Sex with a strap on.

[curiositykilledcat]

Even more reason to do what Moxie said and pamper her. If you help out and remove some of her workload so she has some energy she'll be so happy/grateful she'll let you do whatever you want.

LOL..what we have is strictly Catholic, guilt ridden sex...lights off, shirt on. She was more willing to play around in college, but alot of the action dropped off after marrige, and after kids, forget it. She feels guilty kissing our kids after giving me a blow job, and that's only twice a year. She practically puts on gloves before picking up our kids after masturbating, even after scrubbing her hands off with dish detergent.

I've tried the cyberskin extentions before and although she enjoyed the fullness of the feeling she really prefared the real thing.

I was wondering about those. It looks like the shaft, where your penis goes, has a really thick lining. The description says to "roll it up" when putting it on, but does it actually "roll up," like a condom? Or is it like putting on tube sox when your feet are wet?

Can you feel her through the lining? Pressure, friction, heat, etc?

Thickness isn't my issue. She's super tight, and can't handle more than 3 fingers. It's the length that I'm trying to gain. Any suggestions?

 

[B_curiousme01]

I'm surprised by the negative replies to a toy question on a porn site! It's just a toy! I would play if hubby brought one home, NP!! Why not?

If you don't have any sexual hang-ups and neither does she, open Internet Explorer and go window shopping.

You'll most likely have a happier, healthier, sexier, more fulfilled and loving together relationship.

Imagine how much happier the world would be if couples were willing to be open to each others fantasies without one imposing their ugly negativity on the other over a simple partner fantasy!! GOF!!!

 

[curiositykilledcat]

I'm surprised by the negative replies to a toy question on a porn site! It's just a toy! I would play if hubby brought one home, NP!! Why not?

If you don't have any sexual hang-ups and neither does she, open Internet Explorer and go window shopping.

You'll most likely have a happier, healthier, sexier, more fulfilled and loving together relationship.

Imagine how much happier the world would be if couples were willing to be open to each others fantasies without one imposing their ugly negativity on the other over a simple partner fantasy!! GOF!!!

LOL...that's what I'm saying!

But that's too general. As previous posters have said, toying for fun is one thing, making a spiritual connection is another. I'd like to blend the two.

Also, my wife is very conservative in bed. She likes the naughty stuff, but feels dirty doing it. She only wants external stimulation (clit, vulva) during foreplay, but when I press the issue and slide my fingers in, she goes wild. Then, after an explosive orgasm or two, she pulls the blanket over her face because she feels so embarassed about coming from the "dirty" sex act.

And is this a porn site? I mean, sure, I get a excited from reading some of the people's posts here, but I don't think of this as a porn site.

 

[irox19]

I don't know why, but I kind of want your opinion as of lately I have been wondering what it would be like to have sex with a chick, but instead of using my avg size cock, to fuck her with a strap-on with a bigger cock to have that kind of experience, that I know I will never have. Would you ever have sex with a guy that would use one for your benefit and his?

I've done it and I loved it. Wasn't my idea, but the guy had one because he wanted me to do it to him (which I ended up getting out of...not sure how I felt about it since he was pretty obsessed with the idea of being pegged...talking about it seemed to be the only thing that turned him on and it just got weird). Anyway back to me, I loved it. I loved it because first of all, the guy was below average and did not know how to work it, getting rammed by the strap-on ended up being worth the trouble. Second, something about it seemed so dirty and I loved it. Would I do it again? Probably. But more as a way to spice things up and not so much to compensate for what a partner lacked.

 

[4x4]

I've done it and I loved it. Wasn't my idea, but the guy had one because he wanted me to do it to him (which I ended up getting out of...not sure how I felt about it since he was pretty obsessed with the idea of being pegged...talking about it seemed to be the only thing that turned him on and it just got weird). Anyway back to me, I loved it. I loved it because first of all, the guy was below average and did not know how to work it, getting rammed by the strap-on ended up being worth the trouble. Second, something about it seemed so dirty and I loved it. Would I do it again? Probably. But more as a way to spice things up and not so much to compensate for what a partner lacked.

Sounds like a little of both. :biggrin1: Actually I see nothing wrong with compensating for what a partner lacks as long a both are happy. I certainly don't see this as insulting but as a relationship builder.

 

[closetfreak]

Mr S leather makes a nice strap-on harness for men. Pretty adjustable and strong although I think im going to make a new dildo mount for it.

 

[irox19]

Exactly. I think it's fun if it's just an extra thing to do. In the experience I had...it genuinely seemed to dominate what occurred between us and that's where it was an issue for me.

 

[BigDaddyJay]

I don't know why, but I kind of want your opinion as of lately I have been wondering what it would be like to have sex with a chick, but instead of using my avg size cock, to fuck her with a strap-on with a bigger cock to have that kind of experience, that I know I will never have. Would you ever have sex with a guy that would use one for your benefit and his?

First, do everything MsMoxie says. Make sure your lady is happy, and knows you'd like to experiment, and is willing to join you on the journey.

Second, get yourself one of these:
Penis Extensions and Ticklers - King -- MyPleasure.com

Third, Use a condom over the outside, and lots of lube inside and out. You may need to trim the toy down depending on your natural length.

Forth, go slow and have fun. You'll probably hear noises from your lady you've never heard before but don't get too enthusiastic, it takes a bit of time to learn to use a new cock.

When I first tried this toy the feeling of a large weight hanging from my crotch was amazingly empowering. And the unbelievable tightness when entering my lady was thrilling, as was the ability to thrust deeper in longer strokes.

The first few times I was so excited I was able to come inside the toy after my lady buzzed herself off with a vibe (while I was inside her). The look on her face when I slid it all the way in while she was coming - I'll never forget it.

My lady says she prefers my cock, which is probably true, but this is a good toy to throw into the mix now and then. Sure the feel and firmness is different, but millions of dildos are sold every year to satisfied women, this has the great advantage that you're wearing it!

 

[ManlyBanisters]

I'm surprised by the negative replies to a toy question on a porn site! It's just a toy! I would play if hubby brought one home, NP!! Why not?

If you don't have any sexual hang-ups and neither does she, open Internet Explorer and go window shopping.

You'll most likely have a happier, healthier, sexier, more fulfilled and loving together relationship.

Imagine how much happier the world would be if couples were willing to be open to each others fantasies without one imposing their ugly negativity on the other over a simple partner fantasy!! GOF!!!

This reply pisses me off a little. There is a big assumption here that saying 'no' to a toy can only come from prudishness.

I'm no prude, and neither are many of the other women who suggested they wouldn't be too thrilled / fussed with a man using a strap-on on them. Anyway - what part of posting here, on LPSG, means I should be into toys, or should be open anything? Why should I be being open to being fucked by a man with a strap-on just because I post here?

I don't recall saying 'I wouldn't do it, it's immoral, no one should do it' or anything remotely like that. The OP asked what we thought and we answered for ourselves.

If you actually read many of the replies the negative reaction to strap-on sex with a guy is all to do with not wanting to foster negative feelings in him about his own cock.

 

[dolfette]

manly is right.

nobody said he was faulty for liking the idea.
only a judgemental arsehat would say that we're faulty for not liking the idea.

the reason i don't use a dildo on myself is because it does nothing for me. strapping it to his todger isn't going to change that and, my personal tastes, i think strapons look gross.