I'm trying to figure out if most woman enjoy anal? My wife thinks it's an exit only and the one time she let me put it in, she said it wasn't anything special. I see it happening so much on porn and the pornstars seem to love it. Any tips on how I can get her to enjoy it?
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1.) Don't compare her to what you see in porn. Porn stars get paid to look like they're enjoying themselves, even if they're not. (some women love anal, some hate it)
2.) If she's tried it and didn't enjoy it you may not have luck getting her to enjoy it at all.
3.) You may not be doing it right (I'm not trying to be rude, but some people don't know how to fuck an asshole. It's not a vagina, and needs to be dealt with a bit differently.. and often porn stars 'warm up' before the director calls action) You have to start VERY slowly or it's just painful and completely un-enjoyable. Lots of lube is a good thing. You have to let her ass adjust to your cock before you start Fucking.
I personally love anal sex, especially if he's fingered/tongued it a bit first. However, I enjoyed it the first time I tried it. I'd try to just see if you can get her aroused by light ass play first and just see if you can get it to escalate to a good anal fuck session. If she still doesn't show interest don't push the issue because it'll probably just turn her off to it all together.
I do hope she can enjoy it with you, it's a great way to connect with someone in an intimately kinky way.
2.) If she's tried it and didn't enjoy it you may not have luck getting her to enjoy it at all.
3.) You may not be doing it right (I'm not trying to be rude, but some people don't know how to fuck an asshole. It's not a vagina, and needs to be dealt with a bit differently.. and often porn stars 'warm up' before the director calls action) You have to start VERY slowly or it's just painful and completely un-enjoyable. Lots of lube is a good thing. You have to let her ass adjust to your cock before you start Fucking.
I personally love anal sex, especially if he's fingered/tongued it a bit first. However, I enjoyed it the first time I tried it. I'd try to just see if you can get her aroused by light ass play first and just see if you can get it to escalate to a good anal fuck session. If she still doesn't show interest don't push the issue because it'll probably just turn her off to it all together.
I do hope she can enjoy it with you, it's a great way to connect with someone in an intimately kinky way.
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I watch a lot of rom-com movies and the guys in those movies are so strong, manly and really know what true love is. I mean they really know how to make a woman feel wanted - i see them running through airports, stopping traffic in the middle of bridges, quitting high power jobs - just for a chance to be with the woman they love.
Any tips on how to get a guy to do this?
In other words.....FILM = FANTASY. Porn is not real life. Some women like anal, some tolerate it and some hate it. Your question leads me to believe you watch too much porn. Stop.
Talk to your wife about your sexual interests, but only she can decide about whether or not it's something she will eventually enjoy. Tell her what you find erotic about it. Tell her why it would be sexy with her. But if your reason is that it looked cool in a porno? Don't blame her if she ices up.
Any tips on how to get a guy to do this?
In other words.....FILM = FANTASY. Porn is not real life. Some women like anal, some tolerate it and some hate it. Your question leads me to believe you watch too much porn. Stop.
Talk to your wife about your sexual interests, but only she can decide about whether or not it's something she will eventually enjoy. Tell her what you find erotic about it. Tell her why it would be sexy with her. But if your reason is that it looked cool in a porno? Don't blame her if she ices up.
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Okay got it. Porn isn't real. So back to the question...do woman out there don't like anal?
Okay got it. Porn isn't real. So back to the question...do woman out there don't like anal? That's just how things are portrayed by porn industry?
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As all the other women have pointed out, every woman is different. I very much enjoy anal, but you will also find many women that don't.
LaFemme - your post was hilarious and so true!
LaFemme - your post was hilarious and so true!
You say you 'got it' that porn isn't real.. then you bring it up again right after asking if women enjoy anal.. If you 'get' that porn isn't an accurate comparison then why mention what porn is portraying?
Porn is a fantasy. Those women are being paid to do what they're doing. Never compare a real woman with a porn star. It's acting. Fiction. I've seen a few porn star interviews and some women are totally into what they're doing on camera, some of them are just doing what they're being directed to do in order to get that paycheck.
Just some honest words of advice, sorry if I come off a bit harsh.. but seriously don't compare real life sexual encounters with what you see in porno flicks. As you can see, most women don't like to be compared to a fictional situation.
As I said before, I do hope she can open up that lovely ass and enjoy having your cock in and out of it
Tight_N_Juicy,
No offense taken. Appreciate the words of advice. I guess anal isn't for everyone but glad to hear there are women out there who enjoy getting a cock in the ass.
No offense taken. Appreciate the words of advice. I guess anal isn't for everyone but glad to hear there are women out there who enjoy getting a cock in the ass.
So not even a finger in the butt feels good to you? My wife does enjoy me sliding the tip of my finger inside her ass while I'm fucking her from behind so that's why I think I have a shot.
I tell her to free her mind and relax her body so that she can enjoy the sensation of a cock sliding in her ass. She said the pain isn't worth it but I think it's because she's too worked up and can't relax. Have you ever wanted to do something to your partner but he wouldn't let you?
Why? What scenes in porn are you offended by? I thought women liked porn but not getting that vibe in this latest thread? Not trying to be an ass but want to understand why women feel that way.
Nothing springs to mind.
I know this wasn't directed at me, but again - some women like porn and some don't. As to why some of us don't? Have a look around this site. Look at the fact that you asked this question. If you can't tell the difference between what someone is paid to look like she likes and what your wife might actually like - then you have one eensy clue about what is wrong with porn.
Real women are not a series of holes begging to be filled. We aren't happiest being baptized in cum. Some of us don't mind a finger up the butt, but slide anything bigger up there and you will be peeling us off the ceiling. Porn sends you all the wrong messages about us.
Porn is not an instructional DVD. Porn has nothing at all to do with real life. Porn should be animated and put out by Disney's XXX Division.
In my opinion, porn leads to bad sex. Bad relationships between men and women. And since I'm in favour of messy, noisy, all weekend, fuck until you are in a coma sex - I prefer my men on the porn-lite side of life! :biggrin1:
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Yeah. I wanted to put my pinkie up his ass. He said I could, but always balked at the last second. If the idea had been flat-out rejected, I wouldn't have asked twice. But he'd said I could, and then became anxious.
He likes to be rimmed, though the first time I did it, I just went for it without asking. I was blowing him. I licked his balls, and sucked his taint, and flicked my tongue across the pucker. He freaked out and pulled away. But then he asked me to lick it again, saying he would try anything once. So I was allowed to have my way, orally, with his asshole and his crack, and I kept returning to his cock and balls to lick and suck them too. I rubbed his hole with my thumb while I played with his dick. Then I tried to ease my wet pinkie in. He flipped me over and fucked me from behind.
So, I brought it up a few weeks later, and he encouraged me to lick his pucker and put my pinkie in it. But when I tried, he clenched up. After several months and a few tries, I called upon his other girlfriend and enlisted her assistance during a threesome, but that failed too, so I gave up on it. He just can't relax for penetration. He is curious, clearly, but not curious enough. So, that's just not something we do together.
OK, I'm going to tell one of my husband's deep dark secrets: he loves the comedian Ron White. And almost every time I tell him I've got "company" so not tonight he tells one of his favorite Ron White jokes:
"When my wife's on her period, she won't have sex with me at all! No way! Which is bullshit, because if the roller coaster's broken, they don't shut down the whole amusement park! People standing outside the fence going, The log ride's still working."
- Ron White
"When my wife's on her period, she won't have sex with me at all! No way! Which is bullshit, because if the roller coaster's broken, they don't shut down the whole amusement park! People standing outside the fence going, The log ride's still working."
- Ron White
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