Hey, I tried looking on your profile to find your age, but couldn't see that - so there's very little information provided to go on.
Here's my story & experience:
From teens to mid-20's very high libido.
Mid-20's to early-30's: On medications for health reasons + body changing, aging, etc. Decrease in the sex drive, went from j/o at least daily, to every other day, until it became a secondary priority.
Mid-30's (I'm 35 now): Due to some recent life changes, it's can be very, very different & fluctuates. It takes forever to finish, to the point where it's frustrating and I have to give up and just get on with my day. I have lost interest halfway through. The porn that used to get the job done, doesn't hit the same anymore. It's even to the point where it's more to 'clear the pipes' than because I was horny.
I'm not sure where your comfort level is on cannabis. It's legal where I am, and I get mine in a government regulated dispensary. But I have found that it helps me, in my situation if needed.
So, I'm not sure what situation you're in. But I hope that helps, or at least makes you feel less alone in the situation.
