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I just stumbled across this term, and found this blog. It's a really cool perspective from the woman angle of things.
For me, it hit home because of my love of going out alone and reading. I cannot even begin to count the number of men who approach me to talk about what I'm reading. It gets so tiresome, ESPECIALLY when I'm throwing off signals left and right to leave me alone -- I'm reading! And it's particularly irksome because you know, you want to be kind. You want to be polite. It's been ingrained in most of us from the get go. But if we are crossing our arms, shifting, looking away...then someone needs to take a hint class.
Not only that, but I am SO TIRED of the rhetoric that we should be grateful for the attention, because one day we won't get any.
https://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/...pproaching-strange-women-without-being-maced/
For me, it hit home because of my love of going out alone and reading. I cannot even begin to count the number of men who approach me to talk about what I'm reading. It gets so tiresome, ESPECIALLY when I'm throwing off signals left and right to leave me alone -- I'm reading! And it's particularly irksome because you know, you want to be kind. You want to be polite. It's been ingrained in most of us from the get go. But if we are crossing our arms, shifting, looking away...then someone needs to take a hint class.
Not only that, but I am SO TIRED of the rhetoric that we should be grateful for the attention, because one day we won't get any.
https://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/...pproaching-strange-women-without-being-maced/
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