@brick314:
Believe me, I'm all for relaxing boundaries for sexual orientation. I think when you throw money into the equation, that it sets individuals up for a lot more mental confusion. I know that "I'm doing it for the money" is probably a common justification, and considering how well one might do for an hourly wage, the offers sound enticing probably. (Never mind the rest of getting caught, exposed, and having to deal with people off-camera in real life afterward, right?)
But at some point, you gotta wonder like the rest of us just how much he is into it, not just because of the money, but rather because he actually enjoys what he is doing. I don't think every gay guy equally enjoys some ejaculating into their mouths; some like it very swell and some aren't just into it. Okay.
I wouldn't call Rhett gay right now. Since he's obviously not in the class of self-identified gay young men who were aware of it well before the age of majority, I just think you have a guy who likes getting a lot of money for doing "a little work" with a few of his friends. I also think you have a young man who understands that he can exploit his dick for some personal gain. It's like being known as the big-dick-guy, just with someone financially backing you.
Magnified all the more by the unfolding of someone's identity and sexuality on the Internet. I suppose if Rhett did his own explorations under the cover, then maybe the process wouldn't be so startling. When you mix in money and Internet celebrity though, there's just a lot more heat to consider.
Personally, I'm like the audience members who wonder how these guys go back to their regular lives and handle the pressure, or somehow try to "move on" from these jobs.