That is a very narrow way of understanding sexuality imo. Yes, a lot of gay people can come as effeminate on some degree, but correlation does not imply causation. Seeing two variables moving together does not necessarily mean we know whether one variable causes the other to occur. Truth is we will not know whether he likes the D or not anytime soon. The rest is just judging his lack of masculinity or how well he fits in the patriarchy-stablished standard of “straight man” we have.
What is this obsession with gay men having to know if another man that they are infatuated with is also gay or not?
it should not matter at all. Please just stop. It’s like in the gay world. We want to be treated like anyone else; we want to just be accepted but yet we can’t accept whether or not someone else is who they are regardless if they’re straight or not. Just knock it off
It’s like what are you gonna do if you find out they are actually gay? Try to hook up with him and they’re gonna come running to you and you’re gonna live a life together forever? Or not but just fuck. Good luck! But seriously get real.
I mean it’s more fun to think of them as just a beautiful person that chooses to share their intimate photos for the world to enjoy and can we just leave it at that?
no!!!! We have to know if he’s gay or not and criticize his masculinity contrasted by effeminate behavior. Hmmm. How about everyone wanting to know share a video of yourselves talking and lifting weights and we’ll critique everything and berate the parts we don’t like? How bout we do that? The point isn’t actually doing it. It’s a metaphor.
Besides, look at all the straight celebrities that are sharing cock pictures and outlines and everything; and we know they’re straight but it doesn’t matter to me. I still get off on them. So who cares if this guy is straight or gay big deal. It shouldn’t change your perspective, one way or the other just admire the beauty, jack off, and go back to your tv or video game or book or whatever.
this desire to know has been around for decades, and it just needs to stop. It’s just so outdated.
“Hey girl, is he gay or straight? Girl, I will make him gay.”
it’s fun when we’re kidding but this is like an awful unhealthy case of an obsessive inherent desire to know.
Think about how unattractive that looks.