Excellent points, @theo_smago . Here's another point: what about guys who are straight for pay? I'm not talking about porn actors, but rather guys who get married and have children simply because society dictates it? The "pay" is the ability to keep a job and interact with the rest of society, getting the benefits allotted to straight men, who are at the top of society's totem pole. Straight for pay used to be the norm in prior generations, and it still exists in some areas to this day. Are these guys actually straight?