fenris,
Where in my post did I say that I wear a butt plug "all the time"? I guess you missed phrases like "I sometimes wear", or "I often wear", or "most of the time".
Just so you know, I'm a sub bottom with a stable of five very well hung studs that I service, one of whom is a doctor, so I stay ready to answer a call from any of them whenever they want.
Using my butt plugs (along with frequent fucking) not only keeps me able to relax my hole to take a big cock without pain, it also exercises and tones the muscles. My ass is quite firm and I can put a good squeeze on a cock and milk it. One of my studs says I have a magic ass
If I was using giant plugs like you sometimes see on XTube you would have a point about prolapse. I've been using butt plugs for years and I have more control now than I did when I started. Being 57 I don't think I need to worry about "complications in later life".
My whole day/life isn't about preparing for sex, but cock worship and servicing my tops is an important part of my life and has been for many years. So what? I enjoy it and it's how I want it to be. If putting myself in a position to get what I want is weird then I'll just be weird.