Y’all are weird asf. If he says he’s straight, respect that. If he says he isn’t interested in men, respect that. If he says he doesn’t want to do gay porn, respect that. He owes us absolutely nothing, and we aren’t entitled to any piece of him. To his friend, I hope that he’s doing well. I’m not gonna ask you to tell him this because it’s your prerogative, but for what it’s worth I hope he knows that even though his relationship is important (and I do hope it works out), he is more important. If he wants to do porn he should do it, not because anyone tells him to or not to. Obviously if the girlfriend isn’t comfortable with him doing it with others or being recorded herself that should be respected, but he should still be able to do solo stuff if he wants to. I could care less whether he continues or not because there are other pornstars out there (not in the sense that he doesn’t matter, just that it isn’t the end of the world if he doesn’t do porn anymore), what matters most is that he’s doing what he wants to do and is happy. If he really wants to quit and focus on family that’s great for him, and I wish him all the best.