Hey gents, I'm new to the forum and am interested in hearing your thoughts and suggestions on how I might be able to better read and see if a hot Indian stud from my gym would be down for some play. I've been chatting it up with him since September '18, and have been trying to read and feel him out, literally and figuratively. (Apologies in advance for the long post!)
Some quick facts: We're both in the gym 5x per week and are both very nicely fit. I'm black and 4 years older than him, but we're both under 30. He has the best sculpted chest, torso, and "V" I've ever seen in person. I'm 7.5" and he looks to be about the same or just slightly bigger.
We give each other a cordial wave or say hello in passing while on the floor working out, but really get to chatting it up while in the sauna if he's not with his friends (which is about 2-3x per week). He used to wear leggings in the sauna, but since I go completely nude, he started doing the same. We only talk about general/trivial stuff, but I catch his eyes checking me out quite often. He'll (presumably) look at my abs while we're sitting, but lower his gaze to check out my goods when I stand up to leave. The tricky part for me is, since it's a gym, I think there is a fine line between cruising someone and just simply admiring their body or comparing with your own.
We shower diagonally across from each other, always with the curtain open. I will drop my eyes to the floor when we are turned facing each other, so I'm unsure if he checks me out when I'm turned in his direction. I definitely check out his ass when he turns back around towards the shower head. On occasion, we leave and towel off at the same time and chat it up a little before we go in our separate ways. He is uncut and whenever he has his foreskin retracted, he has a noticeable semi. I hear it's easy for uncut guys to get aroused when cleaning the foreskin, so I don't think twice about that (especially as he's always completely limp when he has his foreskin pulled over his glans).
In my wildest dream, I would love to bed him, do oral, or jack, but to be honest, I don't know what I "want" from him in reality. I think simply working up the courage to tell him he has a hot body would suffice for me. He's a self-professed frat guy from the west coast, so I'm sure he's done his fair share of "questionable" stuff in the very recent past. The biggest barrier for me is the fact that I literally see him 5x per week, and he is often there with friends, so I don't want to make it awkward/uncomfortable being around each other anymore. I'll be moving away in about 2 months' time and will probably never see him again, so it's coming down to the wire. But if he is not receptive, I wouldn't want it to be his defining memory of me. Make sense?
He shaves his pubes (as do I on occasion) so I was thinking about asking something cheesy like what products he uses, or what he does to get his "V" so defined.
What do you guys suggest?
Some quick facts: We're both in the gym 5x per week and are both very nicely fit. I'm black and 4 years older than him, but we're both under 30. He has the best sculpted chest, torso, and "V" I've ever seen in person. I'm 7.5" and he looks to be about the same or just slightly bigger.
We give each other a cordial wave or say hello in passing while on the floor working out, but really get to chatting it up while in the sauna if he's not with his friends (which is about 2-3x per week). He used to wear leggings in the sauna, but since I go completely nude, he started doing the same. We only talk about general/trivial stuff, but I catch his eyes checking me out quite often. He'll (presumably) look at my abs while we're sitting, but lower his gaze to check out my goods when I stand up to leave. The tricky part for me is, since it's a gym, I think there is a fine line between cruising someone and just simply admiring their body or comparing with your own.
We shower diagonally across from each other, always with the curtain open. I will drop my eyes to the floor when we are turned facing each other, so I'm unsure if he checks me out when I'm turned in his direction. I definitely check out his ass when he turns back around towards the shower head. On occasion, we leave and towel off at the same time and chat it up a little before we go in our separate ways. He is uncut and whenever he has his foreskin retracted, he has a noticeable semi. I hear it's easy for uncut guys to get aroused when cleaning the foreskin, so I don't think twice about that (especially as he's always completely limp when he has his foreskin pulled over his glans).
In my wildest dream, I would love to bed him, do oral, or jack, but to be honest, I don't know what I "want" from him in reality. I think simply working up the courage to tell him he has a hot body would suffice for me. He's a self-professed frat guy from the west coast, so I'm sure he's done his fair share of "questionable" stuff in the very recent past. The biggest barrier for me is the fact that I literally see him 5x per week, and he is often there with friends, so I don't want to make it awkward/uncomfortable being around each other anymore. I'll be moving away in about 2 months' time and will probably never see him again, so it's coming down to the wire. But if he is not receptive, I wouldn't want it to be his defining memory of me. Make sense?
He shaves his pubes (as do I on occasion) so I was thinking about asking something cheesy like what products he uses, or what he does to get his "V" so defined.
What do you guys suggest?
