pretty girl said my dick 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6") is small to give her orgasm

[carzojorde]

Once I was fucking white girl with very pretty face, she was not super skinny, but not fat, just regular body type, so I think with regular pussy size.

When I was fucking her she didn't feel pleasure, just was lying with no reactions. I tried very hard, I tried different angles to enter her, but I was not able to give her orgasm or even pleasure. Wen I tried with my fingers, she rejected it saying "use only dick because I had pussy irritation in the past".

I think I said something like "maybe you have general problems with orgasm".
She got pissed at me and said that mine was small and she had one guy with bigger dick than mine, and bigger dick was able to give her orgasm.

she: I need bigger dick to get orgasm
me: how big?
she: showed a much larger size with her hands, showing something like 25cm
me: where is he?
she: he moved to USA and we don't meet now
I got shamed, humiliated but horny and started licking her pussy.

There is possibility she was just pissed at me, e.g. because of different women, so I am not sure if that story with the guy was true, but if true, the guy would need to be much more bigger than mine 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6")

Have you ever had similar story?

 

[Evenflow618]

Something is wrong with her vagina

 

[Aphradight]

Yeah, your cock is pretty big. You should be able to rearrange just about anybody’s insides with that.

 

[PussyStretcher]

You are large in size bro. Just because she did not have an orgasm from thrusting does not mean it is all your fault. Did she have an orgasm from oral? If not, you proved your point.

 

[Snakebyte]

First of all she most likely was full of shit.
Second thing is: about 80% of women do not reach orgasm via only penetration.

 

[NorCalPenis]

Haha--that's quite a story. She wouldn't even feel mine inside of her!

 

[JBD_Mikk]

You're almost twice as big as average by volume. If she needs bigger than that for orgasm, it's her problem more than yours!

 

[carzojorde]

To be objective there is possibility she really needed a bigger cock as she was very pretty young girl, a female student, additionally working as a shop/car hostess from time to time, so many men could approach her and she could choose between them. Moreover:
a) my dick is not very thick, so one of her previous dick could have been thicker, and bigger by volume. She didn't say anything about thickness but she may have had this in mind when she showed a much larger length with her hands, maybe she was driven by emotion and just showed too long cock size
e.g. if we compare her potential ex dick that is only 1 inch shorter but 1 inch thicker:
her ex: 16.8cm x 16.8cm (6.6" x 6.6"), volume: 339.59ml, it's 17.9% larger,
than mine: 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6"), volume: 288.11ml
b) her one of previous guy could also fucked her better than me, they could have had better report and she felt more comfortable with him to cum,
c) there are women with an orgasm problem, but I can't believe that such a pretty woman was still learning how to get orgasm,

But of course this kind of girls also can lie very well. She liked money very much and said "men only want sex, I am currently sex dating another married guy for money who is cheating on his wife with me. I know my future husband will cheat on me too, so he must be rich, at least I'll get money from him".

We've met only a few times for sex, I never gave her any money, maybe that's why she was pissed off at me and said my dick is not large enough for her. Who knows, but she was the only one of the women who had my dick in pussy and said size is not good enough, at least nothing else stuck in my mind like this and drills a hole.

If she was ugly, I wouldn't worry too much, because I know that they don't have many partners, so they have no way of comparing cocks, but she was very hot, 9/10 (as I prefer slimmer), one of those hot hostess ladies, so I would bet on the fact that she found a bigger thicker cock, and she could get used to the larger size with him, so my thinner cock couldn't give her stronger sensation.

When I licked her pussy, she didn't come either, but it could have been my fault, because I couldn't focus. I was trying to fuck a hot woman very hard, and heard from her I fucked it because of my weaker cock, not being large enough compared to her previous sex partner with a bigger stronger cock. I was humiliated, confused and thinking about her ex bigger cock.

 

[thickcockjames]

There’s an old phrase, “it’s not the size of the boat. It’s the motion in the ocean”

what were you doing while you were trying to pleasure her? Were you just pounding away at her pussy and thinking about different angles to fuck her from, or were you engaging with her? Making eye contact, touching her and paying attention to her beyond how she reacted to your dick?

One of the biggest compliments I’ve gotten from a sexual partner was that I don’t fuck like someone with a big dick. In her experience she said guys with big dicks tend to think their dick is enough and that a woman should just cum because his dick is there. That’s not how most women work. Many women can’t have orgasms through internal stimulation, a little clit rub while you’re in there goes a long way. Or playing with her other erogenous zones.

Sex isn’t always a sport, it can be a subtle art as well.

 

[BMWphoto]

Once I was fucking white girl with very pretty face, she was not super skinny, but not fat, just regular body type, so I think with regular pussy size.

When I was fucking her she didn't feel pleasure, just was lying with no reactions. I tried very hard, I tried different angles to enter her, but I was not able to give her orgasm or even pleasure. Wen I tried with my fingers, she rejected it saying "use only dick because I had pussy irritation in the past".

I think I said something like "maybe you have general problems with orgasm".
She got pissed at me and said that mine was small and she had one guy with bigger dick than mine, and bigger dick was able to give her orgasm.

she: I need bigger dick to get orgasm
me: how big?
she: showed a much larger size with her hands, showing something like 25cm
me: where is he?
she: he moved to USA and we don't meet now
I got shamed, humiliated but horny and started licking her pussy.

There is possibility she was just pissed at me, e.g. because of different women, so I am not sure if that story with the guy was true, but if true, the guy would need to be much more bigger than mine 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6")

Have you ever had similar story?

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That’s the most honest, straightforward dick measurement set up I have ever seen. Should be standard.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Once I was fucking white girl with very pretty face, she was not super skinny, but not fat, just regular body type, so I think with regular pussy size.

When I was fucking her she didn't feel pleasure, just was lying with no reactions. I tried very hard, I tried different angles to enter her, but I was not able to give her orgasm or even pleasure. Wen I tried with my fingers, she rejected it saying "use only dick because I had pussy irritation in the past".

I think I said something like "maybe you have general problems with orgasm".
She got pissed at me and said that mine was small and she had one guy with bigger dick than mine, and bigger dick was able to give her orgasm.

she: I need bigger dick to get orgasm
me: how big?
she: showed a much larger size with her hands, showing something like 25cm
me: where is he?
she: he moved to USA and we don't meet now
I got shamed, humiliated but horny and started licking her pussy.

There is possibility she was just pissed at me, e.g. because of different women, so I am not sure if that story with the guy was true, but if true, the guy would need to be much more bigger than mine 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6")

Have you ever had similar story?

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You should take her for her word for it. It is an outlier that a woman would complain about a man's size -- especially directly to him -- once she has consented to sex, but it is possible if you're to be believed. It is also possible she had misgivings about other aspects of you physically or emotionally and felt it was more cruel to point to those aspects as her reason for rejecting you. In any event, you failed her sexually -- it happens. It is also possible the story was just an excuse to post a photo of your dick (because the photo is irrelevant to your question) and get guys to talk about it, or to share photos of their dicks and talk about them. In any case, why was it relevant to point out she was "white girl?"

 

[JBD_Mikk]

To be objective there is possibility she really needed a bigger cock as she was very pretty young girl, a female student, additionally working as a shop/car hostess from time to time, so many men could approach her and she could choose between them. Moreover:
a) my dick is not very thick, so one of her previous dick could have been thicker, and bigger by volume. She didn't say anything about thickness but she may have had this in mind when she showed a much larger length with her hands, maybe she was driven by emotion and just showed too long cock size
e.g. if we compare her potential ex dick that is only 1 inch shorter but 1 inch thicker:
her ex: 16.8cm x 16.8cm (6.6" x 6.6"), volume: 339.59ml, it's 17.9% larger,
than mine: 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6"), volume: 288.11ml

It might be worth checking size surveys to gain a bit of perspective!

You say you're "not very thick" - but your current girth of 5.6" is in the 98th percentile - and a non bone-pressed length of 7.6" is very uncommon. As for a potential 6.6" girth... It's conceivable she did need that, but do you realize how huge that is? That's 1 in 100,000 territory.

 

[PussyStretcher]

It might be worth checking size surveys to gain a bit of perspective!

You say you're "not very thick" - but your current girth of 5.6" is in the 98th percentile - and a non bone-pressed length of 7.6" is very uncommon. As for a potential 6.6" girth... It's conceivable she did need that, but do you realize how huge that is? That's 1 in 100,000 territory.

This the truth here. Go to calcsd.com for reference. In no way are you small. Women will say things like this to knock you down and just to be mean. Do not let her get in your head and get you down. Time to move on and laugh that your big cock usher loss.

 

[dindon2024]

Man, sounds like she was just trying to get in your head or maybe she had something else on her mind. Your size is definitely above average, and if she really needs something bigger than that to get off, it’s more of her issue. Sometimes, it’s just about how you connect with the person, not just the physical. I wouldn’t let her comment bother you. Like they say, it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean!

 

[boc]

Once I was fucking white girl with very pretty face, she was not super skinny, but not fat, just regular body type, so I think with regular pussy size.

When I was fucking her she didn't feel pleasure, just was lying with no reactions. I tried very hard, I tried different angles to enter her, but I was not able to give her orgasm or even pleasure. Wen I tried with my fingers, she rejected it saying "use only dick because I had pussy irritation in the past".

I think I said something like "maybe you have general problems with orgasm".
She got pissed at me and said that mine was small and she had one guy with bigger dick than mine, and bigger dick was able to give her orgasm.

she: I need bigger dick to get orgasm
me: how big?
she: showed a much larger size with her hands, showing something like 25cm
me: where is he?
she: he moved to USA and we don't meet now
I got shamed, humiliated but horny and started licking her pussy.

There is possibility she was just pissed at me, e.g. because of different women, so I am not sure if that story with the guy was true, but if true, the guy would need to be much more bigger than mine 19.4cm x 14.4cm (7.6" x 5.6")

Have you ever had similar story?

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She was just saying that because she was defensive. My cock is slightly larger than yours in length and girth and no woman has ever told me that. Although about 1/2 of the women I have been with cannot climax from penetration alone. Also, at least 1/2 of the women I have been with cannot take deep thrusts from me because it hurts their cervix. For some, they like the pain and for others, it distracts them from enjoying it.

 

[boc]

That’s the most honest, straightforward dick measurement set up I have ever seen. Should be standard.

My balls are too big to push my cock like that against a table, and that would cause me to get soft quick. Also when I am completely erect a top measurement is impossible because of the angle and curve of my erection. Since penises are not standard, standard measurements don't always work.

 

[dickapick]

That’s the most honest, straightforward dick measurement set up I have ever seen. Should be standard.

A bit beside the topic, but that is probably the risk of adding a picture. That is not a straightforward dick measurement at all. If you measure something the ruler should be directly with the object to measure.

A cm on the tape is approximately 1.3 as big as on the ruler so 19.4 would be ~ 15 cm.

And in honesty, I think it is this sense of insecurity that got the better of the girl. This is certainly not a size to be ashamed of. And as mentioned before, not all girls come from penetration only.

 

[carzojorde]

A bit beside the topic, but that is probably the risk of adding a picture. That is not a straightforward dick measurement at all. If you measure something the ruler should be directly with the object to measure.

A cm on the tape is approximately 1.3 as big as on the ruler so 19.4 would be ~ 15 cm.

And in honesty, I think it is this sense of insecurity that got the better of the girl. This is certainly not a size to be ashamed of. And as mentioned before, not all girls come from penetration only.

@dickapick I don't know what you are talking about so did the test

 

[dickapick]

@dickapick I don't know what you are talking about so did the test
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Great to see you understand the concept!

 

[carzojorde]

Great to see you understand the concept!

?
so what's the problem with measurement if:
a) tape and ruler are the same,
b) the ruler lies on the same 2D surface as the dick,
c) photo taken from above the 2D surface,
how "19.4 would be ~ 15 cm"? how did you calculate that?