So a man married to a woman with kids can be 100% gay. A man who was financially influenced to masturbate near some other men and touch their dicks must be at least bi. Not every person in the world is gay. People are statistically more likely to not be gay. You just presented a crystal clear double standard. If a man has sex with a woman his sexuality can be anything. But if a man has sex with a man, regardless of circumstances, he must be attracted to men. People can force themselves to have sex and take Viagra. But I would say if you hate the experience of being with a man, need drugs to do it, and only do it when coerced then that's probably a lot of evidence that you're not gay!