I don't worry about showing, it is just natural and if someone looks it is ok with me. Close as I come is wearing loose slacks which for me feels better. I also freeball often which lets things find their comfort position.On occasion, I have worn clothes that make it difficult to cross my legs to hide a bulge. I do keep my legs together when I sit, and, try to have something handy with which to cover it also, if not at a table.