Sauna story naked guy - how to react?

[Freddyjunior145]

So I’m not sure what to do and how to react and I need advice. At the gym there’s a men’s sauna in the men’s lockers, just in front of the showers. So after I finish my workout I was going to the sauna and one of the guys showering left his shower door slightly open so anyone can see a bit in there. I go into the sauna and stay there just to relax and then the guy from the shower comes in with the towel wrapped around his waist but adjusts his towel in front of me, flashing or showing I guess his dick before wrapping his towel again. then when he sat he adjusted his towel to so he’s seating in his towel and covering his junk but like the left keg to upper body area is all exposed so the towel is not fully covering him. He is like a fit daddy/ middle aged type. He then changes his seating position, one knee up so I think you could see into his junk. I didn’t see because I’m too shy and don’t know what to do but I think it opened the view to his cock. When he leaves the sauna he adjusts his towel again showing cock and then wraps his towel, showers and I assume leaves. This was last week. Then today, I was in the sauna and he went into the shower and again left his door slightly open. my eyes were closed but I heard him come into the sauna, he adjusted his towel when seating so all of his leg was exposed and constantly was adjusting his towel. When he left, he once again adjusted his towel by opening up exactly in front of me showing me all of his cock, a big uncut cock btw, and then wrapping himself to hit the showers. I’m not sure if the guy is sending indirect messages or how I should react. I’m too shy I guess. Any advice? Am I misreading it or is he doing it on purpose? he kinda turns me on

 

[JohnGw]

Saunas should always be used naked sitting on a towel for hygiene.
The behaviour of that man is totally unacceptable in a sauna as he ought to simply enter naked, carrying his towel and position it neatly on the bench before sitting on it.
Anybody indulging in the unhygienic practice of wearing lycra in the sauna should also be sitting on a properly placed towel.
Any other behaviour is not good sauna etiquette.

 

[deleted15329811]

Drop your inhibitions and next time open your towel a little and see what happens adjust yourself a little bit! I think you might be on your way to hot sauna story!

 

[coolestguy]

Rewrapping the towels around you when standing up isn't that unusual to me.

 

[Freddyjunior145]

Drop your inhibitions and next time open your towel a little and see what happens adjust yourself a little bit! I think you might be on your way to hot sauna story!

Now there’s a new guy in the sauna. But this one I’m even more unsure of. He’s cute,in his thirties I’d say, toned. He enters the sauna with a towel but in the sauna his towel is short and positions himself in ways that I could often see his dick. Really nice dick, cut thick and pubes trimmed or shaved. i saw his cock a couple of times, especially when he cleaned his sweat with his towel and would expose his cock. He then went to the showers with the towel but then hang his towel and didn’t closed the shower door so I could see him naked in the shower and then he came back into the sauna, same thing as before and after he went back in the shower, this time half or 3/4 open so you could still see him naked there. He had a wedding ring so I’m assuming maybe he’s straight but not sure cause he sure didn’t care that his dick was so visible.

 

[deleted15329811]

Dude married gays wear rings too! Try leaving your towel off or askew, just be coy about it like oh you can see my penis oh well! Give a few tugs and gauge response

 

[Freddyjunior145]

Dude married gays wear rings too! Try leaving your towel off or askew, just be coy about it like oh you can see my penis oh well! Give a few tugs and gauge response

True haha. He seemed very comfortable letting his dick being seen, it’s a really nice dick, just not sure if he’s straight or not haha.

 

[deleted1138933]

Just drop to your knees

 

[Freddyjunior145]

Just drop to your knees

Believe me, I’d love to.

 

[deleted1138933]

Believe me, I’d love to.

So do it

 

[JohnGw]

Saunas should always be used naked sitting on a towel for hygiene.
The behaviour of that man is totally unacceptable in a sauna as he ought to simply enter naked, carrying his towel and position it neatly on the bench before sitting on it.
Anybody indulging in the unhygienic practice of wearing lycra in the sauna should also be sitting on a properly placed towel.
Any other behaviour is not good sauna etiquette.
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I should have included that wrapping a towel round yourself in a sauna is unadvisable as it unhealthily inhibits the natural action of the glands in the skin.

Also, I ought to mention that a sauna is a place for polite socialising and conversation while naked together and not for any sort of sexual activity.

 

[barbunz]

sounds to like he's checking out reactions. maybe next time just nod to him lol
when I get in the sauna, I go in with a towel wrapped around me when I sit I open the towel completely. then when I get up to leave ill rewrap .

 

[william1]

So I’m not sure what to do and how to react and I need advice. At the gym there’s a men’s sauna in the men’s lockers, just in front of the showers. So after I finish my workout I was going to the sauna and one of the guys showering left his shower door slightly open so anyone can see a bit in there. I go into the sauna and stay there just to relax and then the guy from the shower comes in with the towel wrapped around his waist but adjusts his towel in front of me, flashing or showing I guess his dick before wrapping his towel again. then when he sat he adjusted his towel to so he’s seating in his towel and covering his junk but like the left keg to upper body area is all exposed so the towel is not fully covering him. He is like a fit daddy/ middle aged type. He then changes his seating position, one knee up so I think you could see into his junk. I didn’t see because I’m too shy and don’t know what to do but I think it opened the view to his cock. When he leaves the sauna he adjusts his towel again showing cock and then wraps his towel, showers and I assume leaves. This was last week. Then today, I was in the sauna and he went into the shower and again left his door slightly open. my eyes were closed but I heard him come into the sauna, he adjusted his towel when seating so all of his leg was exposed and constantly was adjusting his towel. When he left, he once again adjusted his towel by opening up exactly in front of me showing me all of his cock, a big uncut cock btw, and then wrapping himself to hit the showers. I’m not sure if the guy is sending indirect messages or how I should react. I’m too shy I guess. Any advice? Am I misreading it or is he doing it on purpose? he kinda turns me on

Really sounds like he is trying to sound you out, move your towel about so he can see some of your junk, spread your legs wider open, like most guys he will probably be nervous about going too far too fast, but if does a move after you show your junk, do a bit more, if he keeps following your moves then sounds like he's interested, tug your willy and see what happens !
The second guy might just enjoy showing off his good body, dont be put off my a wedding ring though, so many married men play away these days, and even more so when the wife slows down on giving him a good blow job and tells him to pull my nightie down when you have finished !!

 

[Freddyjunior145]

Really sounds like he is trying to sound you out, move your towel about so he can see some of your junk, spread your legs wider open, like most guys he will probably be nervous about going too far too fast, but if does a move after you show your junk, do a bit more, if he keeps following your moves then sounds like he's interested, tug your willy and see what happens !
The second guy might just enjoy showing off his good body, dont be put off my a wedding ring though, so many married men play away these days, and even more so when the wife slows down on giving him a good blow job and tells him to pull my nightie down when you have finished !!

Yesterday the first guy wanted to go into the sauna. He went into the sthe showers and the sauna was full so went to the showers again and kept showering, then went back to check again and the sauna was still full so unfortunately was not able to see him in.

 

[tyfromtexas]

Saunas should always be used naked sitting on a towel for hygiene.

The behaviour of that man is totally unacceptable in a sauna as he ought to simply enter naked, carrying his towel and position it neatly on the bench before sitting on it.
Anybody indulging in the unhygienic practice of wearing lycra in the sauna should also be sitting on a properly placed towel.
Any other behaviour is not good sauna etiquette.
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what do you mean? like that’s common practice to walk in naked and sit on the towel?

 

[JohnGw]

what do you mean? like that’s common practice to walk in naked and sit on the towel?

That's how I always use saunas. If I can't do that then I don't use them.

 

[tyfromtexas]

That's how I always use saunas. If I can't do that then I don't use them.

hmm interesting. do you see younger guys wearing the towel in the sauna and more older men not wearing one?

 

[JohnGw]

hmm interesting. do you see younger guys wearing the towel in the sauna and more older men not wearing one?

In the saunas which I use everybody is naked, male and female, and treats them the same way I do. I don't use any that don't have these rules.

 

[jockeys124]

Simple just follow him. If he adjusts his towel, adjust yours. If he shifts sitting in the sauna, pause, then shift a little yourself.
Look him in the eye. No courage you say? Find the fucking courage!! This guy is definitely interested in you.

 

[heavymetalxxx]

if he is trying to send you signals, just make eye contact with him and follow him and it will quickly escalate from there