Woman. He never presented as gay outside of porn and dancing.
With the statement like that you must have run into him socially to some extent or in a satellite manner. Most of his porn bios don't say that he's gay at all. They say that it's closer to straight but flexible and or bi-curious with a girlfriend who basically suggested he get into it and got off on it. That is actually quite common. Without any further evidence I would believe this scenario and I would also believe that it might continue occasionally in private life. That's just sex that's not sexual orientation identity. I myself have been pursued by a couple like that and have given into it at least twice LOL okay maybe it was more like three or four, possibly five. I just turned 55 so give me a break on remembering some of the details.
Usually the girlfriend likes to watch and or simply leaves and gets off in hearing the story later. Occasionally they wanted to participate but we're okay with whatever boundaries I had. In most cases I would have said that the guys were pretty much straight but not narrow. On a couple of occasions they were definitely bisexual or pansexual. There was only one time where the guy was actually gay but his wife was a lesbian . It would take a while for me to explain that one because they were actually good friends. Suffice it to say it worked for them.
Obviously you can't consider them gay for pay if they're doing it for free and I've never paid for it. I've always thought the term gay for pay was a bit silly, because who knows whatever that means. They obviously got off on some of it and also got off on the fact that their girlfriend got off on it etc. One of them said they were a top for women and a bottom for men. There was all kinds of variations.
Anyway you seem to have more information than you're saying. Again of course don't violate any sort of boundary line but I think all of us would be curious to know anything you felt comfortable sharing. Considering he had a presence quite well known in the clubs and in the film industry, he obviously isn't super worried about total anonymity anonymity with the possible exception of his actual name which I think is where most of us would draw the line. I was curious does he do upholstery work etc? That can be quite lucrative in the boutique market especially if you're a skilled artisan.
I would say he looks the part of the so-called biographies. He obviously has the body and the moves as well as the open-mindedness required , but he also has that Artisan look. I would also hazard to guess that he's not 100% straight. I think for the most part folks that are labeled gay for pay and therefore basically straight I think in a lot of cases is something that the performer feels more comfortable with publicly
and also it is certainly a good marketing thing as a lot of us still are drawn to the straight man that likes to stray. Kind of a myth because most of them are really straight. That's just kind of common sense. We've seen dozens of examples of that. That said I'm not going to get and any big debate about the subject nor did I want to start one. I'm just presenting a scenario that seems to fit better than the more superficial one. I think finding out the source of this latest photo of him would probably go a long way to answering some of these questions.
I'm only about an hour and 45 minutes from Atlanta so perhaps I have a personal agenda here. If he was still dancing I think I'd try to go see him. If he was escorting I'd probably try to find out what his rates were lol I mean I'm on a budget here and because of my disability my sex life is gone from hero to almost zero in the past 5 years dang genetic bullshit. Also I do need some furniture reupholstered. I don't know if it'd be worth taking it to Atlanta but you never know if he's good and the rights are right getting a peek at him in person would be a little bit of a bonus lol.
Oh they came off as a creeper didn't I? LOL just a fan. I will admit to having a serious hard on for redheads and a few of my boyfriends have been. It's not a fetish for me or anything just a serious interest. And I know I'm not alone. He's the exact sort of build and type in hair color that gets my goat. Just like Erik Bradey I posted in here earlier.
Copper set on fire with the backdrop of porcelain colored granite. And blue or green eyes and you have your iconic Ginger. Hey be nice I've been fantasized before for being short and brown with iconic bedroom eyes. I'm indigenous and my height is on the short side. I know the difference between somebody who appreciates it and someone who fetishizes it. I'm not one of those I don't need it to get off but it doesn't hurt.