Seeing people you know nude at the gym/sauna

[Snozzle]

....(Again making sure my foreskin is pulled back) Come to think of it, unless a friend was uncut, no one knows I am and I will keep it that way. I do have an Hispanic friend who sometimes frequents the gym also. Actually saw him pull back his foreskin. I figured if he's going to do it, then so am I so he doesn't know about me although I want him to. Again, he's straight.

Why hide your foreskin? It's nothing to be ashamed of. They might even be jealous.

 

[Buddie]

Why hide your foreskin? It's nothing to be ashamed of. They might even be jealous.

You are absolutely correct, I wish I had one

Buddie

 

[masonjames]

Uncut men are the way we were designed. We, who were cut are the ones who are unnatural. It's there, when we are born, for a reason.

 

[herbho]

Why does just about every thread devolve into a circumcision "discussion"?

 

[George1848]

Why hide your foreskin? It's nothing to be ashamed of. They might even be jealous.

I would be jealous

 

[Snozzle]

Why does just about every thread devolve into a circumcision "discussion"?

Because it's an unresolved issue. Infant male genital cutting is an anomaly. In the whole of the developed world, only the USA - which makes so much of "freedom", compared to other free countries which just get on with being free - still does it. It's an anomaly in Judaism, which forbids causing pain or harm or marking the body. It's an anomaly in Islam, which worships a compassionate and merciful god. Those who do it don't know what they are missing, or often why they do it, but it's so locked into the system that they also don't question it.

You might also note you were the first person to use the c-word. This was about a man hiding his foreskin.

 

[briefsguy1993]

Can we get back to what this thread was originally about

 

[herbho]

Because it's an unresolved issue. Infant male genital cutting is an anomaly. In the whole of the developed world, only the USA - which makes so much of "freedom", compared to other free countries which just get on with being free - still does it. It's an anomaly in Judaism, which forbids causing pain or harm or marking the body. It's an anomaly in Islam, which worships a compassionate and merciful god. Those who do it don't know what they are missing, or often why they do it, but it's so locked into the system that they also don't question it.

You might also note you were the first person to use the c-word. This was about a man hiding his foreskin.

Look at the post before mine. I agree that this thread needs to get back on track.

 

[herbho]

Getting back to the original topic, I had a young friend whom I lusted after, but he was very secretive about his sexuality. I just wanted to see him naked, really. One day, I was in the local bathhouse and I heard a ," Hi." There he was , sitting in the jacuzzi. I went over and made small talk, being very obvious about looking down. I could see the goods. He was totally shaved and nice-sized. We talked for a while, then he decided to get out of the tub. His ass was small and tight ( the way I like it) and his body was exactly as I had pictured it. Unfortunately, he had to leave to go to work,so I had to stop and burn the image of his ass into my brain. A few weeks later, I saw him again. He was in the pool and came over. This time, he was starting to get hard. I couldn't miss my chance this time. I jumped in, and we spoke. We ended up at my house, naked in my bed. Several years of pent up lust all came out that night. So, you never know whom you will see. Sometimes it turns out great.

 

[1362255]

Several times.

Once, back when I worked at a manufacturing facility. My parents worked there, too and I was 19 at the time. There wasn't any need for me to drive my car when he all had close to the same shift. I had to wait for them for 2 hours, so I got "certified" and started using their gym facility as I waited. They had two showers in the men's room, however they hadn't any curtain; so once you stepped out of the shower to dry off, everyone walking in would see you.

Initially, it was awkward, then, if I'm honest, a bit exciting, but after a while it became ridiculous. I didn't want people thinking I was a perv for drying off after a shower, so I'd rush it. My manager saw me naked, the gay guy that worked in my mom's department saw me, several maintenance guy and some of the "suits" that didn't work with the products but rather, worked in the offices.

Then, two years back; I was 22 and a friend I sort of grew up with went to the gym. He's a year or two younger than I am, and we'd talk here or there throughout school, but we mostly became friends my senior year. We had the same art class, but once I graduated, we'd just talk here and there about Godzilla on Facebook.

Anyway, we decided one day to hang out. We both found out we go to the same gym. I picked him up one day, we worked out, and then it was time to go to the locker room. I changed clothing, but he went to the gym wearing his workout clothes. Even still, he'd hang out with me in the locker room. A little awkward, but to my mind I was like, "This must be male bonding. Alright." So we'd talk and, after my shower, I tried off, CAREFULLY.. but eventually I knew I'd have to drop the towel and get dressed. Well..

He sat right by me on the edge of the bench as I was standing. Even continuing our conversation, I felt it was getting awkward. I wasn't nervous about my size -- I'm not small and I get compliments on my penis, despite not exactly being 13 inches -- I was just worried about my trim job. I don't shave off my pubes, I just try to maintenance the area. Anyway, I knew he was looking. He just stared at it, brought his eyes back up, we continued talking, he'd stare again, back and forth until I was dressed.. Seemed natural, I guess. He didn't mention it and I didn't, either. We got a bite to eat and drove back to town.

 

[Saint Raphael]

The simple answer is yes I have, but the interesting answer is that I've seen some of the young guys who go to Mass at my church lol. All circumcised and very much natural, as in no body grooming whatsoever (one has one of the hairiest asses I've seen).

They're all cute in a nerdy sort of way and I'm not gonna lie, my mind has slipped back to seeing them naked in the locker room several times during the service lol.

 

[stonerbonerxo]

most of my bros know my cock size and i know theirs, we've compared.

 

[Gay Blatino]

I'm totally cool with my guy friends seeing my penis in the sauna even if it's erect

 

[dude77007]

Why hide your foreskin? It's nothing to be ashamed of. They might even be jealous.

Pulled back doesn't fool anyone (who is looking). We can see you're wearing a turtleneck down there.

 

[dunk89]

I dont mind personally being naked in gyms but my friends mostly cover up so I do the same around them.

Back in school days most stayed under covers except for maybe a 1/4 of peeps who didnt mind changing properly and being fully naked. Often it was mostly the guys who did extra sports. I guess they changed more often and didnt think it was a big deal.

In my local gym most older change naked, including me when not around friends. Younger guys rarely do.

 

[Buddie]

I dont mind personally being naked in gyms but my friends mostly cover up so I do the same around them.

Back in school days most stayed under covers except for maybe a 1/4 of peeps who didnt mind changing properly and being fully naked. Often it was mostly the guys who did extra sports. I guess they changed more often and didnt think it was a big deal.

In my local gym most older change naked, including me when not around friends. Younger guys rarely do.

I like your attitude

 

[Snozzle]

Pulled back doesn't fool anyone (who is looking). We can see you're wearing a turtleneck down there.

You make it sound like something to be ashamed of. It isn't, and the attitude that it is is deplorable.

 

[Amy Bare]

Why hide your foreskin? It's nothing to be ashamed of. They might even be jealous.

I think foreskins are beautiful, wonderful things... and give a man more of a look of being powerful, animalistic and mysterious. Definitely DO NOT hide your foreskin! Show it proudly! xoxo, amy

 

[archetypal_mystic]

So I recently made a friend in the sauna, lol... a cool millenneal, part time DJ and yoga enthusiast. Fit, tight bod. He never went nude in the sauna though, but I did. Anyway, we met there and struck up a good gym-bud friendship that is still budding. Joined him several times in the sauna over the year or so. I am always nude and do not attempt to hide my cock n balls. He looks me in the eye and speaks like its all cool...no issue at all, but never goes nude.

 

[lilguy11]

I had reverse happen to me. Some regular at the gym that I saw often in the shower but never really spoke with.

One day I am at food court during lunch hour with friends and he walks by, recognises me and he starts to chat. Was strange to see him clothed !

When you undress in front of people you know, it does feel a bit ackward at first, but I think that once it is done, it is no longer a problem.

And I would rarher NOT be hard since that would be even more ackward.Ofviously you don't want to be "freezing water small" in the dick department. But not hard or semi.

That’s happened to me also! I saw a man at BJ’S and seeing him clothed was strange, lol