Question For Small To Average Endowed Straight Guys

[VIIby5]

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In short the ignorance of not knowing I was on shorter side in my youth was a blessing. My first gf asked once, I wonder how big dicks get?. I think now a days she would have know right away, I was on short side.

It finally caught up to me in my 30's as Internet porn and just the fact dating women with higher body counts, it became very clear I was one of shortest dicks they all had.
Now older, I turned it into a kink and not as big of deal. I feel for the younger guys though. I see a lot of posts by young guys very hung up on this issue, to point of preventing them from dating women.

If you weren't playing games with your measuring you are easily 6+ bone pressed with what appears to be what 6" of girth? Thats small? Lol .My dick pales in comparison and undoubtedly most women would prefer yours over my pencil dick.

Almost every "small" dick at this place ends up being bigger than me yet im supposed to believe those horse shit studies...

 

[trm2b]

One of the smaller sized guys who appreciates what I have by sending me an email made me think about this. When I was growing up other than a porn magazine, or things like Penhouse Forum fantasy stories about how a big dick felt crazy better to some woman there really was minimal exposure to questions about size. Yes, there were locker rooms but you saw guys soft and women probably did not see naked men at all in general. So, knowing how you stacked up really didn't exist and that was true for men but especially the women that would see them naked. That has all changed with the internet exposure; well even television and movies are showing more and more male nudity. Women today will have seen very big penises even by accident on the internet with all the spam and more.

So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now that women can easily see the size of some guys in everyday situations does that intimidate you? It would be rare even to go to a locker room setting and not realize that in today's age everyone knows what big and small is out there. Do you hesitate to get naked in those setting as well? Are you now embarrased to be seen naked, and what about when you are with a woman, does it worry you that she may have had several larger men before or even know by looking now when they see you naked they will know you are just average or smal below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.

Average sized here. On a recent overseas trip, I was in a few scenarios (locker room / sauna kinds of things) where I was nude around other men. It didn’t embarrass me, and I wouldn’t have any issues with same gender situations like that, even with noticeable size differences among men.

As far as women, I am probably a little more self-conscious. I’m a bit nerdy and reserved, but my wife liked to party. She has had sex with men significantly more well-endowed than I am, so it’s tough not to think about that, at least a little. I recently had the courage to ask where I fell in the whole spectrum of her experience, and she said slightly below average, for her. I felt a little bad at first but appreciated the honesty. Interestingly, I get very turned on by the idea of my wife pleasing a large penis (and she knows it), so who knows where that might lead.

 

[dreamer20]

When I was younger other than porn mags. e.g. Penthouse stories of big dick feeling crazy better to some woman, exposure to such was minimal. Locker room = only seeing men soft & women probably didn't see naked men in general. So, knowing how you stacked up really didn't exist for men and moreso women. That all changed with internet exposure; even television and movies showing more and male nudity. Women today will have seen very big penises even by accident on the internet with all the spam and more.

So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now women can easily see the size of guys does that intimidate you? Do you hesitate to get naked in communal settings? Are you now embarrassed to be seen naked, and when you are with a woman, does it worry you she may have had several larger men before or know by looking you are just average or small below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.

Note: Erotica - written and visual erotic depictions of sex acts and large phalluses existed for thousands of years. The invention of printing press made erotica commonplace - causing contemporaneous, anti-erotica prudes to invent the term "pornography" and disparage its existence. Pre- and post-internet sexually promiscuous women, and sex workers, would have seen a variety of penis shapes and sizes too.
Re: the Op: In the gym shower area I did indeed see how I stacked up against other men. Yes, men larger than me existed, but their existence caused me no embarrassment with regard to me being naked. By being a member of MR, and lpsg, the internet has actually revealed not all women are size queens - which is a good thing. Let those size queens seek whatever it is they desire elsewhere and not with me. That's their issue- not mine.

 

[FrankieGuile]

One of the smaller sized guys who appreciates what I have by sending me an email made me think about this. When I was growing up other than a porn magazine, or things like Penhouse Forum fantasy stories about how a big dick felt crazy better to some woman there really was minimal exposure to questions about size. Yes, there were locker rooms but you saw guys soft and women probably did not see naked men at all in general. So, knowing how you stacked up really didn't exist and that was true for men but especially the women that would see them naked. That has all changed with the internet exposure; well even television and movies are showing more and more male nudity. Women today will have seen very big penises even by accident on the internet with all the spam and more.

So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now that women can easily see the size of some guys in everyday situations does that intimidate you? It would be rare even to go to a locker room setting and not realize that in today's age everyone knows what big and small is out there. Do you hesitate to get naked in those setting as well? Are you now embarrased to be seen naked, and what about when you are with a woman, does it worry you that she may have had several larger men before or even know by looking now when they see you naked they will know you are just average or smal below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.

If women don't care -- and they don't -- why should a man care? If a man wants to enjoy a satisfying sexual relationships with women, he needs to present more, and different, attributes.

 

[amazzzed2]

Average sized here. On a recent overseas trip, I was in a few scenarios (locker room / sauna kinds of things) where I was nude around other men. It didn’t embarrass me, and I wouldn’t have any issues with same gender situations like that, even with noticeable size differences among men.

As far as women, I am probably a little more self-conscious. I’m a bit nerdy and reserved, but my wife liked to party. She has had sex with men significantly more well-endowed than I am, so it’s tough not to think about that, at least a little. I recently had the courage to ask where I fell in the whole spectrum of her experience, and she said slightly below average, for her. I felt a little bad at first but appreciated the honesty. Interestingly, I get very turned on by the idea of my wife pleasing a large penis (and she knows it), so who knows where that might lead.

Yes, very interesting!

 

[Tiptree]

Yes, though, intimidated is not the word I would use. I am old so this was almost pre-internet days. when young I knew it was not big (average but over 6feet tall w/larger balls and 5x grower presents comically small) and was afraid of humiliation; so I avoided dating and was envious of those locker room guys who flaunted while I wrapped in a towel. Looking back, though, I have no real regrets. Life focusses on other pursuits so it's not a 'big' loss. I think some of the other replies fall in this category. For me, I guess I the drive was more about being able to please someone, and if someone else was better suited, then fine.

 

[trulybig]

If women don't care -- and they don't -- why should a man care? If a man wants to enjoy a satisfying sexual relationships with women, he needs to present more, and different, attributes.

This is bullshit. There are plenty of women who do care. I have known several through my life. One likes only long penises, girth isn't important to her (which I think is opposite of other women) but she wants it deep. In fact, I know several women that only orgasm from a longer penis that can easily reach the back of their vagina. Yet, for others that can cause discomfort. There's no one rule. Some guys care about women with big tits others don't care. It's OK that some women appreciate and enjoy or prefer a large penis. It can be attached to a decent guy too.

 

[Sexy123789]

One of the smaller sized guys who appreciates what I have by sending me an email made me think about this. When I was growing up other than a porn magazine, or things like Penhouse Forum fantasy stories about how a big dick felt crazy better to some woman there really was minimal exposure to questions about size. Yes, there were locker rooms but you saw guys soft and women probably did not see naked men at all in general. So, knowing how you stacked up really didn't exist and that was true for men but especially the women that would see them naked. That has all changed with the internet exposure; well even television and movies are showing more and more male nudity. Women today will have seen very big penises even by accident on the internet with all the spam and more.

So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now that women can easily see the size of some guys in everyday situations does that intimidate you? It would be rare even to go to a locker room setting and not realize that in today's age everyone knows what big and small is out there. Do you hesitate to get naked in those setting as well? Are you now embarrased to be seen naked, and what about when you are with a woman, does it worry you that she may have had several larger men before or even know by looking now when they see you naked they will know you are just average or smal below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.

I am a gay guy. I tend to be cautious not because I am ashamed (average cock, massive balls) but because society has made everything around male nudity so wierd and sensitive, last thing I want is to be accused of being some pervert at the gym. And with a Y, the various ages…I am not even gonna go there. Safety in being prudent.

As hot as locker room fantasies are you really need a “gay” gym to be free. Though some clubs are so trashy and out-of-control, it feels like a locker room, especially if you use a urinal.

 

[Sexy123789]

For the straights. I think finding an adults-only facility and hitting a time were the general population is older, that is where it would be safe to be free .

 

[amazzzed2]

This is bullshit. There are plenty of women who do care. I have known several through my life. One likes only long penises, girth isn't important to her (which I think is opposite of other women) but she wants it deep. In fact, I know several women that only orgasm from a longer penis that can easily reach the back of their vagina. Yet, for others that can cause discomfort. There's no one rule. Some guys care about women with big tits others don't care. It's OK that some women appreciate and enjoy or prefer a large penis. It can be attached to a decent guy too.

Well said! Absolutely agree.
I have a small penis, but know that to be true.

 

[FrankieGuile]

This is bullshit. There are plenty of women who do care. I have known several through my life. One likes only long penises, girth isn't important to her (which I think is opposite of other women) but she wants it deep. In fact, I know several women that only orgasm from a longer penis that can easily reach the back of their vagina. Yet, for others that can cause discomfort. There's no one rule. Some guys care about women with big tits others don't care. It's OK that some women appreciate and enjoy or prefer a large penis. It can be attached to a decent guy too.

A rhetorical device designed to dodge a general truth at odds with one's fantasy is to cite specific, contrary, examples -- in this case, ones that cannot be verified. It is no matter. Any man who has been paying attention and listening to women in general -- among these pages, in social media, in literature, in their life experience and from many, many other sources -- will concede the notion that women, in general (if saying it a second time makes you feel better) do not care about the size of a man's penis when making a romantic selection, but care very much about other, non-physical attributes. Men might blame their lack of success with women on the size of their junk, but they would do well to embrace and improve the junk of their character to attract a great woman.

 

[mako shark]

I have said this many times over the years on various LPSG thread... Many women like the "novelty of trying or experiencing" a larger penis but it is EXTREMELY rare to find one that wants to deal with it on a daily basis. I know that this thread is aimed at below and average guys but I felt like there needs to be input from a much "larger" guy.