
I should've responded better. I think she was interested in something else.
I will never know.

Over the next few weeks I was exposed to many more women while flaccid while my wound was cleaned and repacked. I really enjoyed this SPH situation. It was totally new ground.
I was then seeking other excuses to be seen by female medical professionals.

I had an Asian female GP aged about 45.
I went to her complaining that I was having feelings of inadequacy over my penis size. Of course she examined me.
She put on gloves and was handling my cock which was at its most flaccid. It was a very cold day. It was barely sticking out 2 inches that day. I asked her her honest opinion about my size. She flicked my cock upwards with the tlps or her fingers and watched it move and she said straight out that it was small but normal I was thrilled.
A good few months later I had a new female doctor at the same practice.
She was a pretty younger Asian woman.

I made the same complaint and asked her for her honest opinion and again. I was cold and shriveled and she said it was small. I said that I had age shrinkage and she referred me to a urologist.
Another female. She asked if I wished to be measured. I was measured stretched at 14.5 cm and told I was above average.

I was then referred to an equipment specialist at tge same hospital and was able to be prescribed a pump and a pump routine to counter the shrinkage.
It worked well.
In the box for the pump was a leaflet about a traction device. I couldn't get prescribed but the urologist was positive about its use and I bought one as a private purchase.
After the pump routine I went back to the same Asian female Doctor and told her what had been happening.
I'd taken viagra deliberately. I'd discreetly kept myself aroused in the waiting area. I asked for an opinion as to my pump and traction routine results.
She was happy to examine me and I was not hard but looking good.
I then passed her a piece of paper while apologising for being embarrassed.
On the paper I had written. Small. Quite small, lower average, medium average, high average, quite large, large, very large.
I asked her to tick any two options that best described my penis status.
She ticked both quite large and large and said I was somewhere between those two descriptions.
It was a good experience. I'd allowed myself the humiliation of appearing small in front of her and was now enjoying flaunting quite large in front of her.

I'd played the whole thing with the GPS as being vulnerable and anxious over tge size issue and hopefully they didn't realise that I was enjoying my SPH kink.
I'm now realistically measuring at 7.3 with a girth of 5.9 and still have SPH fantasies. It's just been my way of dealing with my feelings.

Phew. That was a long post.

 

[Robbie128]

PS Mr Louis.
Out of the 14 big cocked male guests that I watched with my future Wife.
It wasn't the biggest guys that fucked her the best. The man that achieved that was an inch shorter than Andy's 8.5.
Sean with 7.5. Although I was okay just discreetly watching her enjoy herself.
He encouraged me to join in later.
I could tell that my Woman really fancied him big time..She was so excited after having given him a long blowjob.
He was about to enter her in missionary.
Her legs were pulled back spread wide and she suddenly squirted. I'd never seen her so wet and she had a good few strong orgasms.
My good friend Pete who had fucked my first serious Girlfriend years before in our first 3somes. We had 4 sessions with him and even his modest 6.5 inches gave her a real good fucking. Everytime he had her in missionary. She was panting like a steam train.

My Wife is a bit wicked with the humiliation aspect she likes the fact that I have to accept that she lusts over bigger cocks and she is very fiesty.
However. She's a good dutiful Wife and has an old fashioned view regarding gender roles and behaves as her sexual duty to me her Husband is to be sexually submissive and compliant.
She dresses for sex in heels stockings and suspenders and a sexy baby doll nightie.
She doesn't expect me to make sweet love to her. She just likes it when I take her for my pleasure.
She remarks about how she loves my balls slapping her arse and compliments me for filling her with a good amount of cum.
I can't complain. Sex is great with my Wife despite everything I know about her sexual history and the fact I've seen for myself that she enjoys a cock that's a good bit bigger than mine.
In fact. That's a big part of the thrill.

 

[Mr.Louis]

PS Mr Louis.
Out of the 14 big cocked male guests that I watched with my future Wife.
It wasn't the biggest guys that fucked her the best. The man that achieved that was an inch shorter than Andy's 8.5.
Sean with 7.5. Although I was okay just discreetly watching her enjoy herself.
He encouraged me to join in later.
I could tell that my Woman really fancied him big time..She was so excited after having given him a long blowjob.
He was about to enter her in missionary.
Her legs were pulled back spread wide and she suddenly squirted. I'd never seen her so wet and she had a good few strong orgasms.
My good friend Pete who had fucked my first serious Girlfriend years before in our first 3somes. We had 4 sessions with him and even his modest 6.5 inches gave her a real good fucking. Everytime he had her in missionary. She was panting like a steam train.

My Wife is a bit wicked with the humiliation aspect she likes the fact that I have to accept that she lusts over bigger cocks and she is very fiesty.
However. She's a good dutiful Wife and has an old fashioned view regarding gender roles and behaves as her sexual duty to me her Husband is to be sexually submissive and compliant.
She dresses for sex in heels stockings and suspenders and a sexy baby doll nightie.
She doesn't expect me to make sweet love to her. She just likes it when I take her for my pleasure.
She remarks about how she loves my balls slapping her arse and compliments me for filling her with a good amount of cum.
I can't complain. Sex is great with my Wife despite everything I know about her sexual history and the fact I've seen for myself that she enjoys a cock that's a good bit bigger than mine.
In fact. That's a big part of the thrill.

Question, these guys that were bigger that fucked your wife, how do you know their exact sizes did they tell you or did you just assume they're that size?