"Does it look straight? No." I'm pretty sure that wasn't about the mats. He knew exactly what he was doing. This was posted after he came out as bi.
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where’s that quote from? Haha hoping a new man helps him take his mind off his ex
The quote is in the video.where’s that quote from? Haha hoping a new man helps him take his mind off his ex
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I agree, it’s so sad. No one should ever be this broken over an ex. Just because you send a dick pic doesn’t mean you have to go on a whole journey of self discovery. Just accept the mistake and move on. I feel really sorry for him, either that girl is really putting him through it or he has other issues that do not stem from this, but unfortunately he thinks they do.
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RIP to this thread.
Hopefully he finds a boyfriend who sexually liberates him, you never know! Until then he’s never going to make an OF if he’s become this ashamed of sex, so sad!
That's something...
![hollidaybam_2582262333927538558_1_20210526202951738.jpg]( "hollidaybam_2582262333927538558_1_20210526202951738.jpg")
The first line of the caption is "Beware the pendulum"
The first line of the caption is "Beware the pendulum"
I felt this way at first, like is it his ex that's making him do all this but I don't think that's the case. He seems to be milking it for content. Lots of posts about his new direction in life, promoting his new values & this men's group he joined, etc. Influencers will be influencers. Instead of using his body to attract attention, he's using his "growth."
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Very sad. It was a ‘two year affair’ well it’s clear what he wanted.
I hope he finds happiness and is not misled
Here is his response about not being bi.
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And about having an affair with a man for 2 years of his previous marriage and considering this guy as a potential permanent partner.
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Idk, I think most manliness workshops are bs and he's lying to himself. Sexuality is fluid, but it's not something you simply turn off, and if you do, then that's what turns many men into closet homophobic pieces of shit. I think he fell too hard for these girls and they messed him up, seems like he'd do well in polyamory culture.
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And about having an affair with a man for 2 years of his previous marriage and considering this guy as a potential permanent partner.
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Idk, I think most manliness workshops are bs and he's lying to himself. Sexuality is fluid, but it's not something you simply turn off, and if you do, then that's what turns many men into closet homophobic pieces of shit. I think he fell too hard for these girls and they messed him up, seems like he'd do well in polyamory culture.
His behaviour continues to be odd.
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It’s gets worse. This is ‘man building’ is so toxic and dangerous. If you just want to f••k guys and date girls then that’s fine get over it Jesus, doesn’t make you straight or ‘seeking validation’. We all seek validation doesn’t men’s I’m gonna go out and f••k a girl. Besides the fact he’s clearly screaming gay. This is very sad to see.
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I don't know what he's trying to prove with all of this. I think it's very weird and toxic as well. I think I'm going to unfollow him on Instagram.
I think he’s trying to find a reason as to why his girlfriend/wife broke up with him and he’s blaming his sexuality and openness. It’s really heartbreaking to see and he’s going down a dark path of ‘accountability’ where he’s just demonizing certain aspects of himself and people in general. Yes I’m sure he cheated for validation, but that doesn’t make him any less bi. He was open to a relationship with a man, that’s not just validation.
I just hope he stops seeing whatever therapist he’s seeing now and can get to one who will let him know that he’s being self destructive.
He sounds like a mess. Too bad, he's hot. Hopefully he'll snap out of it and accepts that he's obviously into guys as well as girls, and just learn to be ok with that.
Aside from his issues with his (apparently conflicted) sexuality, I don't think social media is really healthy for someone like him, as it clearly plays into his need for validation and what seems to be compulsive tendencies. Hopefully he can figure this out sooner rather than later and learn to live away from Instagram.
Aside from his issues with his (apparently conflicted) sexuality, I don't think social media is really healthy for someone like him, as it clearly plays into his need for validation and what seems to be compulsive tendencies. Hopefully he can figure this out sooner rather than later and learn to live away from Instagram.
Total. Mess. All that “growth” and “soul searching” is so phony. Dude, just be real.
It wouldn’t surprise me if he gets heaps of gay men coming onto him and pressuring him for nudes, sex and to come out and a lot of biphobia on social media.
To me he comes across as a guy who’s like to have relationships with women and play with his Bi mates or buddy for fun.
