I'm a grow-er, not a show-er so my "normal" flaccid size is around 2-3 inches. At that size, it doesn't get in the way of anything, I'm not showing enough bulge where I have to be concerned about how it may appear in public, etc.
At the extreme, after being outside for a while in very cold weather, I can shrink to about 1 inch flaccid! The issue with that is having to urinate. When shrunken, it can be hard to fish out of the fly of my pants and extend far enough to not get underwear or pants wet when trying to pee!
When in the company of women, especially in any kind of intimate situation, my flaccid size can be about 5 inches, but it really isn't completely flaccid at that point.
I've never really had any issues or problems at all, unlike those that are naturally 6+ inches long when flaccid.