Sauna/ steam room/ shower j/o

Why do so many guys assume that a sauna or steam room is the place to make sexual contact? You don't need to be straight to still want a facility that believes in safeguarding its initial function.
Sauna's and steam rooms are "easy places" for this sexual inter-action. Everyone is nude and there is often reasonable "privacy" for these forms of sexual activities to take place. I would venture to say that unless you go looking for it, you have never observed a man jerking off, or two men having sex at your gym shower, sauna, or steam room. Straight or not, you are still able to use the facility for its "initial function" without having anything to do with any sexual activities that may be taking place. These activities take place among consenting adults, 99% of the time where they are the only ones seeing or knowing it is taking place....so what's the harm? Just my opinion. I don't mean to be disrespectful or a smart ass.
 
It was a rainy day on the cruise ship and after a romp with the wife, I decided to go to the sauna. I go up to the spa. Strip down to a towel and head back to the sauna. After a few minutes of relaxing another guy pops his head in and decides to join me. He goes and strips down and returns with a towel. After some small talk we realized that we had shared the steam room earlier that morning.

Out of the corner of my eye I can tell he is sporting an erection under his towel. It was pointing straight up toward the ceiling. He was touching himself through the towel. I started casually doing the same. I wondered if he might be thinking the same as I was thinking. I had never experienced anything like this before. With very little steam in the sauna there wasn't much cover. He stands up from the bench and said he was going back to the steam room.

I said "I was just thinking the same thing." I sat there for a minute so it didn't look like we went together.

When I opened the door to the steam room, I was surprised to see another man in there as well. He sat naked only covering his cock with his towel. This edged both of us to be allot looser with our towels. After a few minutes the naked man stood up, wrapped himself and left.

At this point, my sauna friend removed his towel and sat naked with a stanch erection. He was around 5" or 6" long with plenty of girth . I am a little over 7" myself and pretty thick with an erection.We both had one foot up on the bench and were really starting to sweat. I remember sweat dripping from my fingertips as I rested my wrist on my knee. I notice that he is slipping in strokes quite often.

I open my towel and expose myself. He wets the tip of his fingers and transfers the saliva to his penis. Now he is actively stroking .

I told him that he didn't have to hide it and if felt good, do it. He lowered his foot from the bench now giving me a full view. I lowered mine doing the same.

He ask if I was married and I told him I was.

I ask him the same question and he replied with the same answer.

I said "That doesn't mean I don't jack off."

He said "Or more." I said "Maybe."

We sat stroking watching each other. He ask me "Need some help with that?"

I replied "Sure." He slid closer and began stroking my cock and massaging my balls.He was mumbling something as he did but I couldn't really hear him. Steam rooms can be quite noisy.

Then he ask me if he could taste it . I told him "Sure."

He laid down on the bench as I was leaning back in the corner and tells me to watch the door. He takes my cock in his mouth and starts to go to town while massaging my balls.

I am watching the door but enjoying the attention he is giving my dick. I am pretty sure this wasn't his first time judging by skill level that he was demonstrating.

He encircled my cock around the base with his fingers. He twist the base swirling his tongue all over my penis. My cock was not fully erect as I had just had sex with my wife an hour earlier. It still felt awesome and allowed him to take the entire member in his mouth;

It is really starting to feel good when I see the down open! I tap him and sits up quickly and I drape my towel over my cock. Not sure if it was the thrill of almost getting caught , and by the way... and I have a feeling that we did or if it was the sweet blowjob, but my cock explodes as quick as I drape the towel over me. Remember I had just had sex with my wife not an hour earlier. I am not sure if he even knew I came.

At this point, we thought the guy was coming back but he never did. That is why I think he saw us. He actually draped his towel around him and went out to look.

When he returned he put his towel in front of him and starts to jack off quickly. His fat cock swells under his grip. I too am stroking mine even after cumming twice in an hour and a half!

I question now why I did not touch him or maybe take him in my mouth. I think I was just in awe of the moment...dazed even. It just all seemed so surreal. I am no stranger to anal play but only with Aneros or similar devices. I have experienced prostate orgasms therefore if I were gay, I would be the bottom. Since this new discovery, my curiosity has certainly been aroused.

By this point he is on his knees facing me furiously jerking his cock. His body is tense and his breathing is heavy. He whispers "I am going to cum!" as four or five ropes shoot from his swollen member into the towel!

He covers himself up, looks at me and said "Are you good?"

I nod yes. He wraps himself in his cum splattered towel and heads to the showers.

I sat there for a minute thinking what the fuck just happened. After a few, I head to showers as well . I meet him the hall and he tells me it's all clear.

We shower, get dressed and leave. All of a sudden I realize we don't even know each other's name. I did not see him the rest of the cruise.

We returned from the cruise the next day. I jacked myself off seven times that afternoon and evening reliving the event. Three of which were when I was writing this...
 
It was a rainy day on the cruise ship and after a romp with the wife, I decided to go to the sauna. I go up to the spa. Strip down to a towel and head back to the sauna. After a few minutes of relaxing another guy pops his head in and decides to join me. He goes and strips down and returns with a towel. After some small talk we realized that we had shared the steam room earlier that morning.

Out of the corner of my eye I can tell he is sporting an erection under his towel. It was pointing straight up toward the ceiling. He was touching himself through the towel. I started casually doing the same. I wondered if he might be thinking the same as I was thinking. I had never experienced anything like this before. With very little steam in the sauna there wasn't much cover. He stands up from the bench and said he was going back to the steam room.

I said "I was just thinking the same thing." I sat there for a minute so it didn't look like we went together.

When I opened the door to the steam room, I was surprised to see another man in there as well. He sat naked only covering his cock with his towel. This edged both of us to be allot looser with our towels. After a few minutes the naked man stood up, wrapped himself and left.

At this point, my sauna friend removed his towel and sat naked with a stanch erection. He was around 5" or 6" long with plenty of girth . I am a little over 7" myself and pretty thick with an erection.We both had one foot up on the bench and were really starting to sweat. I remember sweat dripping from my fingertips as I rested my wrist on my knee. I notice that he is slipping in strokes quite often.

I open my towel and expose myself. He wets the tip of his fingers and transfers the saliva to his penis. Now he is actively stroking .

I told him that he didn't have to hide it and if felt good, do it. He lowered his foot from the bench now giving me a full view. I lowered mine doing the same.

He ask if I was married and I told him I was.

I ask him the same question and he replied with the same answer.

I said "That doesn't mean I don't jack off."

He said "Or more." I said "Maybe."

We sat stroking watching each other. He ask me "Need some help with that?"

I replied "Sure." He slid closer and began stroking my cock and massaging my balls.He was mumbling something as he did but I couldn't really hear him. Steam rooms can be quite noisy.

Then he ask me if he could taste it . I told him "Sure."

He laid down on the bench as I was leaning back in the corner and tells me to watch the door. He takes my cock in his mouth and starts to go to town while massaging my balls.

I am watching the door but enjoying the attention he is giving my dick. I am pretty sure this wasn't his first time judging by skill level that he was demonstrating.

He encircled my cock around the base with his fingers. He twist the base swirling his tongue all over my penis. My cock was not fully erect as I had just had sex with my wife an hour earlier. It still felt awesome and allowed him to take the entire member in his mouth;

It is really starting to feel good when I see the down open! I tap him and sits up quickly and I drape my towel over my cock. Not sure if it was the thrill of almost getting caught , and by the way... and I have a feeling that we did or if it was the sweet blowjob, but my cock explodes as quick as I drape the towel over me. Remember I had just had sex with my wife not an hour earlier. I am not sure if he even knew I came.

At this point, we thought the guy was coming back but he never did. That is why I think he saw us. He actually draped his towel around him and went out to look.

When he returned he put his towel in front of him and starts to jack off quickly. His fat cock swells under his grip. I too am stroking mine even after cumming twice in an hour and a half!

I question now why I did not touch him or maybe take him in my mouth. I think I was just in awe of the moment...dazed even. It just all seemed so surreal. I am no stranger to anal play but only with Aneros or similar devices. I have experienced prostate orgasms therefore if I were gay, I would be the bottom. Since this new discovery, my curiosity has certainly been aroused.

By this point he is on his knees facing me furiously jerking his cock. His body is tense and his breathing is heavy. He whispers "I am going to cum!" as four or five ropes shoot from his swollen member into the towel!

He covers himself up, looks at me and said "Are you good?"

I nod yes. He wraps himself in his cum splattered towel and heads to the showers.

I sat there for a minute thinking what the fuck just happened. After a few, I head to showers as well . I meet him the hall and he tells me it's all clear.

We shower, get dressed and leave. All of a sudden I realize we don't even know each other's name. I did not see him the rest of the cruise.

We returned from the cruise the next day. I jacked myself off seven times that afternoon and evening reliving the event. Three of which were when I was writing this...
This is so hot dude!!
 
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It was a rainy day on the cruise ship and after a romp with the wife, I decided to go to the sauna. I go up to the spa. Strip down to a towel and head back to the sauna. After a few minutes of relaxing another guy pops his head in and decides to join me. He goes and strips down and returns with a towel. After some small talk we realized that we had shared the steam room earlier that morning.

Out of the corner of my eye I can tell he is sporting an erection under his towel. It was pointing straight up toward the ceiling. He was touching himself through the towel. I started casually doing the same. I wondered if he might be thinking the same as I was thinking. I had never experienced anything like this before. With very little steam in the sauna there wasn't much cover. He stands up from the bench and said he was going back to the steam room.

I said "I was just thinking the same thing." I sat there for a minute so it didn't look like we went together.

When I opened the door to the steam room, I was surprised to see another man in there as well. He sat naked only covering his cock with his towel. This edged both of us to be allot looser with our towels. After a few minutes the naked man stood up, wrapped himself and left.

At this point, my sauna friend removed his towel and sat naked with a stanch erection. He was around 5" or 6" long with plenty of girth . I am a little over 7" myself and pretty thick with an erection.We both had one foot up on the bench and were really starting to sweat. I remember sweat dripping from my fingertips as I rested my wrist on my knee. I notice that he is slipping in strokes quite often.

I open my towel and expose myself. He wets the tip of his fingers and transfers the saliva to his penis. Now he is actively stroking .

I told him that he didn't have to hide it and if felt good, do it. He lowered his foot from the bench now giving me a full view. I lowered mine doing the same.

He ask if I was married and I told him I was.

I ask him the same question and he replied with the same answer.

I said "That doesn't mean I don't jack off."

He said "Or more." I said "Maybe."

We sat stroking watching each other. He ask me "Need some help with that?"

I replied "Sure." He slid closer and began stroking my cock and massaging my balls.He was mumbling something as he did but I couldn't really hear him. Steam rooms can be quite noisy.

Then he ask me if he could taste it . I told him "Sure."

He laid down on the bench as I was leaning back in the corner and tells me to watch the door. He takes my cock in his mouth and starts to go to town while massaging my balls.

I am watching the door but enjoying the attention he is giving my dick. I am pretty sure this wasn't his first time judging by skill level that he was demonstrating.

He encircled my cock around the base with his fingers. He twist the base swirling his tongue all over my penis. My cock was not fully erect as I had just had sex with my wife an hour earlier. It still felt awesome and allowed him to take the entire member in his mouth;

It is really starting to feel good when I see the down open! I tap him and sits up quickly and I drape my towel over my cock. Not sure if it was the thrill of almost getting caught , and by the way... and I have a feeling that we did or if it was the sweet blowjob, but my cock explodes as quick as I drape the towel over me. Remember I had just had sex with my wife not an hour earlier. I am not sure if he even knew I came.

At this point, we thought the guy was coming back but he never did. That is why I think he saw us. He actually draped his towel around him and went out to look.

When he returned he put his towel in front of him and starts to jack off quickly. His fat cock swells under his grip. I too am stroking mine even after cumming twice in an hour and a half!

I question now why I did not touch him or maybe take him in my mouth. I think I was just in awe of the moment...dazed even. It just all seemed so surreal. I am no stranger to anal play but only with Aneros or similar devices. I have experienced prostate orgasms therefore if I were gay, I would be the bottom. Since this new discovery, my curiosity has certainly been aroused.

By this point he is on his knees facing me furiously jerking his cock. His body is tense and his breathing is heavy. He whispers "I am going to cum!" as four or five ropes shoot from his swollen member into the towel!

He covers himself up, looks at me and said "Are you good?"

I nod yes. He wraps himself in his cum splattered towel and heads to the showers.

I sat there for a minute thinking what the fuck just happened. After a few, I head to showers as well . I meet him the hall and he tells me it's all clear.

We shower, get dressed and leave. All of a sudden I realize we don't even know each other's name. I did not see him the rest of the cruise.

We returned from the cruise the next day. I jacked myself off seven times that afternoon and evening reliving the event. Three of which were when I was writing this...

Very hot!! I had a similar experience on a cruise ship too. I'll write about it another time.
 
It was a rainy day on the cruise ship and after a romp with the wife, I decided to go to the sauna. I go up to the spa. Strip down to a towel and head back to the sauna. After a few minutes of relaxing another guy pops his head in and decides to join me. He goes and strips down and returns with a towel. After some small talk we realized that we had shared the steam room earlier that morning.

Out of the corner of my eye I can tell he is sporting an erection under his towel. It was pointing straight up toward the ceiling. He was touching himself through the towel. I started casually doing the same. I wondered if he might be thinking the same as I was thinking. I had never experienced anything like this before. With very little steam in the sauna there wasn't much cover. He stands up from the bench and said he was going back to the steam room.

I said "I was just thinking the same thing." I sat there for a minute so it didn't look like we went together.

When I opened the door to the steam room, I was surprised to see another man in there as well. He sat naked only covering his cock with his towel. This edged both of us to be allot looser with our towels. After a few minutes the naked man stood up, wrapped himself and left.

At this point, my sauna friend removed his towel and sat naked with a stanch erection. He was around 5" or 6" long with plenty of girth . I am a little over 7" myself and pretty thick with an erection.We both had one foot up on the bench and were really starting to sweat. I remember sweat dripping from my fingertips as I rested my wrist on my knee. I notice that he is slipping in strokes quite often.

I open my towel and expose myself. He wets the tip of his fingers and transfers the saliva to his penis. Now he is actively stroking .

I told him that he didn't have to hide it and if felt good, do it. He lowered his foot from the bench now giving me a full view. I lowered mine doing the same.

He ask if I was married and I told him I was.

I ask him the same question and he replied with the same answer.

I said "That doesn't mean I don't jack off."

He said "Or more." I said "Maybe."

We sat stroking watching each other. He ask me "Need some help with that?"

I replied "Sure." He slid closer and began stroking my cock and massaging my balls.He was mumbling something as he did but I couldn't really hear him. Steam rooms can be quite noisy.

Then he ask me if he could taste it . I told him "Sure."

He laid down on the bench as I was leaning back in the corner and tells me to watch the door. He takes my cock in his mouth and starts to go to town while massaging my balls.

I am watching the door but enjoying the attention he is giving my dick. I am pretty sure this wasn't his first time judging by skill level that he was demonstrating.

He encircled my cock around the base with his fingers. He twist the base swirling his tongue all over my penis. My cock was not fully erect as I had just had sex with my wife an hour earlier. It still felt awesome and allowed him to take the entire member in his mouth;

It is really starting to feel good when I see the down open! I tap him and sits up quickly and I drape my towel over my cock. Not sure if it was the thrill of almost getting caught , and by the way... and I have a feeling that we did or if it was the sweet blowjob, but my cock explodes as quick as I drape the towel over me. Remember I had just had sex with my wife not an hour earlier. I am not sure if he even knew I came.

At this point, we thought the guy was coming back but he never did. That is why I think he saw us. He actually draped his towel around him and went out to look.

When he returned he put his towel in front of him and starts to jack off quickly. His fat cock swells under his grip. I too am stroking mine even after cumming twice in an hour and a half!

I question now why I did not touch him or maybe take him in my mouth. I think I was just in awe of the moment...dazed even. It just all seemed so surreal. I am no stranger to anal play but only with Aneros or similar devices. I have experienced prostate orgasms therefore if I were gay, I would be the bottom. Since this new discovery, my curiosity has certainly been aroused.

By this point he is on his knees facing me furiously jerking his cock. His body is tense and his breathing is heavy. He whispers "I am going to cum!" as four or five ropes shoot from his swollen member into the towel!

He covers himself up, looks at me and said "Are you good?"

I nod yes. He wraps himself in his cum splattered towel and heads to the showers.

I sat there for a minute thinking what the fuck just happened. After a few, I head to showers as well . I meet him the hall and he tells me it's all clear.

We shower, get dressed and leave. All of a sudden I realize we don't even know each other's name. I did not see him the rest of the cruise.

We returned from the cruise the next day. I jacked myself off seven times that afternoon and evening reliving the event. Three of which were when I was writing this...

Did you tell the wife?
 
I regret missing an opportunity years ago.

In my early 30's I was at a resort in Palm Springs for a conference and stayed an extra day to enjoy the facility before heading home to my wife and two young kids. Booked some time in the spa for a body scrub and a facial, which included access to the gym and the male-only spa pools, sauna and steam room. Before my treatments I had worked out and then showered and jumped between the hot and cold pools to shock my system, ending up in the sauna. I was sitting alone and my towel had loosened and fallen away. I'm no stranger to sweat, and I could feel beads trickling down my cock and the sensation made me plump up a bit.

An slightly older man joined me in the sauna and I leaned forward with my elbows on my knees, lightly wrapping the towel back around my waist. He sat down on the bench next to me (it was a pretty small sauna) and struck up a conversation. He had also been in for the conference and we chatted a bit. Then, he casually leaned back to stretch which caused his towel to fall back, his cut black cock jutting forward. It was not hard but clearly was not completely flaccid. Meanwhile, my towel had loosened slipped again. He commented on how fit I looked and asked what kind of workout I did. We were still facing forward toward the door, and out of the corner of my eye I saw him reach down to scratch his nuts. While he scratched with his ring and pinkie fingers his his index finger fondled the length of his cock, tickling the underside of his thick shiny mushroom head. "It's really working" he said, his cock clearly increasing in size. There was that moment of tension and I felt my cock jump.

At that moment, the spa attendant knocked on the door as it was time for my treatments. We both pulled the towels up, probably too quickly considering we hadn't done anything and I went off to my facial. I went back to work out again that night just in case I might run into him but never saw him again. Definitely a missed opportunity
 
Visited my Sport and Health in VA last week. Went around 1000am, so pretty empty, before the lunch crowd came in. Wore a clear plastic rubber cock ring into the men-only wet area (showers, sauna, steam room and whirl pool). A younger man followed me into the steam room, where we both sat naked on our towels.......and I knew he was looking for some action. A good looking guy with an average size cut cock. Once I saw him casually touch his cock and balls---slowly...almost stroking himself---and I did the same. He then gave himself a couple more strokes....which I did as well......and very soon we were both rock hard and just openly stroking our cocks. We both laughed.....and I told him how good it felt to be back in the steam room.....

He then came over and sat next to me so we could stroke each other......and we were both soon moaning openly....his cock and balls felt so good in my hands....after a short time, maybe 10 minutes, I was aching to cum.......so he finished me off......I returned the favor, and he came shortly after that.........

Just another fun time in the sauna.......an experience I had missed during all the months of isolation due to COVID.....
 
Just got back from montage in palmetto bluff. Awesome hotel . So I thought I would try the spa out looking for massage but they also had sauna steam and then a hot tub with cold plunge pool. Once I was finished with massage I went in lockeroom to drop some stuff off.. another good looking dude was just checking in. So I went to the sauna and eventually saw he went into steam. matter maybe 20 ish minutes he came out of steam and was walking around and then got some water and I went into steam room and he proceeded to go into sauna. Felt as though he was avoiding me I don’t know. But anytime I went into sauna or steam I made sure my cock was hanging out some so anyone could see.

So I continue into plunge pool naked to make sure he can see me disrobe from steam room and nothing . I come out of plunge and then he proceeded to plunge pool. Kinda annoying not to mention he went in with bathing suit. Just was looking for some bro time
 
Just got back from montage in palmetto bluff. Awesome hotel . So I thought I would try the spa out looking for massage but they also had sauna steam and then a hot tub with cold plunge pool. Once I was finished with massage I went in lockeroom to drop some stuff off.. another good looking dude was just checking in. So I went to the sauna and eventually saw he went into steam. matter maybe 20 ish minutes he came out of steam and was walking around and then got some water and I went into steam room and he proceeded to go into sauna. Felt as though he was avoiding me I don’t know. But anytime I went into sauna or steam I made sure my cock was hanging out some so anyone could see.

So I continue into plunge pool naked to make sure he can see me disrobe from steam room and nothing . I come out of plunge and then he proceeded to plunge pool. Kinda annoying not to mention he went in with bathing suit. Just was looking for some bro time
That's called a clue.
 
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I have read multiple stories on here that guys just causally jerk off at the gym in these places with someone else, but how?! How does it start?! Who initiate it?! I get confused with you guys stories because you guys leave that pivtol part out. I wonder if these stories are true. If you have jerked off with someone else or multiple people at these places, what was the beginning process? I'm trying to find my jerk off buddy! Also, I feel the area you live in plays a part into, so share that too

Thanks
I'll start to master bate very subtly to see if there is a response.
 
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I'll start to master bate very subtly to see if there is a response.
Exactly. Touch once, adjust your dick a little. Perfectly naturally and unself-consciously. Look up and away. Touch again, a little longer, yes it is getting a bit chubbier. Look up and make eye contact. No reaction, you stop. Reaction? Stroke it again, for longer and less subtly...
 
jacuzzis it happens very easily since no one can see what's under the bubbling water
 
It’s happened twice to me. The second time I was in the steam room with 2 other guys. Nothing was happening, but I could tell one of the guys was fondling himself a bit. I got too hot and left and went to the showers. This guy got in the shower across from me and left his curtain open a bit. So I did the same. We played with ourselves a bit and he tried to get me to go to the handicap shower with him. I declined because I was too scared. I got out to go get dressed and be followed me to my locker and proceeded to openly dry himself in front of me. I do have to say he had a nice cock. After I was done getting dressed, he followed me out of the locker room and tried to spark up a conversation. I was a bit hesitant. When we got to the exterior doors, he asked me if I had finished. I told him no. Then he asked if I would like to. Still being scared, I said no. If this happened again, I would take him up on his offer or finish him off.
 
Men are men. Straight or gay. If there is an opportunity to do it , men will take it. Case in point - a guy got mad at local gym when he saw all the boners. Walked out saying “jesus Christ “ Fast forward a year later I was going to another gym a few miles away. There he is in the sauna towel open, legs spread and cock hard and wedding ring on. Is he gay or questioning? I don’t think so. I just think he is more relaxed and secure in himself and know he can let it hang so to speak